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I do t know, she hasn’t mentioned it and I guess she’s afraid to ask since she’s new and I don’t blame here for that,
Is it possible that he is just being nice in a weird way without being a creep?
No. He's a creep of the highest order. I'm sorry he is subjecting you to that crap. How would you feel about taking it to HR? Does that feel like an option to you or do you get the sense it wouldn't change anything?
I would get a lawyer and to bring up his Criminal past to the lawyer an see if you can get full custody also keep us updated.
A new relationship is about having fun and not laying all your problems on him. Start slowly…get to know each other…give it time…don't break up. Tell him little by little. I once went out on a date and he told me all his problems during dinner…never saw him again…nice guy…but it was too much for me.
What stands out to me is the fact that he didn’t state why he’s been quiet.
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Okay i thought that weed does have an impact
He showed you who he is.
Just believe him.
And no… an “I love” you spoken in bed or on your way to bed doesn't mean anything.
Sorry to say that.
I am also a Personal Assistant to my director. And never in my life, would I think of jump hugging him or inviting him over to my place for “work” purposes.
It doesn't seem that you were too coy.
I get the impression that you were a bit annoyed about him prodding you about your ex so you threw him making that awkward pass at another woman in his face. He took that as flat rejection or just dismissal of him as a person.
And then he cut contact because… yeah. He assumes you think he is a future rapist in the making. I think he showed red flags as a person in general, but him cutting all contact in this context makes sense.
I don't think it shows he didn't care. He literally asked you out. Twice.
This is a tricky situation. You can try to talk to him about how you like his gf, but you and your brother are uncomfortable with her being there all the time. He will probably get upset, so be prepared for that. He needs to understand this isn't his place alone. There needs to be a compromise.
Think she’d give the same 10/10 to the other pillars in your relationship?
She obviously needs therapy
The dog is not ruining your relationship. Your boyfriend is. He’s the one not making the dog sleeping in it’s own bed when you’re over. He’s the one no shutting the dog out of the bedroom when you’re intimate, and letting go of your hand to stroke the dog. He also hasn’t trained it to not eat food of peoples plates. None of my dogs have ever been this poorly trained.
The irony of calling a guy creepy when a bunch of women are discussing him without his knowledge is amazing.
Absolutely, she even told me to come see her if I needed to. Which I'll probably need to as well as tell my sister, dad, etc.
I appreciate your input! Great point. ❤️
the rain man of sex lmaooo
kick this man to the curb OP. you writing this as if he’s the victim here along with mentioning how he gets “really angry” about sex is telling enough.
So split up. I don't know what you're looking for here. It's your decision.
that was part of my argument! I'm lucky to have a job where it is semi-acceptable to bring your children with you. I have made so many nanny friends that started their own families and were able to bring their babies with them, but they all told me that it wasn't easy finding employers that were willing to allow that which is why I said I wanted to stay home… that would have been a good idea to add to the og post :/
Well, you need to respond by speaking plainly “I love you as a friend and all, but I really do not appreciate your constant nagging at me and jesting about me being bi or gay. I don’t treat you like that and I find it very disrespectful of you to carry on doing something you know I do not like. It also makes me feel like you do not accept me for who I am and that’s pretty sad of you to do. Moving forward, if we are to continue this friendship, you need to stop immediately. If you feel you can’t control yourself then it is best we just part ways now.”
He told you when you got together that he never wanted to get married. If he genuinely wanted it he wouldn’t have needed to “come around.” You would’ve gone into the relationship with compatible goals already.
This is what marriage counseling is for.
The racist told on himself, let the trash take itself out and drop his ass.
These things never work out. Being poly isn't a sexual orientation, you're not born with it, and you don't “come out” as it. What it means when someone in a monogamous relationship “comes out” as poly is that they're bored and want to cheat, or they've already started cheating, and they want your permission.
If you don't want a relationship where your girlfriend constantly cheats on you and pretends it's a legitimate situation then I'd go ahead and break up now, you'll save yourself a lot of heartache.
If I had to guess I’d say it’s ruined with the new girl unfortunately
Sounds like you'd be better off without her anyway
Agreed on all counts. I’ve also worked alongside officers for a long time and affairs with coworkers are SUPER common. And always end horribly, or at least with maximum awkward in the workplace.
Sounds like you have tried talking to her. Some people only learn the hot way.
I don't think OP is making excuses or calling it less predatory. She acknowledges the double standard (rightly so) and says something in the lines of: I'm not sure why I'm in doubt of this behaviour, if it were a man I would have made up my mind already. But maybe I am reading that wrong.
