my gf and I agreed about it, I told her that she'd be able to work. We said it to our friends before leaving who were chill about it. We both recognized that it was not a good idea to bring them, and in the end it was my idea. The reason behind this is that my friends wanted to go there together for new year's eve and I told them that my family (who owns the place) didn't want them alone, that at least I should be there (which is understandable). Even though we recognized it wasn't a good idea and I apologized for it, the issue remains that they are no longer in a good relationship and I'm sitting on two chairs here.
I would never get married without my grandma there for example. Even if it means I need to accomandate her (and I do, given that walking for long is not exactly a thing she can do).
Maybe OP or their future spouse care about this person. They are not happy about changing the plans, but they care.
Yeah, their wedding is about the couple. But we are not islands. We have people we love outside that.
The fuck? Leave, find someone who wants to bang. That's not healthy. Sex is a normal and expected part of a relationship.
my gf and I agreed about it, I told her that she'd be able to work. We said it to our friends before leaving who were chill about it. We both recognized that it was not a good idea to bring them, and in the end it was my idea. The reason behind this is that my friends wanted to go there together for new year's eve and I told them that my family (who owns the place) didn't want them alone, that at least I should be there (which is understandable). Even though we recognized it wasn't a good idea and I apologized for it, the issue remains that they are no longer in a good relationship and I'm sitting on two chairs here.
Or maybe they care about having them there?
I would never get married without my grandma there for example. Even if it means I need to accomandate her (and I do, given that walking for long is not exactly a thing she can do).
Maybe OP or their future spouse care about this person. They are not happy about changing the plans, but they care.
Yeah, their wedding is about the couple. But we are not islands. We have people we love outside that.