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Date: April 11, 2023
That shift from “in love” to “love” is pretty well known to shift what makes you feel right and what you care about. It can be different for everyone and between partners so it doesn’t necessarily mean anything more than you do not need sex to feel loved. Of course most healthy young people should have some kind of biological sex drive so pay attention to your health if you think somethings not adding up. And if your bf feels like sex means something in the love eq, then you have to pay attention to that as well or he could feel neglected and hurt even when you think your loving him your way.
Just have her read this. You explained it quite reasonably here.
Yo. I have been in an awkwardly similar situation before. Fell for a girl in uni times, we had that connection you can't describe in words, it was absolutely magical and I would say she was the love of my life.
It started exactly as for you guys, it was too intense for her and she backed out. She was afraid. I loved no woman more than her and no women since her came close to that feeling.
It has been 7 years for me and I still think about her. But honestly, if it doesnt work, it doesnt work. Pack your bags and take the L and move on with your life, you don't have unlimited time for these things. You will only break yourself down even more, trust me. You don'T want to fight so long for her until you literally have to back out because you get afraid of depression and everything that might follow.
Just don't. Be smarter.
But the thing is she's the sweetest person when she's not mad
That should tell you everything you need to know. If you need a disclaimer about a person, you run. If a woman told you her boyfriend was the sweetest guy but sometimes loses his temper and hits her, would you tell her to even consider staying? Does being sweet when she's not mad make it worth dealing with her when she is mad? I doubt it.
She's clearly emotionally immature if she gets mad at you for not knowing something without her telling you. It doesn't matter if you're bad a picking up hints, if it's important, she shouldn't be hinting about it, she should be having a conversation about it. And then she gets mad and emotionally abusive towards you because she fails to communicate. Do not continue to put up with her behavior.
i had this problem w my ex. i was lucky cause he would fall asleep immediately and was dead to the world until seven thirty and i could wiggle out from under him, go downstairs and eat cake and he was none the wiser. the burrito idea is a good plan though if i ever find myself in a cuddling situation
How much are you actually talking? She's feeling just like you, bud. You're both acting shy and trying not to seem too eager or vulnerable. Take charge or let time do what it's gonna do with y'all.
You might consider consulting with the folks over at the sub “nonmonogamy” if y’all are walking down this path.
So you cut things off because he dated someone not long before you met him?
Unless you left things out then you just come off as judging this guy for no reason whatsoever.
Oh my…I think you’re right! I totally blocked that info from my mind!
Technically, yeah, three weeks isn't generally enough time to process a breakup. But some people are able to go straight from one relationship into another and actually stay there for a while. Only time will tell.
Thank you for the reality check. Definitely not planning on policing her..
Maybe it’s fomo that I’m having because I wish i was the one with her while she’s looking that good
All of his actions that you are describing are very abusive. I hope you are able to find a way to divorce/escape from this man.
Not to man splain but I think the research actually says 9-12 months before even introducing kids, let alone moving in. But ultimately I agree with what your saying and while I empathize with OPs situation it doesn't make it any less risky of a decision.
If this is a real post, then no its unforgivable.
As you are entering adulthood (very difficult for many young people) you will need to have strong and unbreakable boundaries.
You should never in your entire life, have a partner like that.
Keep calling therapists and fix your issues you are on the beginning of a right path.
After therapy you will be at a normal confidence and self respect level, no more accepting insanity.
And I agree calm discussion are way better. But he doesn't respond, (the silent treatment) or responds with “I've no issue, I'm fine”.
You should tell him you are considering divircing him. His reaction should deflecting, but what you need to tell him that you have enough if his lies.
He has lied to you too many times, you do nit trust him, and his relation with his work-wife. That's what she is btw.
Tell him you either hear from him more than his lies, or you have nothing to talk about, and you can't stay with him. You should add that it is humiliating to be lied to your face by your husband have to dig for truth.
Hopefully you eill hear truth, at this point, otherwise you really need divorce. If you do hear it, or at least larger part of it, you should make demand of him. That depends on what tbe truth is, but you might want them to cease having any contact, if it was a proper emotional cheating. If he needs to wuit his job for that, oh well, should have thought about it earlier.
This must not be negotiable btw.
This is really odd to me. Why mess with your children’s whole world just to take a shot at their father? It doesn’t make sense. The lie would come to light sooner or later. I would have her mental health evaluated but keep her at a distance. Is this how she’s always been? Could she be having complications with menopause? My mom lost her shit for a few years in her 50’s. She didn’t make up stories though, just stress coping issues.
Stop sharing.
Or more importantly, find someone that shares in your accomplishments.
At 30, I'd say that this is who he is and he isn't going to change.
How is your requirement that they be fit when she has been fat the entire time…
This is silly, I’m sorry. I agree with the trust part. But mature people with different “body counts” are fully capable of accepting their different pasts.
Right? Thank you!
Toys aren’t competition, except when they’re a replacement. It’s safe to say you aren’t compatible in this way, and if you see fhis as a dealbreaker, you aren’t wrong.