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Notyourfirstrodeo17, 23 y.o.
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Date: April 9, 2023
Notyourfirstrodeo17, 23 y.o.
Location: tampa, fl
Room subject:
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You stop being so dependent on him.
You are 30. He only gets to see his family a few times a year, he currently has other priorities.
If you can’t handle being out of contact for short periods of time, your relationship is not going to last.
With how comfortable and confident this nazi was bringing that trash up, your cousin has already had these talks and agreed with these talks. She's already there. Also, who tf coos antisemitism at a freaking baby?!? I don't know why, but that imagery just sends chills down my spine.
Tell your cousin, face to face, one on one, that you're concerned about her change in beliefs and that you can't watch her and her kids go down this hateful, bigoted, disgusting path. That you love her as family but you can't associate with someone that believes hate is the answer. And if she ever needs to get out, you'll be there, but until then, you are anti- nazi and she's a nazi.
And then stick to it. I think before we could ignore the perpetrators and isolate them, but now it seems like that just encouraged them and we're knee deep in racist bigotry. So if you can safely say something, say something.
My whole family i dealing with some drama and they’re several states away so I don’t think I could get there right now but I might go crash at my friends place? He lives in a nicer building with way better security that you need some kind of ID to even get into the lobby so that sounds safest rn. Idk why but staying somewhere else wasn’t even a priority in my mind at the moment
Her prior assault doesn’t matter except that you were trying to use it as context to frame her a certain way, likely as a “broken” woman who sees everything as SA. In reality, this shows a woman who has had her basic rights violated at an early age and her vice taken from her. You continued that cycle by ignoring her voice when she had to tell you “no” five times.
Your responses to comments here show your default is to only care about soothing your guilt. I hope you move beyond that & mature.
You stated yourself that you pressured her. That is sexual coercion and should be assault under the law. Just because you didn’t break any law doesn’t mean you haven’t violated ethics or morals in social contracts. You perpetuated coercive sexual behavior that in a huge problem worldwide. You know what you did because you admitted it in your original post, you just refuse to be honest with yourself. And before you say “it wasn’t my intention” that’s a lie. Your intention was to get off even if it meant overriding her voice, her autonomy. Your line in the sand to get what you wanted stopped at physical, but clearly not emotional manipulation.
Is there a place for her to take classes to learn the language? It might help her meet others who are learning as well. Or even asking a friend or two of yours to help teach her so she learns a bit quicker and also has a chance to socialize with people. Isolating herself is making it worse. So finding ways for her to interact with literally anyone would be helpful.
Make a decision and stick to it. Your wife and child deserve to know what they can expect from you and what their future is going to look like. If you are not interested in working on your marriage any more then tell her this and continue with the divorce process. If you do want to work on your marriage and possibly reconcile then you should stop seeing other women
So if you compared someone to a frog what does the person look like in your mind? Just want a guys perspective on this
I agree. I've never understood the thinking that children need a sibling. No they don't. Lots of children grow up as an only child and they are fine. Just because OP and her sister are besties doesn't mean her daughter and their other child will even like each other like you said.
Im at the ER with her rn, Will update when i get more info
It is up to her if she decides to seek professional help or not. You cannot be her therapist.
If untreated mental health issues are a dealbreaker for you, you can decide that.
Nope. You picked wrong. Dead wrong.
Bro if she was going to wake up it would have been the day that kid was born. You feel it, right? Like as a Dad I can talk to you about the moment I really realized my kid was more important to me than I was. That moment that you're like “This child is mine, they are my responsibility, I got SHIT TO DO NOW” and that parent instinct kicks in?
You know that feeling, she does not. If she knew it, you'd see it. Its just there, or its not.
She will never change. You picked wrong. Throwing energy after her now is you being desperate to not be alone with a kid. Because even if you're parenting alone, rn you're not a single dad, and you don't wanna be that.
Accept it. You already are a single dad. You will be much happier with a step mom who you don't have to fight for control of the kid with tbh.
Literally the only good outcome. Good job OP?
I'm sure the whole thing was awful and sickening and twisted your guts but lots of people women AND men fail the test when it comes to someone flirting with them.
I could say more but I too am done trusting people and it would turn negative quickly so I will simply say good luck bro ?
You’re perfectly entitled to be hurt by this. I don’t think 3 months is a long time to wait, and you can certainly make it work if you both care enough, but it seems as though his relationship needs don’t align with long distance.
However, if he’s essentially saying “I get hit on all the time and I reject them out of respect for you”…is that the kind of person you want to be with?
Why was she a selfish so and so and kept her seat pushed so far back?
Op. Just throw the towel in on this. Sounds like she is ridiculously moronic. Go find a grown up to argue with.
Her story sounds right. Honestly I see no rrason for suspicions here.
