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Not remembering things is understandable if you have ADD. I think anyone who understands these sort of conditions would be a bit more lenient when it comes to memory. I think there needs to be a discussion on alternatives that he would feel cared about that you can be capable of doing. I don't think it would work to push yourself to remember things when you have more trouble than most people. It is better to show other forms of care which he can feel cared about. If remembering things is a deal breaker for him then well thats just how the cookie crumbles and you guys are just not compatible. But I think this is something where you can discuss alternatives and for him to understand how ADD and other conditions can make some people have a harder time remembering things than others.
But you’re willing to let your daughter get treated like shit? Nice trade off, dude. /s
You’ll be back in about 7 years asking why your daughter doesn’t talk to you anymore.
Stop sacrificing your daughter for the sake of your sons. Your wife is a crappy stepmom. Step the fuck up and PROTECT YOUR DAUGHTER!
Okay, that makes sense. But her texts do seem out of place and her explanation doesn't seem right either. I'd be incredibly suspicious.
You’re having sex 4 or 5 times a day???? Does anyone work or sleep?
Any chance she’s experiencing post partum depression?
Because it’s completely possible that he’s finding it too difficult. It’s not about blame, you’ve decided to make it that!
He’s responsible for dealing with his own feelings and emotions and the right thing for him to do if he’s finding dealing with this relationship too difficult is to step back.
Not to mention how you made a whole post about what you wanted in a man and what you wanted now, but didn’t mention anything he wanted.. unless I missed that bit?
Yeah no. 6 months isn’t invested enough to deal with this mental bullshit.
323 days ago you were 19, and now you’re 21? Hmmm
He brought it upon himself
Don't meet him alone. It sounds like he is having a mental health crisis and if you are afraid of how he is acting tell him that. I would be direct with him about how all this is making you feel right now and that he needs more time to sort himself out before you can sort out the relationship.
Separate your money. What they did wasn’t okay and it doesn’t matter if they pay the money back.
Are you sure?
Oh no! Ouch! Yeah, it was definitely my injury. He said it didn’t hurt him but he’s just the sweetest so I think if I had hurt him, he may not even have told me. Thanks for makin me feel better. I don’t have any close friends I talk about sex to currently and my brain just decided to wild out on me worry style so I figured Reddit would do. Your story just made me think there should be a subreddit devoted to naked tub sex injuries:) I bet there’s some wild stories out there. I fell backward out of one mid-make out and landed on the rock pavement directly on the top back of my head and it’s flat there:)
Your gut feeling was right. He was already cheating on you with her. You should dump his belongings on her lawn that day. Don’t make it easy on him or the other woman. You have a kid to think about. See a lawyer, set up solid child support, and co parenting agreement.
You took a break, that’s a temporary ( or sometimes permanent) breakup. He wanted the break , but he’s “monkey branching “ to you to keep his options open . Move on from this guy.
If she spends all day with him, is she supposed to go back to her dad's house for every meal ? That's not practical or logical. And did you really say 7, I repeat, SEVEN, years is a “dad age gap” ? Seven is a lot of difference but it isn't big enough to be in the dad group. He would have the at least have a 15 year difference to be close to that.
Hey, I really do appreciate this comment and perspective. You're right that I'm not really giving it enough time and could just “get over it”. As I mentioned in another comment, I always convince myself that I'm overreacting, so I sometimes just want outside perspectives to help process my feelings. After this whole situation, it's clear I need to revisit therapy
Uk?
I believe he is doing the right thing. No intimate relationship should have a datable friend in it. The emotional component is given to friend. It prevents the Bonding of the primary relationship. It becomes an emotional affair. I would let go. It is the nature of growing up and pairing off. He is doing that with you letting go.
That’s why this is so fucked up, it’s not that he played a cruel joke while ignorant to someone’s unique personal history; he played a cruel joke and watched while the target became frantic and distressed far beyond any normal reaction. He didn’t need to know about her psycho ex to observe her reaction and think “hm, she’s freaking out and mentioned someone by name, maybe I should stop.”
The joke isn’t a joke anyways, but he can’t use ignorance as a defense either.
