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Birth Date: 1998-10-08
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Date: February 11, 2023
I think her bf deserves to know yet I haven’t seen him for even longer and never even texted him before.
Mind your own F ing business on this one…I bet 1/3 of the people at the show were cheating, mabye you could find their partners numbers and text them too?
The train ticket with return only cost me €200 but It would cost me at least €600 more to go there (4 nights hotel and food and if I want to buy myself anything cute then more likely closer to €1k) and I’ll be mostly wandering around alone and there’s a garbage strike. I mean I’m sure I can find something lovely in Paris but I’m also ready to cut my loses at this point ?
I have a genuine question for you: what do you think it’s like for him to be in this relationship? Like, how do you think he would describe the experience of being your boyfriend?
I ask because, while most people would be frustrated with this kind of parental behavior from a partner, I wonder if you can understand where he’s coming from, and what is frustrating to him about the situation.
You make clear that you are okay with all of these things about you, but it’s pretty clear that he isn’t okay with all of it. If he were the one asking for advice, I would tell him to stop trying to parent you — but also to end the relationship, because it’s clearly not working for him.
He wants a partner who is able to take care of herself in the sense of basic hygiene, cleanliness, nutrition, exercise, etc. You are not that person, and no amount of shaking his head in doorways is going to turn you into that person. Likewise, no amount of telling him you don’t mind living the way you do is going to make him not mind it.
Your expectations are not reasonable. It hurt your feelings that he said he’d end it if you were purging, but should he just be totally fine with that? Most people wouldn’t be. He’s not your therapist, and can’t be expected to stay neutral while watching you self-destruct.
I don’t think you’re in a place where you can be a good partner to anyone. He’s not being a good partner by monitoring and policing you, but there isn’t really a way for him to be a good partner to you — pretending all of this is just totally normal and fine also wouldn’t be him being a good partner to you.