I’m all up for “insulting” pet names, especially if it’s an inside joke. Hell, “you’re a piece of shit and I can prove it mathematically” or different pejorative adjectives flying about to the rhythm of David Bowie’s “Rebel Rebel” is a daily occurrence. It’s fine if people find it weird, we laugh about it but I’ll admit it’s easy to cross the line. Which is where your story ties into mine. The moment one of us doesn’t like the tone of voice of the “insult” or it’s just too much, it’s fine to say “heyy!” and it’s followed by an immediate apology. That’s how we both know that the joke just went to far which, honestly, is to be expected when inspired by Ted Lasso you just yell “oi wanker, want breakfast?” and consider it cute af. Bellend? My favorite word in the world!
Your bf says he’s joking but he’s not. He does consider you all the things he calls you and continues to belittle you. He gets off on your pleas to treat you better. He enjoys your tears and suffering. No amount of explaining will get him to “understand” your point of view because I can reassure you he understands it. He just enjoys where you’re at. He is an abusive jerk and you need to get as far away from him as possible, as quickly as possible.
Take this from me. I know dark humor and deprecating jokes. I online this everyday and I enjoy it. But when it’s really meant as a joke, one look is enough to communicate that it has gone too far. Get away from your abuser and under no circumstances suggest couples therapy with him.
Me too. Also there's this line:
His mom left him when he was 6 and his dad had to work all the time to support him and his brothers
So, his dad was a single parent who had to work super hard to support his kids yet he was sending them to a private school that was super expensive? Makes no sense.
The author could have solved this problem by making it a boys only school instead of an expensive private school.
I thought i did. I guess i didn’t fully, but i think i could’ve if he did. He projects it onto me like this every 6 months or so.
I read a few papers, and they all agree that immunotherapy has not worked as well for sarcoma.
I did read one paper, and this is part of the conclusion it came to.
“While it is difficult to adequately capture the complexity of sarcomas, it appears combination therapies involving ICBs are likely the path forward. As described above, ICB combinations with OVs, antigen targeting vaccines, and ACT will provide a holistic path towards treatment.
ICB is immune checkpoint blockade drugs. These allow t cells to kill cancer easier.
OV is oncolytic viruses that attack the cancer directly or cause your body to attack tumors better.
Antigen targeting vaccines I think are exactly what they sound like. They find mutations in the cancer cells they think your body will respond to, put them in a Virus to make a vaccine, and inject it into you. Your body makes antibodies against the mutation targets and allows it to kill cancer more easily.
ACT im fairly certain is the same thing that I know of as TILs therapy. They take a biopsy of tumors if they are present, and they collect immune cells that are attacking the tissue. These are specifically trained to kill the cancer off already. They then grow them in a lab in large numbers and inject them back into you along with some medicine that makes it easier for it to kill the cancer cells. Something similar to the ICB's, I think.
My brother in law has stage 4 lung cancer due to a genetic mutation. He was on an immunotherapy that stopped working, and he is on his second now.
When that stops working, he'll go onto ACT.
If that doesn't work or if the disease progresses, they will then try the oncolytic viruses, but the results from that aren't expected to be great for his type of cancer.
Have your doctors discussed any of these treatments with you before? Most of these are not FDA approved, so they are still in the testing phase. It's possible they might not do them at the hospital you go to. We have a very small cancer research hospital here, and we went to that place for a second opinion, and decided to stay there for his treatment because all of the big hospitals refer patients there for these later treatments anyways.
It's not that I'm dumping it on her, it's that I'm not gathering whether or not she'd be able to go along with the plans ahead of time, and then she has to swoop in and take what she feels is the “blame” even though nobody would be rude or have an aggressive tone towards her. This is my first post here, so excuse any lacking info. Idk how to post to my best ability just yet.
Op, you are a good catch. If I were only single….
I mean to some degree he's not wrong. Being apolitical is always from a place of extreme privelleg and in cases like the current US where fascism is actively being pushed all it does is aid the fascists. That's part of the white supremacists strategy. To burn you out do you stop caring. How that reflects in an interpersonal relationship is another thing entirely. But you should realize that huge swaths of the population simply can't afford to say “fuck the news” because the news is all about how one side is actively trying to remove all their rights and in many cases execute them or carry out genocide against them
He's definitely either trolling or he's absolutely guilty of more than he said
Exactly thank you
I'm thinking it's her ex, and she doesn't want to tell you she's in contact with him. Same shit happened to me.
Already edited. Doesn’t change what I said
I am also missing what came of it. Like, what was the diagnosis? Is she still behaving differently? And if posting weird shit is enough to get forcibly committed by men in white coats breaking down your door, why is my neighborhood not empty?
Have ever you been married with kids? Do you understand how difficult it is to have any conversation with your partner when you have kids? Why is it that some random guy of less than a year all the sudden unlocking these topics? Sounds damn fishy to me…. Also why is a CO-WORKER giving you books about sexual fantasies? Why can't people just go to work without wanting to fuck each other cause someone noticed me….?
No, most of my mutual friends with her are friends who graduated 2 years before me and it says she went to school with them too