She's already pointed out that he's holding that desire against her. He'll hold this over her head forever unless something bad happens (God forbid).
It also feels trolly to me, especially because he says when he checked her location she was out at “the club.” Most people would say “a club,” phrasing it that way is like in movies when a character just orders a beer instead of specifying what kind. It's not how people really talk.
Lol im sorry to laugh but for real tho. Sorry OP. I'm very confused. You've never been in an actual exclusive relationship with this man.
Like if you haven't like normal people in relationships.. done stuff:
where u go on dates, spend time together, learn each others person habits in each others person spaces, spend time together with family and friends, go on trips together, had actual real life conflicts that you work through to see if you are compatible, speak about marriage and kids, finances, future plans. Not seen or slept or even spoken to other people besides each other .
If you aren't doing that. Why the fuck are u talking or thinking about marrying some dude that cant even call u his girlfriend?
You are a situationship jesus wtf even is tht title to go from that to marriage?
As a married woman this shit ain't games. It's not playing house! If you don't know the very intimate inner working, fears, dreams and hopes of your partner. Are aligned in values and morals and actual want the same things from life, have loyalty and trustworthy health in that relationship.
DON'T FUCKING GET MARRIED!
Just a little different thought, did she say for YOU to sleep with other people or for her too ? Does she want to have sex or might she just not like sex in general anymore ? Like maybe she is asexual ?
I’m not sure it’s consistent to say that you love someone but aren’t excited about them. I think a “satisfactory” future sounds awful. You’re super young. If it’s not a slam dunk, it’s the wrong relationship
She's living in my house with me. So she'd be leaving this house and taking the kitten away. Or at least that's the threat I've been posted with. I don't know if she's threatening it because of the possibility of her having bpd and that's the cause for the outbursts. But it is near enough abuse the things she says and the stuff she does. Albeit other than throwing things, she hasn't been physical toward me. But the mental abuse is bordering something I don't know I can handle anymore. But a mention of that, brings hell back down upon me again.
I care about her and I love her. But everything I've been reading tells me to care for myself more. And right now, the only stability she provides, is financial. Emotionally, I'm defeated.
Soo you intentionally spoke to a random girl, intentionally got her contact details, intentionally met up with her on your solo trip overseas, to intentionally take her out on a romantic dinner date by the Eiffel towel. Fuck off with your excuses lol ?? I feel for your gf
I think focus on the bucket list of 'going to X place with someone else also experiencing it the first time' is reasonable.
However looking at your other replies it seems there is a lot more at play, particularly the reality that it seems that initially he understood this and then backflipped when the friends got involved and he is now upset you are capitulating. Like to me that seems the real issue, and reframing your topic as the disappoint of him changing his mind and throwing it in your face a bit might be more accurate to the actual situation.
The therapist can definitely work you through some of this. I’d recommend put things on pause with bf. Keeping things secret isn’t great and very likely to blow up. J will text or comment on a post and bf will find out. I’d definitely still say take some time to be single. Then when you’re happy and not stressing over which guy, see what you feel. You might miss bf lots. You might still crush on J. You might be over both and be ready to date, which honestly would probably be the best way to go….
It was the age difference.
This isn’t love. He doesn’t love either one of you.
The person can get picked up and taken for a first-line evaluation, but they can't be held if there isn't still strong reason for concern after that evaluation. Usually, the assessor is responsible for contacting family or a friend for collateral, but if the person won't provide any contact information for anyone, the assessor may be left with only the option of contacting the person who provided the original report as collateral.
That said, if the patient is erratic enough when originally picked up, they can be held for a bit off that. And we aren't talking disagreement over being picked up. We're talking striking hospital staff or threatening people or being disconnected from reality in a meaningful way.
As with anything where there is a clinical decision-making process, the assessing team can make an error that can strongly impact someone's life, but the patient is seen daily while held and can be released early in nearly all circumstances if there isn't continued reason for the team over their care to think they're actively dangerous or seriously impaired.
If I was 9 months pregnant for my only sister’s wedding, and it involved travel or something, I would have had to sit it out.
Lol, dude, you can do better. Your friends are steering you down the right path from the looks of it.