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Date: February 11, 2023
I will probably never make 85k. You deserve to be proud of yourself and you're justified in being hurt by what he said. This is not an insignificant achievement.
Ask him what he meant, maybe it's simply a misunderstanding or it sounded funnier in his head. But if he really was just condescending to you, that's definitely a red flag.
And especially if it’s male female where women are trained to be in charge of the house, it’s probably easy to get away with for a while.
Why would she take plan B?
I mean, the relationship doesn't sound particularly healthy regardless. “How dare you lay about when I have to work?!” Is…not a fair demand to make of someone. It's your day off. If you want to spend it chilling out in bed (assuming you didn't have other obligations or things you'd promised you'd do), why is that an issue? Can you give other examples?
I mean, yes, the lying, manipulation and other bullshit you pulled after; also bad.
But none of this screams narc to me. What is screams is you likely grew up with shitty relationships being modelled for you, you've emulated them by picking a partner who isn't a good fit (and if she has stuck this out for 6 years, she may be in the same boat) and then you both are awful to each other, and now you've sort of killed all affection you have for her as a result.
It's a reddit cliche, but on top of therapy I'd suggest seriously considering ending the relationship or at least taking a break from it. Don't pursue anyone else – ideally, don't date at all until you're done unpicking this with a professional – but one of the things my therapist told me was it is incredibly hot to try and fix more than one thing at once, so either work on yourself or your relationship, not both at the same time. I would 100% recommend choosing yourself on each occasion.
If that isn't an option, then idk. Interrogate yourself; why don't you care? Why did you lie? But if this were the sort of shit strangers on the Internet could solve stuff like this with a few pithy comments, then we wouldn't need therapists.
More over, what indications has she given you that she’s interested in you for a relationship beyond a work friendship, or at all? ?I Missed the part where she was an eager participant and if @dynospectrum7s condition isn't met 100%, not even FWB would work.
You'd be dating an older woman, you're ok with that. She'd be dating a younger man, is she ok with that? Shouldn't you be asking women HER age for advice instead of women YOUR age?. ? 5 years younger would be my absolute max for a serious relationship. And that would be really pushing it. ?
As someone who was in her in this scenario…Ask her out if you think she indicated she's attracted to you, don't expect or say anything if she's just has a strong mom friend vibe and was being a great work pal. That's my advice. Take care of yourself.
You don't have to have the same interests as your long term partner, but you should definitely share the same values. It doesn't look like the two of you are compatible in that respect.
And here she is apologizing to him. Wish I knew her so I could tell her full steam ahead with Nick.
Always a red flag when rules are one-sided.
Yeah, I'd have a fair amount of anger in your position too based on her behaviour. After all, can't really be a “bad guy” for ending an fwb situation, heck, can't really for ending a relationship generally.
It's a small silver lining but at least her bad behaviour is confirming you made the right choice. Best of luck with the exam and moving forward.
If you’re a “giver” type person you have to know your limits because “takers” have no limits. Stop the giving and see if she sticks around. Lol
she had*, I hot stopped it in its time. since they barley talk. but the after effect was the separation period, and my thing.
now, it's like she's “asking” for my approval. she claims it's nude for her to become intimate with me bc I've been with other woman, and as a possible solution like a quick fix she thought of this one time pass. to get closure, supposedly.
it's important mention she never admitted it was an EA with him, but only friendly texting and bantering at work. but she did admitted she had developed feelings for him over time and probably to this day there's some remains.
You need to leave OP. Honour killings are real threat, do not stay here.
Sexual attraction isn't 100% biological. A lot of it is imprinted during childhood psychologically – men model ideal partners from their mother and women from their father.
As a result, it's changeable, and often does change throughout a person's life. There is a little understood part of attraction that is purely biological – pheromones that represent underlying characteristics. As an example, it's thought in humans smell informs immune system compatibility.
Let him leave. No need to think about it. Tell him not to let the door hit him in the ass.
