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Room for live sex video chat Goddessofkosomak
Model from: lb
Languages: en,ar
Birth Date: 1990-01-05
Body Type: bodyTypeAverage
Ethnicity: ethnicityMiddleEastern
Hair color: hairColorBlack
Eyes color: eyeColorBlack
Subculture: subcultureRomantic
Date: February 23, 2023
Okay, so you do know what they are. That's not what this lady is doing. Take that up with her.
Sweetie, you're still young, got a whole life ahead of you. Take a moment for yourself to consider if this is the right time to be in a serious relationship or not, what you'd like to do with your life (it's okay if you don't know yet) and what you'd like to see and do. Be careful if you do decide go share some “fun” pictures back and forth, because even if you do trust him.. You only know his on-line persona vs him in real life. The internet is full or lies, fake media, and fake people. Just be careful my dear, on-line life to the fullest
Sounds like your husband is a sugar daddy. It also sounds like he is your source of income as well (ie fully supporting you financially). If you confront him before talking to a lawyer and taking screenshots, you may find yourself in a wayyyyy worse situation than just dealing with an affair.
Thank you for your input! That is what I asked for.
I'm currently going to my doctor as I have thoughts to believe I have bipolar. So I'm waiting for a diagnosis. I've had my antidepressants changed and they're helping. I'm doing everything I can to change. I had mentioned not to be harsh in the post..
For my gf and i. She is more open in this kind of relationship. She's even the one who said it first.
But like she had to hang up at some point in the next two years…
Girl you need counseling like right now, this is above reddit paycheck
That doesn't make sense.
Why do you tolerate him blowing up at you?
He yells at you and calls you names? That's not getting “wound up”, that's being verbally abusive.
He's already told you that's how he is and that it's going to continue. I speak AH fluently and what he means is he's going to continue to yell at you and call you names because that's how he is and he's entitled enough to think you “have” to forgive him.
You can wait around as long as you like but this is who he is and he's told you that. He's not going to change because he doesn't want to.
Thank you so incredibly much. I appreciate your response and kindness. Bringing me to tears lol
I don’t honestly know if he has an actual drinking problem or he just drinks in excess on really really bad days. I try not to judge because I don’t drink much, but when I do it’s a lot after a death or breakup or whatever on a night so I feel like I can’t judge.
I do give him a lot of leeway on that funeral night because it was an absolute heartbreaking evening and even my mom (who NEVER drinks more than a glass of wine a month or something) was so drunk and sad she was crying in my arms (her dad) and it bothering me so much.. because he knew that’s her dad and he went off venting about his own problems and called her a bitch for mentioning his issues and bringing them up … you don’t call someone that .. ever… he didn’t remember anything the next day. It was the lowest I’ve ever seen him. They did make up on their own and they both got over it. He was very apologetic.
I do appreciate the part of you saying like it’s better to speak up and let him be mad at me for a day rather than say nothing and at least he knows I care about him. Awesome advice. Thank you. I really appreciate you.
I agree. I feel sorry for her. And a lot of people say that she knew what she was getting into but honestly that’s a very hot lesson I had to learn myself. I thought that seeing a man be really close with his mother meant that they would eventually treat me in a similar way one day once we became family and I had to learn that that wasn’t the case.
Some things change in a relationship naturally as the relationship develops. As people grow closer and build their relationship, their partner becomes more important and more trust is built. Some things don’t change though and it’s naked to know what will change and what won’t.
I’ve been pushed away from him I believe due to my persistent relationship anxiety and anxious attachment (not to mention him growing out his hair). The triggering nature of his jokes also push me away. And of course when we first started dating we were closer than ever and inseparable.
I’ve never gotten help for the SA but I’m still looking.
And yes, his humor is seen as very inappropriate to his family and peers. I found it charming because I once had a similar sense of humor but have since lost it all due to my mental things that I’ve been dealing with.
I’m currently talking to him about it and trying to clear things out
Different ideas about their future… she decided to get sick and he disagreed with that choice /s
Time to leave. She’s escalating. You need to get out for your own safety.
When you are brainwashed aka down the rabbit hole, the subject(s) are always going to come up because it's very hot for that person to think of anything else. I have had lifelong friends disappear because of this subject. You can't help them if they can't help themselves.
Manic/Depressives get angry. BPDs hate. Manic/Depressives get elated. BPDs idolize. I have a mother with BPD and an Aunt who is a Manic/depressive. Its also a hot set of behaviors to describe until you have experienced it for a long period. Although I agree that a professional opinion is required, I also know that recognizing some behaviors is such a visceral reaction its very naked to ignore.
So you agreed that he would pay for something and that you would pay for something. Then he weaseled his way out of paying by getting someone else to pay it while you still have to pay?
Fuck that. Split the travel cost now. You are flying. You both buy a ticket. By bus, by train, you both buy a ticket.
Or tell him that he has to buy all the food and merchandise for the time spent there.
For a lot of pseudo feminists these days IF you have a preference ( and specially if you are a white cis male ) for a race type you are a racist. If you prefer thin girls you are fatphobic. If you prefer fatty girls you are fetishicing them and you're mysoginistic… and so on.
But hey, if a girl prefers a tall muscular and hung male, it's no problem, they are not fetishicing anything. Double standarts these days are astounding.