I wouldn't think twice about allowing my husband access to my phone (he regularly uses it if he doesn't have his to hand and wants to search for something, etc) but I would be uncomfortable knowing he wanted to check it because he had suspicions about my motives, and that may change my attitude towards it.
I think even as part of a couple, you should have a right to privacy. Nobody should have automatic rights to look at their partners private information.
Some people just feel more strongly about it than others. That could be because they have a reason to be anxious about what their partner might see, but it may also be because they feel strongly about their privacy.
I think it's a positive thing that your partner has always had this opinion and has never given you reason to want to look at his phone – I wouldn't let it bother you.
Plus I always got the feeling that if somebody was totally willing to let you look through their phone when you asked, and they were doing you the dirty, they're probably smart enough to hide or delete the incriminating evidence!
It’s called love bombing and most people hate it when it goes on after the first month or so. It stops being cute and starts being repetitive, because the person is taking a very lazy route to showing their affection.
Unfortunately you can't want things for other people. You can't help people who don't want to help themselves, it's just not possible, can't be done. He doesn't seem to want to do anything about his situation. Motivation needs to come from within, you can't create internal motivation in another person. Yes, you can encourage other people to find their internal motivation, but you have already tried that, for YEARS, and it didn't work. It's just not there. Even if you leave, his internal motivation might never be there. Whatever the case, there's nothing you can do to change him, he needs to want to change himself, and he doesn't want to, at all. So you need to decide what's best for you in this situation, knowing that he will not change because he doesn't want to change and he might never want to change.
because we were so connected and it was just a different feeling.
The F in FWB does mean friend. So ask friend questions. He’s probably getting more attracted to you or something. It’s kinda hot to have frequent sex with someone without catching feelings. You did say you’re catching them after all.
Thank you for the detailed explanation and understanding, the answer is yes. He had a very rough childhood and I know that’s been difficult for him, but all four of these ring true to varying degrees throughout our relationship. Was your ex able to try anything that helped to reshape this thinking?
A 29 year old who moved out, has a part time job, and has her bills paid by her parents. Lives 5 minutes away.
Why did she even move out then?
Never a bad idea to get the banjo out
trust me i am trying. i’ve tried to be realistic but i won’t lie i’m overly optimistic to a fault. i just have always felt like if there’s a will there’s a way. and if two people want it so badly then there has to be something.
i won’t lie as well, i’ve really only ever seen healthy relationships between my grandparents and movies as my parents were in an actual abusive relationship.
Oh man. I never did something like this to my girlfriend and if I did and she brought it to my attention I would apologize. Could be that he was embarrassed of cheering you to seem like he is head over heels with you. How long have you been in a relationship?
Thank you. I appreciate the advice.
I think the first thing to ask is if your girlfriend likes being given gifts.
Yeah I understand but since she was the one to insist we shouldn't lose contact it's really weird. I am going to talk to her about that and see what she truly feels. Thanks a lot ?
The issue is not the ring. You’re not compatible. When you are with the right person conversations like that are easy. They aren’t easy but they feel easy. I think you should rethink the relationship
She outed herself as a woman who cares about appearances, and that your worth is what you can bring to her in clout.
When she tells you that you bring yourself down, what she means is that she can do much better than you.
It is! Very wonderful relationship and I love her very much. I’ll check it out!
You aren't ready for a house, point blank. End of story. Whether he gets a house or not, you are uninvolved, at every step of the way. No name on lease, no money towards, etc. Even if he gets a house, nothing says you have to move in with him. If it's too far away because of your travel arrangements, then, don't move in with him. You are who you are. If he's so awesome and analytical, he shouldn't need you. At no point should he be dependent on you to make his plans work. He should want you. Not need you. Dependency is bad.
You can't offer what you can't offer. You have needs, too. And boundaries. If this crosses them, it crosses them. He has his own life to online and if he wants to get the house, there's no reason you should stop him. But if you aren't ready to join him, then, don't. He's either okay with that, or you two aren't a match and you both should move on.
No you're not being too sensitive, I have bipolar disorder and went off my meds with all my pregnancies and learned techniques to keep me balanced and calm. I wore headphones and listened to music when I was overwhelmed and my baby wouldn't stop fussing despite having everything they needed, it's a coping mechanism and honestly we should stop judging parents for how they cope if it's safe and causes no harm to the baby/child.
That’s easy to say from an outsider perspective. I stuck with her for two years of being completely sexually unsatisfied. And we tried so many things during that time. I understood her situation. We both worked out asses off to try to fix the situation. I was just constantly feeling like I couldn’t please her and was left horny all of the time having to jerk off for two years.
She's doing more than he is. He has a two year old. He doesn't get to just play video games non stop, sleep 10 hours a night, and pass out when he's supposed to be watching his children. That's not how parenting works.