“Hey I found this guy in a dumpster who wants to use me as a blow up sex doll and screams abuse at me when I don't want to bang his sweaty, unwashed ass, what do you think of him?”
So many questions… Do you offer to pay sometimes? Does he know you want a traditional relationship? How traditional? Do you want to stay home while he works? If you haven’t had this conversation, now might be a good time to initiate it. I’d say, if you want to treat him to a night out for his bday for example or to celebrate a personal milestone (a promotion for example) you should pay and vice versa. Anniversaries are shared so I don’t understand why you expect him to cover the cost?
I can't be friends with people who support the right's views on LGBTQIA+, racial issues, inequality, poverty, immigration – and would expect that someone who holds their values as strongly as me, wouldn't be able to either.
“Hey I found this guy in a dumpster who wants to use me as a blow up sex doll and screams abuse at me when I don't want to bang his sweaty, unwashed ass, what do you think of him?”
Please be serious.
So many questions… Do you offer to pay sometimes? Does he know you want a traditional relationship? How traditional? Do you want to stay home while he works? If you haven’t had this conversation, now might be a good time to initiate it. I’d say, if you want to treat him to a night out for his bday for example or to celebrate a personal milestone (a promotion for example) you should pay and vice versa. Anniversaries are shared so I don’t understand why you expect him to cover the cost?
Nope, you're not the asshole.
I can't be friends with people who support the right's views on LGBTQIA+, racial issues, inequality, poverty, immigration – and would expect that someone who holds their values as strongly as me, wouldn't be able to either.
Enjoy the present and future, past is past