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Dude. If your terror and emotional distress is amusing to him? That's probably not a person I'd want to keep being around. How are you supposed to trust him? Like, it's not funny when you're the one freaking out. I understand youz are young but this is absolutely juvenile.
It's very easy to tell. First, a guy knows when he's about to pull out far enough he might come out. It's nice to pull out to just the tip, and put it back in, but you might slip out.
If you're gonna ram a woman hot, you should already know not to pull out that far because you might slip out and miss going back in. Even then, you know almost immediately you've slipped out, and like someone else said, it's very hard to accidentally go up someone's ass without a LOT of force, unless you have a very loose asshole.
One time, could be an accident. Twice, he's either seeing if he can get away with it or doesn't give af about you or your safety or pleasure. He could (and already has) easily injure you doing what he's doing.
Depending on if you can see his face in the videos, she should be able to tell if the photos are from four years ago as he will look slightly different/younger/potentially different hairstyle or facial hair. I think I would be able to tell if they were recent
Just move on with your life. Best case scenario she realizes she screwed up and is testing the waters to try to fix it. Worst case she's testing your resolve to see if she can manipulate you back into the relationship. Doesn't matter either way it's best if you continue no contact and block to prevent her from reaching out in the future
Counselling may help, and hold her accountable, but you need to lay this on the line for her, right now.
If you choose to remain in this relations, tell her this. If she raises a hand to you one more time, you are gone, but make sure that if it happens, you GO.
Also, she has to apologise to your children for what she did in front of them. None of this “I'm sorry if I upset you' crap either. A full on “I was wrong, I should never have done that, and it was a very bad thing I did, I'm sorry!”
Also, if you are going to counselling, the first time she blows it off, decides not to attend, or lies during a counselling session, get up and walk!
There is a lot for her to do before she regains your trust.
Also, make sure she knows what your oldest said and did, and then SHE has to explain to your oldest why she did what she did.
If you can forgive, I wish you luck, but never, NEVER forget!
Good god girl you gotta leave. It sounds like the first time wasn’t consensual????? What do you mean he didn’t tell you first?? He just shoved it in your ass?? I hope this dude has a tiny pecker cos going from 0-100 in the ass is painful and can cause damage!! Like wtf?!!! Take your kid and fucking run. This isn’t love or marriage this is slavery
Why are you so desperate to have a relationship with your son who you adamantly believe to be abusive? The alleged victim has denied being abused by him and clearly you still suspect him.
Why do you think he would want to be in contact with his mother who thinks he’s abusive despite the fact that she’s been told that he wasn’t?
Leave him in peace, it’s the least you can do after all he’s been through with his wife.
good point,, relationships are about compromise and i can't continue to be the only one making sacrifices to keep this relationship going (barely). thank you, i'll keep this in mind!!
It’s not complicated. It’s only been a few months. She’s lied to you and has been talking to at least one guy you know of. No need for confrontation – just end it
She showed u who she was OP. What happens next time u get sick, lose a family member and u fall into a deep depression or you find out u have cancer for example.
She's gonna dip again in the same cold manner because she can't be bothered.
This woman told u she didnt find u attractive anymore..
Not that:
she was worried about your health!
About your mental state!
About the long term effects it could have on you emotionally.
No just superficial shallow she didn't find you hot enough.
To make it worse. She didnt even support you while you were in therapy or encourage you or shit even want to listen to your progress.
I've been where u are.. i knw what a supportive partner looks like.. my husband who i was simply dating at the time was honestly along with my family just worried about my failing health and getting me help. Not wtf i looked like or if he was sexually attracted to me anymore.
You are much more than your body.
I know there are gonna be some commenters making excuses for her. And saying its hard dating someone with an ED. Yes it is. But she didn't find it very hot dealing with the stress. She wasn't suffering under you not wanting to go to therapy, she wasn't pushing u into getting help and battling this with u…
SHE LEFT BECAUSE SHE WAS TIRED OF HEARING ABOUT IT.
about something so monument that could have killed you.
You beat this! You did it yourself and i am very proud of you if no one else has told u that.
But do not give this chick the time of day. You deserve better than to go backwards! She seems untrustworthy and thoughtless. You deserve soooo much better and should honestly just put that whole relationship in the rear view mirror and look towards your future..
You know in your own heart the answer. You don't need us to tell you that he doesn't feel for you as much as you feel for him. You deserve and will find, better. Look after yourself, take care and I hope it all works out!?❤️
She’s 23 and I’m making some assumptions based on her being “traditional.” I’m guessing she can count her total number of partners on one hand and she never masturbates. I think it’s worth trying to have another conversation with her and suggest that she see a sex therapist. She’s probably not tapped into what she wants and is therefore unable to tap into pleasing you. She may even have hangups around sex being dirty unless it’s for procreation or whatnot. If she’s not willing to talk to someone, then I think you have to end it because you will both end up miserable. Good luck!
Dude. If your terror and emotional distress is amusing to him? That's probably not a person I'd want to keep being around. How are you supposed to trust him? Like, it's not funny when you're the one freaking out. I understand youz are young but this is absolutely juvenile.
It's very easy to tell. First, a guy knows when he's about to pull out far enough he might come out. It's nice to pull out to just the tip, and put it back in, but you might slip out.
If you're gonna ram a woman hot, you should already know not to pull out that far because you might slip out and miss going back in. Even then, you know almost immediately you've slipped out, and like someone else said, it's very hard to accidentally go up someone's ass without a LOT of force, unless you have a very loose asshole.
One time, could be an accident. Twice, he's either seeing if he can get away with it or doesn't give af about you or your safety or pleasure. He could (and already has) easily injure you doing what he's doing.
