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SHE IS LITZZY! BOYS JOTA AND EDGAR!, y.o.
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Date: April 22, 2023
You said he'd stolen from you multiple times: “he had been taking money from my account, £100 or £200 here and there.”
That's not “twice,” luv, and addicts will keep stealing. I'm glad you've changed your passwords etc but please don't minimize what he's truly been doing, for several years.
I don't blame your stepdad, I just think it was a bad situation. There's an innate biological urge in animals to reproduce, and it's stronger in some than others. If your stepdad wants to have his own family, and your mother cannot give him that, then they are not right for each other. It's no different than if someone needs emotional support, and doesn't get it. Your partner is supposed to fulfill your needs, otherwise the relationship won't work. Needs and life goals must align.
Your mother has passed her child bearing years and needs to find a man who doesn't want more children. Then she'll be happy. Clearly your stepdad still wanted to have kids, and that's why I didn't work, and he's still at the age where he can easily start a new family. Of course, I don't know all the details of their relationships and maybe things could have been done better, but humans are human. We are imperfect.
If you love your stepdad, then maintain a relationship with him. What you'll often find in these situations is your mother will try to use you to hurt him, because he hurt her. In a case like this, your mother isn't actually trying to help you, she's trying to use you as a tool of vengeance. You don't have to hide it from your mother, but you must set boundaries. If he was and still is an important part of your life, then keep him in your life and tell your mother that. If she refuses to understand, then it's a lack of maturity on your mother's part. You may think older people can handle ancient relationship pain with more grace, but I can tell you that is definitely not the fact! I've seen older women hold grudges over something that happened literally 50 years ago! They can't let it go and they can't forgive. Ultimately, how you live your life is your choice, and you shouldn't allow anyone else, even your mother, to strong arm you and to behaving a certain way only because it gives her a little schadenfreude. Good luck.
Soo… sleeping is being lazy but doing nothing but playing video games in the morning is not…
Ehm…
You do realize the problem is not in you sleeping or whatever?
It's you not doing things his way.
Cuz he calls himself straight and refuses to acknowledge his other side. But this is his way of basically admitting it without saying it aloud, hence “indirectly”. Lol.
1) Split the bills between you two.
2) Split the housework to include cooking the meals
3) Have some good boundaries.
4) It will be uncomfortable the first month because you are still thinking this is my space, but that may change as co-habitation goes on.
5) Expect the dynamics of your relationship to change, good or bad only time will tell.
6) Mutual respect, good communication between you and him will go a long way.
If she can't participate in every activity? You shouldn't plan your wedding around the limitations of one person. Should uncle Steve that lost a leg in Vietnam and is in a wheel chair now not come to cookouts where Cornhole will be played? Everyone especially the 2 of you shouldn't miss out on doing things you want to do because of one person. Realistically she shouldn't expect that either.
You're kind of dancing around some things.
I'm your average 6'0″ 224lbs dude that tends to be physically intimidating/domineering, without even realizing it
I do concede that it has been close, physically, on two occasions
I'm a 6'0″ dude and was, until recently, 340lbs. I'm now 210lbs. And I can, with absolute certainty, say that I've never physically intimidated ANYBODY without realizing it.
Physical intimidation is not an accident, it results from deliberate behaviors.
I've agreed to and attended the couples counseling, but I think it was too late. I've agreed to and attended the parenting classes, but I think it was too late. I've agreed to anger management courses
This sounds like a lot of excuses. DID you attend counseling? DID you learn parenting skills?
“Agreed to” is not the same as “accomplished”.
What does your spouse say that she wants? What does she think will repair the relationship?
This hits the nail on the head
Should women be cumming everytime?
It sounds like you're going through a difficult time right now, but it's important to remember that your feelings are valid and understandable. It's natural to feel rejected and hurt when someone you've been intimate with doesn't want to continue the relationship or even maintain a friendship.
It's also important to acknowledge that you may have had some expectations or desires for the relationship that he wasn't able or willing to fulfill, and that's okay. You mentioned that you want a monogamous intimate relationship, and it's good that you've realized that and are able to acknowledge that he can't/won't provide that for you.
Moving forward, it may be helpful to focus on yourself and your own needs and desires. It's okay to take some time to heal and process your feelings before trying to form new relationships or pursue other options. It's also important to establish clear boundaries for yourself and communicate them to any potential partners or hookups in the future.
Regarding your current living situation, it may be helpful to find ways to create some space and distance between yourself and your roommate. This could involve spending more time outside of the apartment, finding activities or hobbies to engage in, or even considering a new living arrangement if it's feasible.
It's understandable that you may want validation or respect from your former hookup, but it's important to remember that ultimately, your self-worth should come from within. You are worthy of love and respect regardless of anyone else's opinions or actions. It may be helpful to focus on building up your own self-esteem and confidence through activities, therapy, or other self-care practices.
Overall, it's important to be kind and patient with yourself as you navigate this situation. It may be challenging at times, but with time and effort, you will be able to move forward and find happiness and fulfillment in your life.