ID say just go NC , its not worth the drama. If , and only if, she contacts you and apologices properly ( tip: wont happen ) then I'd give that friendship a second chance.
You don’t have to “take a break”, just don’t make plans with him. Tell him that you need a little alone time or time with friends as you two have been spending a lot of time together.
Are you trying to work this out or something??? I would be gone. There’s really no explanation he’s going to give you that will make this ok. He’s literally out there trying to actively cheat on you. You’re ok with that?
So you don’t want him to communicate to you that he feels like you’ve let yourself go and he doesn’t find you attractive anymore. Should he just keep that information to himself and grow to resent you and possibly cheat eventually. The audacity to communicate. Wanting your life partner to be healthy and fit is not a bad thing. Sometimes the truth hurts doesn’t it.
How do you know someone has allergies or hayfever?
They complain about it all the time (understandable). It would have been no secret.
He most likely did coke, and he and his brother must have learned to make excuses to hide it from others, and using the same trick on you.
How long have you two been together?
Oh shit run. Mommas boy are THE fucking worst. That shit sounded gross as hell. ??????
I tried to ask what her definition of cheating would be but she refused to answer
They say only two types of people tell the truth. Drunks and children.
little update: we spent a few days away from each other and he apologized for everything and offered to be monogamous again, which i happily agreed to. we‘ll both need time but we want to make it better together
Use your words. You can tell her you're good with it, and she can respond accordingly. Separately, people like to handle illness differently. She might just want to be alone relaxing regardless of whether or not it bothers you. You'll learn that by talking about it.
It has nothing to do with tomorrow. I get that it's inconvenient, but you don't even know how she'll be feeling tomorrow. On another note, why are you the only one making the effort?
It wouldn't be clingy to tell her you don't care. It would, however, be simply frustrating if you refused to accept what she wants. Good luck.
Wow, sounds like fun! ?
It is when one is only 20. As a 26 year old, I wouldn’t want to date a 20 year old. You’re BARELY an adult. Can’t even drink in the US. 32 is a completely different life stage. And if the 32 y/o ISN’T at a different life stage than a 20 y/o that’s a red flag to me.
You’re delusional. “Accidentally”? Please… he was cheating on you and now you’re broken up. Move on!
I’d never say unkind things, however I’m very empathetic and it’s very difficult for me to “turn off” my feelings and not worry about hurting someone else’s feelings. I’m trying to get over that part first so I at least have the balls to say something. As for 30M, I agree it was horrible timing and decision making on both of our parts, but neither of us meant for this to happen obviously.
Change her number.. can’t go to bars? Yikes. I hope she leaves you
You find a way to move out, or do other things and only go home to sleep, go to the gym, go see friends, agree with your ex not to bring new people home, and then ignore each other for the next 4 months, or move back with your parents if you have that option.
You're worried about her breaking up with you? You should be the one breaking up with her.
She pretty much is openly asking for permission to sleep with this guy. How much more disrespect do you need in order for you to be able to walk away. She's just going to sleep with him and not tell you.
Screw boundaries. Tell her to pack her bags and get out.
She is literally high every second of every day. There is very rarely a minute where she’s “conscience” where I don’t here the click of a lighter.
This feels very… not legal
In what ways besides your age do you feel like you're an adult?
Has this always been a problem? Why did you marry him?
Wtf is CoD relationship official? I mean I know Call of Duty, but that sounds like stuff pre teens would say.
Thank you, this is great advice. I agree, there's no point in playing games. Might as well be honest about my intentions. I appreciate this a lot!
I love fake boobs ?
What is spooning?
Some of y'all haven't met anyone with autism or ARFID and it shows. Everyone's mentioning banh mi like it's some bland inoffensive food. Educate yourself on these issues. Banh mi is very far from a safe food for a typical Autistic person.
What? No. He might have the best intentions but no child will be happy when made study something they don’t like. And they’ll hate him.
No. If he won’t compromise, don’t marry him. Please.
why would you start dating a woman with a cups and just expect them to grow?? they aren’t going to grow unless she gets implants, which you absolutely should not encourage unless she wants. your wants are irrelevant here. you knew what you were getting into, and it’s unfair of you to have those unreasonable expectations of her.
I've been through break ups before but this one is hard to deal with. But thank you.?
Yes, this is correct. OP your ex-boyfriend (he needs to be an ex) isn’t just immature or a bad drunk. He is cruel. He and his friends intentionally and knowingly made you feel horrible, and sober him has spent days making the situation worse. Whatever good qualities he may have are far outweighed by this.
Ok, you want kindness? This is what my mom said to me when I was in a bad relationship:
If you had a daughter and she had a partner that did to her, what he does to you. Would it you encourage her to stay with him? Why or why not?
We can also flip it. If your (single) mom was dating this man, would you want her to stay with him? Why and why not?
No, don't lie to her. Bullshit is always the worst thing to hear in a situation like this. Be straighforward and just say you don't want to be with her romantically and that's that. Include or not include the in-depth reason if you want, but don't make up shit.
You have every right to feel how you feel and if you're upset about his ultimatum then you're upset. Honestly I would keep the puppy and get rid of the boyfriend. He's being outrageous and inconsiderate of you.