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And that's awesome. And healthy. And a good start. But this won't ever be resolved if she won't do the same thing.
Thank you so much for that insight. Its really inspiring to hear from someone who is similar to her, and that it's not impossible to overcome.
I've found that since she has been laid off and the family tragedy, she has been much more lethargic and sleeping terrible times because she doesn't have work to fill those hours in her day.
It is heartbreaking because we are 2 hours away that I am not able to support them as much as I could, but I agree. I need her to be my partner and not for me to be their parent.
I have helped with finding jobs, helping with her CV, practising interview skills and mock interviews. My profession helps with that. It's why it felt like a kick in the teeth to find out she rearranged / cancelled an upcoming interview because of the aforementioned reasons.
Of course. I was more commenting on how strangely the whole post seems to be written. Usually if there are accusations of cheating on here the poster right away goes over the top claiming innocence and that they’ve never done anything wrong. I don’t actually see anything in the admittedly vague post denying a single accusation or anything. It seems almost to be spun as “his attitude is so hurtful” without addressing the question of whether he is right first. I think the accuracy of his accusations goes a long way toward whether his reaction is or isn’t reasonable.
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What makes you think it isn’t fair? I think it’s more than fair. She needs to go.
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These are all good things. It's not impossible that he will want you again, but it might be better to make a fresh start with someone new.
Thanks buddy, I’ll keep all that in mind
Thank for this insight, honestly I wasn’t sure what I should do. But this really helps a lot
And that’s on him to do that. He has failed for 20 years.
Instead he has actively chosen to stalk a woman to the point where she has had to block him, include her without consent in his sick fantasies and emotionally abuse his wife.
And instead of acknowledging how utterly unacceptable all of that is you are all over this thread defending him, screeching that it’s not his fault, making excuses and putting OP at risk by cross posting this to a sub he frequents.
Your behaviour is disgraceful. Go self reflect.
Disagree.
When you tell somebody you are flattered, it shatters whatever impression they had that there was some kind of connection.
Those moments when they thought your eyes locked? You didn't notice.
The little gestures that they thought were your way of noticing them? Accidents.
Saying you are not interested doesn't convince a person who has delusions about your relationship. Saying that you are flattered means you weren't even expecting it, and those little signals didn't happen.
Maybe just reset boundaries?
'I don't like blunt truths. You're a jerk'
You're 35. Act your age.
Speaking as someone who practices polyamory, we actually do have sex with other people. It's a pretty big part of our thing. We also date separately. I get along with my girlfriend's husband but I'm not required to date him, which is good because he's straight and I'm a man.
What you're describing sounds more like couple's therapy. That's a thing but they charge.
Why are you posting this here before talking to your fiancé about it? You need to find out his side of the story and decide what you believe.
You’ve only been married for 3 months…why would you ever think that the marriage is strong and solid enough to bring in a third party? And honestly, even the most solid of marriages wouldn’t be able to survive this. And your reasoning being that you just moved to a new state…GET A FRIEND! Not a side piece. From what I’ve read, you two probably should never have gotten married at this stage in your lives anyway, and it would be for the best if you separated.
It's seriously easy to google a bunch of studies and articles that say it's bad for men to bottle up their emotions. If she can't come around based on that, you've got no chance. What's the plan if you have kids? When will your son have to stop crying? Is that really a future you want? She's toxic af, probably in more ways than one. Red flags are usually sold in miltipacks not singles.
Cheaters can never admit it's their fault, it's always because of someone else or because of a thing that happened.
They can never admit they were a disrespectful heartless pile of shit that cared for nothing but themselves while damning everyone else close to them.
I know you love this girl but you need to love you more! It’s not worth it take it from me. You won’t be able to move past it and she’s lying to you. Let her be with this other man while you find someone so much better!
Yeah, that's an absolute “I don't give a fuck” play from her lol
At one point he said he’d get rid of it
Oh what a nice thing to offer. Unfortunately, I have already cleaned, prepped and decorated here. Not to mention, the invitations are already out.
