That’s what I’m saying. It’s can understand the kids because I wouldn’t expect them to be fully matured. While the wife perhaps didn’t want to get into a relationship with someone with children already, she also needs to be empathetic to OP since he had no clue he had a son and work with him to figure out how to balance it out. It’s OK for her to be upset, but it is what it is and being angry about it as though the other kid who is innocent in all of this doesn’t deserve time with OP as well is unfair. The whole family obviously has to adjust and community and will hopefully seek therapy.
I'm surprised you aren't going to get banned for using Aspergers.. I'm shadowbanned here for using it on /r/relationships.
Yes but I hope this definitely isn't one of them?!
That’s what I’m saying. It’s can understand the kids because I wouldn’t expect them to be fully matured. While the wife perhaps didn’t want to get into a relationship with someone with children already, she also needs to be empathetic to OP since he had no clue he had a son and work with him to figure out how to balance it out. It’s OK for her to be upset, but it is what it is and being angry about it as though the other kid who is innocent in all of this doesn’t deserve time with OP as well is unfair. The whole family obviously has to adjust and community and will hopefully seek therapy.
Think she kinda lost the right to “communicating before acting” when she disappeared without a word & posted videos fucking someone else