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Date: October 4, 2022
It really isn’t that much. You can buy a nice house and a few cars and start saving for your retirement. You would still need to work but you can on-line comfortably without taking in debt. You could pay for your education or your children’s education. I would save it for big things and still have your job fund your basic expenses.
When I fantasize about winning the lottery this is the amount I want to win. Not so much it messes up my life and everyone wants some but just enough to make me comfortable.
Honestly we had moved in by the time I found out. We had about 5 months left on the lease and it was my first relationship. I wanted the fairy tale so I kept working on the relationship. Kept getting burned. Now he's 100% the person I always wanted and I don't feel like I can leave because I'd be letting go of something I always wanted. Also can't move on. Feel like I'm in a lose-lose situation. I know I'm being ridiculous.
As others have said, you need to tell a teacher or counselor right away. I was in your exact situation, my mom married my ex step dad when I was 11 and that's when the grooming started. He is very bold to be outright saying things around you and your mother and that makes him much more dangerous.
I wish I could pull your mom aside and just shake some sense into her, but sadly some women enable men like this, I've seen it happen so many times, my own included. When my mom finally left my step dad, she found heaps of cp on his devices. I had told her for years he was saying very inappropriate things to me and about my body, and would try to touch me every chance he got.
Please keep locking your door, I'll even send you money for a better lock and security cameras. Please please please tell someone, anyone, legally obligated to help you with this, any mandated reporter, your doctor, teachers, everyone you can. I know how scary that is but you have to advocate for yourself if your mom won't. The more people you tell, the bigger the paper trail is on this pos.
I think I read this exact thing literally years ago. I think the song part is new though, interesting addition.
Did you even read the same post as I did or do you just have a severe lack of reading comprehension?
Super weird controlling behavior. I know my bf masterbates and I don't care lol
Friend, if your partner ever finds this post, their heart will be broken. The things you’re saying are not funny, and do you no good. You just continue to invalidate them as a person, and refuse to see it.
Friend, if your partner ever finds this post, their heart will be broken. The things you’re saying are not funny, and do you no good. You just continue to invalidate them as a person, and refuse to see it.
Please break up with him!
I'm referring her as my girl as I don't know how to say it in English. Still, thanks for your detailed comment
Have a friend get on tinder and see if she matches with him.
Talk to a lawyer. That’s the best advice you’ll get because you need to know your legal options.
Why? Because staying shouldn’t be an option. You want advice on how to fix your marriage. You’re not crazy. That’s why most people are here. But you’re six years in. In saying that, you have a large enough sample size and evidence to know what reality is and will be.
You’re staying based entirely on potential; potential that’s been proven will never be realized. A fantasy. Of course he logically CAN work on himself. But he’s not. Over six years, he hasn’t. What makes you believe NOW will be any different? What’s worse is he’s not even trying to convince you that he’ll be better. He’s literally being the same awful partner and father he’s always been.
You can propose whatever you want. He’s going to deny it. Why? Because he’s learned there are no consequences for his actions. You tried to kick him out and he refused. So that’s the end of it? Does that change the fact that he’s awful?
So again, get legal advice. A lawyer will let you know your best course of action in terms of your relationship and your child. Good luck.
Bruh, you sound toxic af, and you wrote this. Jealousy is not a trigger. It is a human emotion everyone has to deal with. Get over yourself. She isn’t allowed to be happy about her new group because you’re butt hurt. Toxic. She apologized, but that wasn’t good or sincere enough. Toxic. She invited to a exclusive group you’re not allowed at, yet it’s triggering “abandonment”? Toxic. What can she do to make you happy? Magically find another hard to find group and invite you to it? Seems like a stretch ace. Step one, you know your triggers. Now work on yourself and be happy and supportive to her. Step two, realize you have abandonment issues and check yourself on how you interact with others. Sounds like a classic case of pushing someone away, because you can’t get over yourself. And that is definitely toxic. Good news, you can change all of this very easy and all you have to do is try. If you fail and it’s naked, good! It’s not supposed to be easy to work though trauma. Good luck and don’t be a dick.
He mentioned his other child looking like him in comments
Just because he's bi doesn't mean he isn't with you. You're married. He can be attracted to guys all he wants, but he's married. Hell, I am attracted to all kinds of women, but I'd never pursue any of that because I'm a married man.
Yea, it's an obvious joke, your BF and a lot of people in this thread and just super insecure. You are likely better off.
Many people got kinky due to a trauma but not all kinksters are traumatized, just felt the need to drop this info.
There are even kink friendly therapists out there. If explored & done safely, sane & consensual there's nothing wrong with that.
Also, if you're into it as a trauma response – it became sexual preferences. It's not just gonna change because of therapy.
victim blaming? they're both victims here. no one deserves mental illness, no one asks for it.
but when you're married you're committed to at least trying to help your partner when they're sick.
Just write it down on your palm and read off that. gloss over bits ruined by nerve sweat.
im not sure about that , we were together all week long in vacation from monday to sunday and she changed bevahior being distant and cold on saturday
The only thing you're blind to is the fact that you can't fix her insecurities. How does she expect this “problem” to be fixed?
Just encourage it, tell him to go a little harder when he does things to your preference. It doesn’t have to be an immediate thing. And if you need to establish a safe word do that too.
Okay? There are lots of reasons why someone might visit a friend’s dorm. What do you imagine he’s doing there?
She is not the one. She is using you and is not actually physically into you. It’s not a you problem, it’s a her problem. Get your ring back and move on.