But (son) can't wait to spend some time there very soon. See you all tomorrow.
How I would feel? Sister, seriously, the night before the party you suddenly offer? She wants to let the family know how kind she was to offer but you turned her down. It's performative.
You need to talk to him before you leave.
Say.
“I've seen your messages with (hername) and I find them highly inappropriate, you may think it's harmless or you just don't care, but to me there very inappropriate, and I'm not comfortable with your relationship with her outside of work and I don't want you seeing her outside of work at all. If you do go while I'm away I will take that as you have chosen her over our relationship. Boundaries need to be set with her. So the constant texting stops now, no more unless it is strictly about work, I also find it extremely disrespectful that in none of these chats have you mention me or your son as if your hiding us”..
He probably hasn't told her about you and is forming a relationship with her or already has, just because the messages ain't sexual doesn't mean they ain't in person.
Once you told him if he get confrontational then you have your answer an innocent person has nothing to worry about.
If it was me and my partner said hey I don't like your relationship with your Co worker I find it inappropriate and would like you not to meet them while I'm away, I'd be like ok no problem I won't meet them and stop texting unless it's for work.
Another thing is have they met outside of work before???
Because I find it oddly suspicious he doing it while you are away as if he going to bring her back to your place as if he single which could be why he hasn't mentioned you or your son
What makes you think he doesn’t already know he’s hurting you, or that he even cares?
So you both have $150k or just you? I just want to make sure I'm understanding correctly how much you each have in savings. If it's only you, then sorry no house until he saves $150k.
Why are you excusing the literal Nazis. Hoteps and Nazis unite against Jews eh? For fucks sake
Wow so many people shitting on a man for being poor in this economy, like we don't have a global housing crisis.
He broke up with you because he didn't see a future together. You wanted more commitment and he didn't so the relationship ended, as it should have. It's tough, but break ups happen. Block him everywhere and move on with your life. 7 years is long, but it's better than a lifetime in a shit marriage.
and if so whats a better way to get my point of view across?
there is no better way..which is why she said what she did. She knows that she would be bothered too. Did she answer the question or just deflect..if she just deflected then you know the answer. At the same time, your definition of Sketchy might be colored by your attachment. Still, you asked a very standard and reasonable question. Bottom line is that boundaries have to be established and you do that by talking to your partner about them. I don't know how long you have been together but maybe this is a good opportunity to establish some now..The whole manipulative part is just deflecting, cuz she knows you are right. “how dare you ask me to consider this from a different perspective!!!!!” ..thats some bullshit.
I’m sorry you’re dealing with this. I was your BF for a long time. Had a house and everything else together so I just thought “what’s the point?”. Was given ultimatums and everything. Friends told her to leave and that I never was going to propose.
Finally ended up proposing after years together. The marriage was the beginning of the end of our relationship. The dynamic completely changed and where we once never had problems, we suddenly developed a ton of problems.
I knew in my gut before proposing that I shouldn’t do it. Not that I didn’t want to get married to this person, I was going to get around to it eventually. I just didn’t want to be pressured and to make it a “thing” when our relationship was already amazing! I was going to wait until a milestone anniversary or something, felt the pressure of marriage, and did it sooner than I wanted. I’m still paying for that decision.
Your feelings are valid for sure. You can feel whatever you feel. That said, nobody but your BF knows if he will or won’t propose down the line. I’m sorry you’re having to deal with this.
GROSS! this is so unacceptable. he basically raped you and then tried to gaslight you? holyy shit!! you need leave him IMMEDIATELY.
This reminds me of another post I seen regarding a MIL. She wanted to be the first person to hold the baby but she was out of town. Then threw a huge fit that they didn’t wait till she got back so she could be the first.
She’s wrong for how she reacted. You did go to her first and she was busy. If it was such a priority to her she could of closed her chess game.
I didn't even realise I was downvoted. disappointing.