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Riley, 18 y.o.
Location: Michigan, USA
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Date: March 28, 2023
What's stopping you from moving out?
That's the first thing to address
What do you think is the issue?
Don’t stay! Your inner peace will be the price to pay, and your gut will always tell you something is wrong and he’s up to something because he is up to something. No one deserves ti live! each day thinking and KNOWING the person they live doesn’t love them enough to be faithful.
Personally I believe that the custom of the wife changing her name upon marriage is outdated and rooted in misogynistic ideas. But well, everyone has their opinion. The worse part is that after so many years you’re still not over it. And even worse is that you obviously must have agreed to this at some point without actually being okay with it. You say you have more traditional ideas of marriage, why did you then agree to this? Why didn’t you properly discuss those things with your wife/then gf? Are there any other areas in which your ideas are more traditional than your wife’s?
People who carry on cheating in this manner and go to such great lengths ENJOY doing it. He's great at hiding and lying. The sneaking is part of the allure. Anyone so prepared in their deception will have difficulty changing, and if they do, it likely won't be “for you.” I'd gtfo but obviously easier said than done
I wouldnt be able to ignore that… he wanted her to break up your family…and for what? Bc u got a better job? Thats fd up…. it undermines everything u and her have and if she doesn't see that then theres a bigger problem. Her parents should be trying to help you guys succeed not trying to break your relationship
He knew that you weren't a virgin and he wasn't either.
You could have had basic vanilla sex with 10 people or the most spicy shenanigans possible with just 1 – the 'body count' itself doesn't mean anything. He could have been up to far more eye-opening stuff with his 2 than you with your 4 (assault doesn't count and I'm sorry that you had to go through it).
The truth is that he's insecure that you had better sex with the others and I'm not sure what more you can do about it than you already are. Maybe he needs a counsellor of some sort. Or an older role model to tell him not to fuck this up.
Ok maybe I didn’t make this clear. He actually never usually games when our child is awake. It’s usually during his nap or at night. However it then leaks into our time we could be spending together: and there’s no effort made for that on his part. If he does stay up late sometimes to do so, and in the afternoon if he’s tired I know it’s related to gaming late so I don’t feel bad for his tiredness. But he never games while our child is awake! Still though there’s never romantic gestures made when our child is awake or asleep.
Infidelity was the 'hiccup'!?
Fuck's sake, man.
I would suggest that you really dig into why he thinks all the cooking should be your job. And why he gets angry at you for minor clutter. And why he thinks you're the only person that has to try harder at cleaning. That's not right and not fair.
OK, let's say all that is true.
What relationship advice are you looking for? YOU don't control her behaviour, and HE doesn't control her behaviour. If he's engaging with her it's because he chooses to. (And you don't control HIS choices or behaviour either.)
You are clearly in a family that thrives on drama. There is no reason for you to be close to an aunt your barely know or weigh in on the dispute between sisters. Not your circus not your monkeys etc.
Why does he have SOCIAL media if he wants to be private? Definitely seems like he is hiding you from someone.
He hasn't been like this at all when we were together. He just doesn't see the point of lesbian relationship if they are used only for themselves and not to entertain men (he opposes same sex relations for men altogether)
Highjacking top comment to say be cautious, OP. From your post he seems aggressive, he could -if he hasn't already- become physically violent. Make a plan to leave, keep it secret. Don't tell him he's abusive, that could blow up enormously. Have a friend or family member be there with you when you're leaving and try to leave while your husband is out the house.
I wish you all the best. Stay safe. Good luck. ?
I am sorry, but your husband is showing you who he is. The person he is happens to be antithetical to you maintaining healthy boundaries for your life, not just for your marriage.
He’s going to beg, plead, and promise, but there is no reason for you to stay. Not even love is enough of a reason. I take a naked line against unprotected sex with supposed flings.
She shouldn’t respect you JUST because of it. (It should add to it and doesn’t). But since you both don’t respect you then the answer no longer matters.
If you are too unsure of yourself then these are the life results you get.
Definitely. As you say, other guys are attracted to you, he is not.
A piece of longerterm advice from me would be to not get too connected to live! relationships until you meet in real life. People want to think they know they're a good match but until you meet, you don't really know for sure.
Christians have a long storied history of respecting the beliefs of others….so long as those others have the same beliefs. For me, this would be a deal breaker. If you think otherwise, imagine him explaining to your children that wives are spiritually obligated to be subservient to their husbands (very common evangelical belief) or that just because they have to do shooter drills in elementary school, the real problem isn't guns but the LGBTQ agenda.
This guy is worse than useless. Might as well not bother with him.
Get to where you have family and friends who you can stay with so that you can stabilize.
I gather from your post that you don't have much money. Do you live! in a place where abortion is legal? If so, decide whether you want to have the baby.
If you decide to have the baby, get on whatever benefits your state offers pregnant women. File for child support once the baby is born and try your best to be a decent parent to the kid.
YES!!! I‘m so glad that atleast SOME people understand the concept of consent. My ex would tell me „convincing is not coercion“ like stfu
Sooo my roommates wife is this way. REFUSES to clean or help the household in any way shape or form. CONSTANTLY complains to him and he does EVERYTHING for them. I feel bad. This man will work from 6am-11pm sometimes and shes just sitting there watching tv, got home at 2 and didnt do anything. Doesnt make dinner or surprise him or clean up a little. God forbid she does the dishes she created. It drives me insane! OP, you need to reconsider your needs and wants. Set clear expectations and boundaries. She should be supporting you and helping out. I have diagnosed ADHD and i am always helping, cleaning, cooking, or organizing. Thats not an excuse for this behavior. Shes even doing it at others peoples houses! If you are in a relationship then this is a no brainer.