I think you should explain the quandary you feel, even at the risk of this ending the relationship. Why stick around in a situation that doesn't meet your needs?
Yeah. “Oral isn't sexual” is so obsurd it's practically gaslighting. I bet he's gotten a few 'foot rubs' around town.
How “drunk” do you think he was? They wouldn't have let him in if he was so drunk, he's using alcohol as some sort of weird excuse. He cheated point-blank.
You tried… I’m not sure why your sister tells him stuff about you.., is she jealous since her relationship ended.. does she want him for herself.. does he want your sister and is trying to justify your breakup so your sister will date him… strange…
You shouldn’t have to fight for someone to trust you.. he’s trying to push you away.. but I would bet he is after your sister especially since she’s single again..
Move on and find a loyal boyfriend.
Yes I’m going to have to do this
Americans. Everything is about money, everything. “This person is my soulmate, but !money!” Fuck off and hurry up destroying your country, we need real estate.
It’s funny because in the 2010’s teenage girls would have walls filled with magazines and posters of Justin bieber. And she found that cringe worthy, however I feel that she was not aware of her obsession.
All I can say is that I tried my best to accept as much as I could, but when something had to be said, I communicated but there was no mutual understanding
You can do this. You’re not there so just do it. Block him. Call cops if he shows up.
Are you fckn kidding me?! You don’t know what to do?!!! Stand there and twiddle your thumb, watch him rpe your younger cousins, other lil girls. When you have kids, you gonna let him rpe them too?
What the fck do you think you should do?! Stupid ass question like that!! Ffs
Thanks for your input. I kind of agree that he doesnt care about boundaries. We were broke up for a point in time but he slept at my house one night because we were still being friends and he was drunk and didn't need to drive home. I told him he could stay and sleep on my bed if he slept on top of the blankets while I was underneath. I woke up to him having sex with me. But he was genuinely really sorry about it and kicked himself out of the bed and slept in the floor after that. So I forgave him for that, but it does make me think
Thank you for the reply. This is all very eye opening.
Why tf would you want to endeavor to TEACH a grown ass man to respect someone’s boundaries, let alone the boundaries of an SA victim? Drop this dude like a sack of hammers.
Real friends wouldn't make you feel this way. They would respect your life and your relationship.
So maybe it is time to take a step back. You aren't losing them. They're losing You.
oh so it's your wife's fault…
You wouldn't be breaking up with him over clothes. You would be breaking up with him over his crippling insecurity that he is making your problem.
She apparently had her reasons for asking. Maybe making sure she was reading you correctly. But it's nothing to dwell on since it's a very casual relationship.
Look up the revenge porn laws in her state. She’s sending this video without his consent, which may be considered criminal.
I don't have an opinion on whether you should continue your relationship with this guy. There are a lot of guys out there who haven't cheated on you though.
What she did is absolutely revenge porn. Highly recommend you tell the police. They likely can't prosecute, but a call from a detective will make her shut up.
It can be done, but there's a trade-off. My wife did the SAHM thing. But our peers who did daycare so both parents could work were able to do things like buy newer vehicles, or remodel parts of their home, which we couldn't do.
But you should also talk about things like what happens if one parent dies? Or if one is ill in some way? My father-in-law lived with us for a while, when he dementia got to the point that he couldn't on-line on his own anymore, but the opening at the assisted living place hadn't shown up yet. Talking about such life situations is very important.
The main point is that you don't want to make assumptions about how things will happen. You shouldn't have to guess about how a partner will respond to a given situation. You'll get enough chances to deal with the unexpected, anyway; talking about predictable things lets you reduce the number of challenging situations.
Do you know why her parents would disapprove? Is it a factor of time? Religion? Geography? If dating for another few years would help, that's a good option all around. But if they won't accept you because of your religion, there may be nothing you could say or do, apart from converting to their religion.
