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Date: April 3, 2023
So, she is in a committed relationship with you. But she cuddles, flirts and emotionally canoodles with her exes in front of you? Despite knowing that it makes you very unhappy?
Obviously, your and her expectations about one's behavior and duties within a relationship are far out of sync. Until those expectations are aligned, you're going to be miserable.
But the bigger problem is that she behaves in a way that she knows hurts you. That's cruel and disrespectful, and not the way anyone should treat their partner.
The status quo isn't sustainable. All you can do is ask her to change how she interacts with people or find yourself another partner who shares your definition of commitment.
Polite enough not to wake people up in the middle of the night
Holy shit, this is her modded out hobby car and you expected her to give it up to shuttle around her nephews around? And you lied about buying it back later?
I wasn't really on anyone's side here because ripping up the room is quite the overreaction, but damn, you're making me take her side.
Aside from her being insanely irresponsible, she is imo manipulative. She wanted to make a free nanny out of you. Don't reach out to her. Be cordial but keep your distance, even if she'll eventually reach out to you. And stop waiting for her to change her mind and start dating you again.
Why would you feel bad, if she has a vibrator, I bet you can’t vibrate as well as it.
I’m with you in this specific situation that I wouldn’t have driven.
But in general, I am not a fan of the “package deal” concept. I have a friend who is a real doll but we don’t invite her to anything anymore because she always brings her husband even when he’s not invited and it’s literally a “ladies lunch”. He’s a super nice guy and we like him. But having him there changes the dynamic and when we only get to see each other a few times a year, her dragging him along is annoying AF. So we don’t invite her anymore.
I think people should be able to do things independent of their partner and shouldn’t assume or insist that their partner is welcome at every thing. Same for people with kids. If your kids aren’t invited, leave them home or don’t come.
But again, in the “uninvited” scenario in the OP, that was a douche move at the last minute and I wouldn’t have driven them and would have been hurt if I were the GF and my partner had gone anyway.
First, do not spend any money on his house. Second, get your own place. You shouldn’t trust him because he isn’t trustworthy.
he has transitioned from name calling such as “you stupid fucking idiot”, “psycho path” “dumb stupid” etc.. to “I hate you so much”, “you’re the worst person I’ve ever met.”
….HOW LOW IS YOUR BAR?! Jesus.
What’s the saying? “Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?”
That man won’t marry you, no matter how long you stick around and he deems you “useful” in some way or another. You’re convenient for him.
Don't waste some of your best years on filth
You stomped on every single boundary your fiance had set in regards to his mother. You blatantly said you didn't want to blindside him but then proceeded to ambush him in the next sentence. I hate to be that guy but everything about this post just screams how selfish you are. – you communicated to his mother without his knowledge – you didn't tell him when you initially got the message from her -you blindsided/ambushed the poor guy as soon as he got home -you didn't want to hear what he had to say when you and someone he didn't want in his house are at his house waiting for him -every single thing about his mother that he has told you has been absently forgotten as soon as you get a message from and meet her in person. -you want to know how to MAKE him forgive you and trust you again
I didn't want to blindside him, but when I mentioned his mother, he was not one to budge; he always thought the worst, so I felt like I needed to do it that way.
Unfortunately you knew what you were doing. This isn't the first time you have brought this issue up according to this statement. As someone who has a husband with this same mentality and maternal relationship there may not be any coming back from this. And that would be his choice. Personally I could never do something like this to my husband, knowing what he has been through and how much love I have for him. I can understand why he would be rethinking the wedding. In his eyes you probably aren't the person he thought you were. Maybe instead of “how do I make him forgive me, trust me again” you need to be asking yourself, “what can I do to make this right?”
I think you should downgrade this friendship.
Dr. Ramani has a video on YouTube about it and it really helps in navigating boundaries with people while still keeping contact. I can't remember the name unfortunately.
The idea is that you assign grades to relationships and each grade is associated with different boundaries, and you are aware of those boundaries while interacting.
For me personally someone I cannot share good news with because of devaluing comments would get a D – an acquaintance I don't really want to have anything with anymore