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Kiri & my boy & Jil, 19 y.o.
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Date: April 23, 2023
Kiri & my boy & Jil, 19 y.o.
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I definitely had my own side. Do you switch it up every night? If so that’s kind of weird
Nearly identical cheating behavior situation under nearly identical work situation happened to me. He was guilty. We’re divorced. I know that look in their eyes the others gave you. I felt as if I didn’t know I had cancer, but everyone else knew.
Just assume he’s having an affair, or wants to. He’s certainly made a fool of himself even if not. In my case, everyone thought I didn’t know, but I did. It was so obvious from his behavior.
Act accordingly and decide if you want to stay or leave. Don’t try to “make things work” because you’ll be the only one trying, while he’s daily tearing your marriage down. And you can tell him to stop, but he won’t, so save your energy. He shut you down, so you’re on your own now.
Get your exit plan in place before you make a move. If you decide to change jobs before discussing divorce with him, just say you’re ready for a change. He won’t object.
Whenever you do speak with him, be matter of fact about it. When he tries to debate and gaslight you, stop him by saying, “This is not a conversation. You have done X Y and Z, and lie and BS me about your phone.” Every interruption by him repeat This is not a conversation. Which hopefully ends in, “And I’m leaving you.”
You’re trapped by marriage coupled with working with him. But you can get out, as long as you understand it won’t be easy. Hopefully you’ll get financial support from him. Discuss everything with an attorney before making another move.
Be secretive about leaving. When people look at you with pity, just give them a straightforward look back then walk away. I don’t know why, but it still chaps my rear to think they thought I didn’t know. Like, don’t insult my intelligence.
Trust me, you don’t want to be with a man who doesn’t care how badly he betrays and humiliates you, and doesn’t care who knows it. I don’t know how my ex could show his face after what he did to me.
Maybe get a new job, and when you quit, same time tell him you’re leaving him too.
And that girl? She’ll remember the job as being the worst one she ever had, and she’ll think of your husband as being a creep.
I wish you all the best. I’m so sorry you have to go through this.