I couldn’t make this shit up if I tried! Actually, I wish it was all a made up story….but nope….it’s actually my life!
Simply tell him just what you said about an IUD cost for you. No way you should spilt the costs especially since the relationship is still in its early stages. If you two were married and this was an issue maybe then, but no way right now.
Everyone feels like that!!! Trust me on that! You wonder how your chest isn’t cracked in half because that’s how you feel, you can’t breathe, you’re so depressed you don’t want to get out of bed. Been there, done it! But there is a light at the end of the tunnel! I promise! I know you both have the same friend circle, but try to keep her as no contact as possible. It will help you to heal faster. You may want to schedule time with your friends just one one one for right now, so you don’t have a constant reminder! Constant reminders make it nearly impossible to get over…..
I’ve been where you are!! I know how it feels! But I also know you WILL heal!!
Ummmm it happened before you both met. It’s only as awkward as YOU make it. You broke up with your boyfriend, and ended your friendship over something that happened BEFORE you met him? And he or she didn’t KNOW that was the person you’ve been dating?
This is a YOU issue. It’s also a maturity issue. My ex and my friend ran into each other years after he and I broke up. They got to talking, decided they liked each other, but came to me and expressed if it made me feel weird, they wouldn’t. I didn’t care. They’re a GREAT couple. But they KNEW. You’re punishing people for doing something before you were even part of the equation. But, I guess you won’t have to worry about anymore. You’re now down a boyfriend and a friend.
One day you’ll have the maturity to deal with a significant others past. Hopefully.
This is fucking horrifying. My blood has drained from me and my skin is cold to the touch.
I desperately hope that you are both able to get away from this man safely
So sexy when my man does basic chores. Super hot.
My first husband, one of the first few times this kind of thing happened, when other people found out about his disgusting behavior. He just pretended that it was just all a big misunderstanding, and that he really is not that person.
I just really, really caution OP to be careful here, and to realize he might’ve seen this post and that’s the only reason he is acting sorry now. because there are hundreds of people ready to explain to his partner that his actions were fucking despicable. This is how abuse starts – small, and with love bombing following other people finding out how gross the abuser acted.
My girl.
So you know how the traditional wedding vows contain that bit in the middle about “for better or worse, for richer or poorer, in sickness and in health”, etc.?
You have been given a gift. You have now seen how this man will behave during the “worse, poorer, sickness” parts of your relationship, should you stay with him. Thankfully you have seen this glimpse before you jacked around and got married to this jerk.
In short – this aint your dude. Why be with someone who makes you feel this way?
Move on, and find someone who cares enough to take care of you when you're sick, rather than belittle you for whining about it.
Good luck.
It’s deceitful behaviour. Lying is a red flag. Especially if the lies are quite frivolous.
Just look out for her now, she'll learn in time I guess ?
Tell me he's indian. Without telling me he's indian.
Haha
Run. You were raped by him. Yes, you said yes, then you said wait, he said no and went ahead and freaking made you bleed. Then blamed you for your reaction. Wow. Super abusive and creepy. Run! You deserve so much better and that guy belongs in jail. Poor kid!
I’m sorry I made you feel this way but I wanted you to recognize how harmful is for you continue torturing with said videos.
I’ll try a different more PG13 intent. Are you familiar with Harry Potter storyline?
You get to feel how you feel.
I (44F) personally couldn’t be with someone romantically or even just as friends who expected me to respond to a non emergent text in 5 min.
My family, friends, and partner know that I have message notifications turned off. If they need an urgent response they need to call. I only check text a few times a day. I find it distracting to stop and check phone when I’m in the middle of a project for work or around the house. And I think it’s rude to be constantly on your phone when you’re with friends or family.
Don’t you find it hot to stay focused and study if you’re constantly checking your phone? I would have such a nude time getting back into the flow if I were doing that. But I also have ADHD and staying focused is hot enough without a phone flashing or dinging at me.