Tldr your partner fucking sucks.
Stop spending time with this person, you aren't in a relationship with them.
Depending on if you can see his face in the videos, she should be able to tell if the photos are from four years ago as he will look slightly different/younger/potentially different hairstyle or facial hair. I think I would be able to tell if they were recent
How do you know? Genuinely curious?
Just move on with your life. Best case scenario she realizes she screwed up and is testing the waters to try to fix it. Worst case she's testing your resolve to see if she can manipulate you back into the relationship. Doesn't matter either way it's best if you continue no contact and block to prevent her from reaching out in the future
Dump him.
What on earth would possess you to have 3 kids with this woman? She sounds horrid…
Counselling may help, and hold her accountable, but you need to lay this on the line for her, right now.
If you choose to remain in this relations, tell her this. If she raises a hand to you one more time, you are gone, but make sure that if it happens, you GO.
Also, she has to apologise to your children for what she did in front of them. None of this “I'm sorry if I upset you' crap either. A full on “I was wrong, I should never have done that, and it was a very bad thing I did, I'm sorry!”
Also, if you are going to counselling, the first time she blows it off, decides not to attend, or lies during a counselling session, get up and walk!
There is a lot for her to do before she regains your trust.
Also, make sure she knows what your oldest said and did, and then SHE has to explain to your oldest why she did what she did.
If you can forgive, I wish you luck, but never, NEVER forget!
Good god girl you gotta leave. It sounds like the first time wasn’t consensual????? What do you mean he didn’t tell you first?? He just shoved it in your ass?? I hope this dude has a tiny pecker cos going from 0-100 in the ass is painful and can cause damage!! Like wtf?!!! Take your kid and fucking run. This isn’t love or marriage this is slavery
She gave him a bunch of photos and list of her preferences and he gave her the exact opposite of what she asked for.
Why are you so desperate to have a relationship with your son who you adamantly believe to be abusive? The alleged victim has denied being abused by him and clearly you still suspect him.
Why do you think he would want to be in contact with his mother who thinks he’s abusive despite the fact that she’s been told that he wasn’t?
Leave him in peace, it’s the least you can do after all he’s been through with his wife.
But OP has already admitted that vile himself would judge his GF if the roles were swapped.
Then he should tell her.
God bless you as a husband! This is the correct (and very generous) response!!!
These people have not seen Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind.
I’ve had some really bad relationships in the past so to me this is the best man I’ve ever dated… now I’m starting to realize that he might not be
How long until your IRL date?
The only 90lbs really worth losing is his -10 stunted ass.
I don’t know if you have a domestic violence hotline in your country which you can call. They can help you make an escape plan.
You don’t always need to be physically abused to qualify. I think what is happening here is emotional abuse.
He's lying to try and get you to do anal.
good point,, relationships are about compromise and i can't continue to be the only one making sacrifices to keep this relationship going (barely). thank you, i'll keep this in mind!!
Yeah I’m a firm believer that body can remember trauma.
Does she have postpartum depression?
This is above Reddit’s paygrade OP, you need couples counseling and individual therapy.
You’ve invested in him. What he wants, what he needs. You keep pushing your happiness to the side. You want to be married. He delays the proposal.
Invest in yourself. Do what is good for you. Your don’t have to settle for someone who won’t settle with you.
It’s not complicated. It’s only been a few months. She’s lied to you and has been talking to at least one guy you know of. No need for confrontation – just end it
She showed u who she was OP. What happens next time u get sick, lose a family member and u fall into a deep depression or you find out u have cancer for example.
She's gonna dip again in the same cold manner because she can't be bothered.
This woman told u she didnt find u attractive anymore..
Not that:
she was worried about your health!
About your mental state!
About the long term effects it could have on you emotionally.
No just superficial shallow she didn't find you hot enough.
To make it worse. She didnt even support you while you were in therapy or encourage you or shit even want to listen to your progress.
I've been where u are.. i knw what a supportive partner looks like.. my husband who i was simply dating at the time was honestly along with my family just worried about my failing health and getting me help. Not wtf i looked like or if he was sexually attracted to me anymore.
You are much more than your body.
I know there are gonna be some commenters making excuses for her. And saying its hard dating someone with an ED. Yes it is. But she didn't find it very hot dealing with the stress. She wasn't suffering under you not wanting to go to therapy, she wasn't pushing u into getting help and battling this with u…
SHE LEFT BECAUSE SHE WAS TIRED OF HEARING ABOUT IT.
about something so monument that could have killed you.
You beat this! You did it yourself and i am very proud of you if no one else has told u that.
But do not give this chick the time of day. You deserve better than to go backwards! She seems untrustworthy and thoughtless. You deserve soooo much better and should honestly just put that whole relationship in the rear view mirror and look towards your future..
Dude nah.
That's the type of shit villains in a b movie pull. She sounds like the type to get mad at you for inconveniencing her if you got hit by a car.
You know in your own heart the answer. You don't need us to tell you that he doesn't feel for you as much as you feel for him. You deserve and will find, better. Look after yourself, take care and I hope it all works out!?❤️
Came to say exactly this.
Let the visa expire
She’s 23 and I’m making some assumptions based on her being “traditional.” I’m guessing she can count her total number of partners on one hand and she never masturbates. I think it’s worth trying to have another conversation with her and suggest that she see a sex therapist. She’s probably not tapped into what she wants and is therefore unable to tap into pleasing you. She may even have hangups around sex being dirty unless it’s for procreation or whatnot. If she’s not willing to talk to someone, then I think you have to end it because you will both end up miserable. Good luck!