The thing is I feel like I give him all that I am. I feel like I am the one always reaching out to him. I am taking care of our home. I am scheduling and planning and organizing everything we do. I take care of him if he is sick. I encourage him to do the things he loves. I am the one engaging in interaction between us, from simple conversations, sex, activities etc. But may be because these things aren’t tangible gifts or huge acts of service there’s not really anything to show for it.
Btw….let the gym know, he should be fired for that. You don't look up a customers info for personal use.
The thing is I feel like I give him all that I am. I feel like I am the one always reaching out to him. I am taking care of our home. I am scheduling and planning and organizing everything we do. I take care of him if he is sick. I encourage him to do the things he loves. I am the one engaging in interaction between us, from simple conversations, sex, activities etc. But may be because these things aren’t tangible gifts or huge acts of service there’s not really anything to show for it.
Your gf is assuming you will do the same to her.