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Date: October 4, 2022
As a fat woman (240lbs and 5ft4) – thank you! This comment is great.
Another thing that I thought about when reading the initial post is, “unhealthiness”.
Gaining weight isn't always due to being, “unhealthy”. A lot of people don't realise that, as you approach your mid 20's to 30's, you go through something similar to a Second Puberty. This includes a natural weight gain. Hell, at 25, my feet grew a whole 1.5 sizes – I couldn't believe it! (Oh no, new shoes, how AWFUL).
Also: fatness doesn't equate to healthiness. Cardiac health does – it doesn't sound like OP is a doctor, so he isn't really qualified to establish if she's healthy or not. I suffered from bulemia, binge eating disorder, and anorexia on-and-off for years, and only started really focusing on my recovery in the middle of the pandemic. I'm around the same weight as when I started that journey, but I feel a darn sight healthier now than I did back then.
furthermore, it doesn't sound like she ever really went to the gym with him anyways, and he's only encouraging her now because he doesn't like the changes in her body.
I agree with the conclusion you came to OP: he doesn't want a “fat” girlfriend, and it looks like she isn't interested in any changes, which is more than fine (whether it's a willful disinterest or fatphobic denial is neither here nor there).
Stop getting black out drunk. Seriously. You now have a very very good reason to just never do that again. Time to grow up.
As for the relationship it's really up to her to decide what she does. You can try to explain that you didn't mean it but who knows, maybe in the moment you did. You don't even seem to remember what happened.
Anytime one person keeps bringing up past issue during new arguments is a huge red flag. Can’t have a healthy stable relationship if resentment over the past keeps being thrown into the mix. And you’re right, this isn’t something you can change. If she can’t accept it there’s no point staying together.