Leave now or sooner. He’s abusive too.
You being “disgusted” by him not wanting to bring in another dying animal is what’s actually disgusting here. It’s entirely reasonable that you what to, and it’s entirely reasonable that he doesn’t. You simply have different views. He isn’t disgusting for not wanting to do what you want to do.
You are being absolutely ridiculous in the last paragraph.
Does said child have a boyfriend? Get ahold of him and hubby will learn real quick how wrong this is.
He totally knows it's wrong though. He's grooming her to escalate things.
well i’m happy for you because it seems like you’ve got a great one and you sound like a catch yourself, even if you don’t know it!
touch as a LL doesn’t have to be sexual, it can be any form of physical touch like cuddling or holding hands.
it can be intimidating when it feels like someone else has it all together, but again he sounds very receptive, so just communicate with him exactly what you’re feeling. when you do so, make sure you’re communicating actual feelings and not thoughts. avoid things like “i feel you’re not attracted to me” in favor of things like “i feel unattractive.”
you did the naked part: you found a great partner. now you just have to remember this is not your ex, this is someone you can freely talk and express your emotions to who will be receptive of them and work with you to address them in a healthy way.
Thank goodness for that. These people are toxic. I'm so sorry you are going through this.
Block him on all platforms..
There nothing you could of done this is just who he is, and he is 100% going to date her.
Just block a d delete him everywhere and take your time, feel each emotion, let friends help you, but no matter what do not reach out to Jim, he doesn't deserve it, and all reaching out to him does is diminish his guilt like hey maybe I wasn't so bad after all as she reached out.
For me this is them time I would start packing my things and head out the door too much drama and she is putting someone else over you so nah o am 1000% out
I think your assessment of her is quite on. Wrapping her legs around his wait is not a hug. Tell your bf that she’s over the top. Whatever he sees her behavior or not ( which I doubt very much, nobody is that clueless) tell him you want to set boundaries . She’s not a child to be this over excited. Tell him you are uncomfortable with this and he should be the one to put an end to it.
This isn't the Issue Olympics. Stop minimizing OP's troubles. If we're comparing, she has it worse anyway because she's had a horribly unsatisfying sex life for most of a decade, whereas you have had two months of infrequent sex. You have no meaningful investment in this person and could easily bounce, OP is engaged to this man and the feelings are a lot more complicated.
The most dangerous time in an abusive relationship is right after leaving. It's terrifying. People stay out of self-preservation, not “want.”
Tell him in plain terms that this is not the life you want to live!. Instead of blaming him or trying to force him to change, give him the option of living in your clean house or not living in your clean house. He will make the decision for you. But you have to set the boundaries and hold fast to them.
Also, tell him that if he wants you to be his mommy, then you're not interested in having sex with your son. There is no need to explain it any further than that. Let the silence be the explainer.
I promise you, I PROMISE, there are guys out there who don't demean and belittle you like this. I suspect you have a low sense of self-worth but I swear, there is better out there. So much better. Please have some respect for yourself (because he sure as hell doesn't respect you) and leave this guy. He's treating you like garbage and you deserve better.
I would not date her if I were you. That's not something for me. You can plenty of research and see that ex's being in people's life is very likely to be a bad sign.
You can't make anyone cut anyone off, you can control your own reactions though, You stuck around for 2 years despite this, so do you really think she is gonna take your complaining seriously? There is clearly no consequence to it. Either you walk or you suck it up and deal with it for life
I'm not even fully gonna read this. Babe just know if it takes you a minute to cum a.) That's normal b.) If it would be anyone's fault that it takes Ling it would be the person trying to make you cum. 75% of women don't even cum. You're not broken. You're beautiful and your vagina requires talent and not laziness.
Obviously from not knowing you both, I can only give a limited outside perspective but when you say in the miscarriages you were dealing with it on your own by your self. Gives me an impression that he didn't want children. If I was with someone I truly loved and wanted to share the experience of having a child together, I'd be with that partner 100% and we would be consoling each other in whatever way that worked for both of us. Now a baby has come along his actions are showing that to me in my limited perspective of your situation from an outside perspective.
Honestly, you're fucking st*pid. You are 32 years old and have no common sense and you didnt even do a simple google search for sth that supposedly worries you so much about someone you supposedly love so much. You don't. You're just here to whine and want to be pat on the back. You're upset cause she doesn't look the way u'd want&she's too tired for sex. You're not even fucking concerned about her health. Shame on you. 1. If she has thyroid problems, there's literally no way to loose weight by just working even harder. Even if she starves herself. Especially that it affects other stuff like – her being overly tired. Hormones affect how our body process calories or keeps/lets go of fat. 2. Have you been makeing time when you take the baby/arrange care so that she can take care of herself or go workout?
maybe he was just insecure that you'd leave him? or that he wasn't good enough for you?
The reason why he wants to end the relationship is not because he is insecure but because she was very disrespectful to him by lusting his friend.
2 days notice when you’ve been talking about it for a while, which will end up benefiting both of you and your kid, is a HUGE Red flag. Literally ask him to show you the company saying his times have changed and he can’t do anything about it. He should’ve been prepared or the second things change, work on getting some help.
If situations like this repeatedly arise no matter how many times he tells you they won’t? Then honestly leave. Yeah, it may seem crappy when you got a kid around. But it will work out better at the end