You think your wife enjoys being infantilized? You might think she's not bothered, but there's a good chance she's trying to white knuckle through it too. Go get counseling together so you can talk this out constructively.
I’m so sorry, OP. This is horrible and my heart hurts for you.
I’d be wary of the friend… it’s one thing for her to tell you what happened but her offering to come “support” you reeks of “I want you for myself”. She’s trying to slip in while you’re hurt and get you on the rebound.
Whether or not you take your fiancé back is obviously your choice but I could never be with someone who could cheat- especially right before we were supposed to get married.
Girl, treat yourself better. End this dying relationship and go no contact so you can heal.
This sounds like the assholes who have a problem with students rushing the field/court. God forbid people have a little fun. What a wet blanket. Sounds like somebody could use a win, but can't get one, so he'd rather shit on yours.
I talk too much, too. I have ADHD, too. Is this new information to him? He married you, right? He have a problem with your chattiness a month ago? a year? FIVE?
Congratulations on the sale. It sounds like a super cute business. Got a website?
I guess maybe I’m finding out I’m wrong. But I just want to clarify more. Right now currently, I cannot trust that her friends will not try something or do something that could be a catastrophe. I only say this because of the multitude of the times it has happened and I was right beforehand and the amount of hurt she received but for some reason she keeps going back in thinking that this guy friend will be different and such. And to preface she has way more guy friends than girl and that’s just how she is I don’t find anything sus with that, it’s why I love her so much and why we click. I just don’t find it comfortable that she is doing this all over again especially on a cruise where there is a lot of night activities and very low accountability for her guy friends. I trust that if they tried something she would do right but she has been nearly raped multiple times because of her “friends” putting her into terrible situations and her clawing her way out. So yeah, if im controlling im controlling but I can’t say it’s for no reason.
Your poor husband, he deserves better than someone who can't be pleased.
I’ve suspected that he may be autistic or something similar, but I didn’t want to armchair diagnose. You may be right, I’ll try to set some harder boundaries and be a bit more understanding.
maybe she doesn’t like cuddling after sex. Why don’t you do it before sex?
Have you asked her why she doesn’t like it?
Tubal ligation prevents pregnancy in 99 out of 100 women for each year that they are sexually active. In other words, I’m struggling to understand why, at this point, a surgical procedure is necessary on you.
From your post, it doesn’t sound like you really understand why she wants you to undergo surgery, which is a really big piece of information to be missing. Have you asked her directly? If so, what did she say? I think the true answer to that question would be central to the mystery you’re experiencing here.
And sure, maybe your wife felt you pressured her into getting the tubal ligation. But her behavior now leads me to think, like you, that maybe this is just a proxy for a deeper issue. Like, maybe she didn’t feel supported during the pregnancy, there’s something missing from the emotional connection between the two of you, who knows.
Whatever it is, you two aren’t talking about it, which is why it didn’t show up in your post. That also might be why your discussions with your mutual therapists have diverged from their starting point. It’s just a hunch, but maybe you need to be thinking about communicating more.
'Guy'? I thought they were lesbian?
Don’t buy a house right now. Interest rates are terrible. Prices are inflated. Keep renting & live! below your means.
Tell your wife she can quit as soon as she has another job lined up. It doesn’t have to be remote, and getting out in the world might be better for her anyway. If she can only happily hold a job for 6 months at a time, oh well. As long as she’s employed, it doesn’t really matter. You need her income without depending on it.
Moving forward, you have to start telling her “no.” When she wants whatever new thing it is, just no – it’s disruptive or expensive or whatever.
She sounds kind of bi-polar. I imagine that’s been considered, but it’s worth a conversation if it hasn’t.
Yeah in the start we did move in the same direction but I was the dummy that caught feelings. I thought he did as well. But I brought up to be honest and upfront if we were FWB or situationship. I know I shouldn’t really hold on to a label but for me it was important to know where we stood. At times I was like I’m going to go back on tinder and find what I need and he would be like so you’re going to break up with me? It was very confusing. But he said we were more than a Situationship. But you’re right. Only reason we should talk if he does reach out is only if he wants a relationship.
If he wanted to, he would
Right? OP describes how he dodged a massive bullet and calls it “not a happy ending”.
I think this is the best thing that could’ve happened in this situation.
Prioritize feeding yourself and paying your own expenses over trying to hold a guy's attention. Your plan only works if you are looking for a sugar daddy and so far it seems he's not taking the bait.
You are far too old for this type of nonsense thinking.
Games are supposed to be fun. If you can't have fun don't play them.
That user is just trying to find a way to twist it to make it OPs fault. I'll give you one guess as to why
Well first off. I’m so sorry this has happened to you twice..
tell her too get bent, and dump her. Second get out in front off this by telling everybody what she has done and why she’s now you’re ex. Tom can have her because once a cheater always a cheater.
Ass you said you clearly have a type.. work on your self, go to the gym and go talk with a therapist about all of this. Work on your communicating skills..
But remember none of this is your fault. This is all on her. She’s a flawed character who has lied and manipulated and cheated on you. She has broken your trust and isn’t worth more off your time and energy.
Let her know that, she played stupid games and she got a stupid price..
Don’t touch her more and don’t be more involved with her.. she will send flying monkeys but just tell them that she did something to break your engagement and relationship. And if they want to pay for your therapy they can talk about it. Otherwise they can just cut it.
I wish you gods speed sir.
I'd be unable to date someone who slept with a close friend of mine.
He’s in a retaliation marriage lmao
I have more info – this is not the whole picture, just want some POVs.