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Yes! Dump her if you dont like it
It’s like drunk sleep walking. I think because men drink lots of volume they need to pee when they are asleep. So they sleep imagine they are in the loo
I’m one of them. It could be a red flag or it could be a big green flag. Keep dating and see. If you are interested in him perhaps stop dating others for a bit until you decide either way.
I've never been in this type of situation, but I just wanted to say a quick couple of things: You deserve more. You deserve better. You deserve to be cherished. You deserve to be happy. Don't convince yourself you need to settle for less just because it's easier that way. The best things are worth the effort and trouble it takes to get them. Don't sell yourself short like this.
Yep. Also it's a real slap in the face when you realize that no matter how good in bed you are, if your man is beating it to hardcore porn everyday you're going to bore him.
Rn she's thinking, “he'll always prefer real sex with me because I'm hot and kinky!”
We'll see, child.
Run
I don’t have that setting turned on
Don’t leave anything behind while you’re out that your brother could use to get money in your name; bank statements, identification, financial info, credit card statements, anything. You do t have to be around him if you don’t want. So t feel guilted into it.
Sometimes u have to ignore the Reddit hive mind. I wouldn’t like it either, would be totally fine with regular porn but the individual shit is just like he’s obviously fantasizing about that person. I get it, it sucks but sometimes men just can’t see it that way, try your best to explain this to him and see what he says. You are allowed to set boundaries in your relationship and it is up to him if he is okay with them as well.
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He's not boosting your self-esteem? You want him to initiate, he's obviously very unsure of how to do this. He's trying but not very confident in it and you're response is that it's not good enough for you and not boosting your self-esteem. Maybe try boosting HIS self-esteem by encouraging, engaging, and a bit of guiding. This is your opportunity to teach and get the sex you want. The anxiety and pressure you create is likely causing his ED.
“Sometimes she spends the whole night with him and some of her other friends. ” I still haven't told her that I know she used to kinda cheated with her ex when she used to send the Co-worker nudes while still in a relationship
Get some self respect and find someone else.
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I don't really know if I'm happy. Sometimes I am, sometimes I just think I am, and sometimes I convince myself that “it's a phase and it'll get better”. I think the word you used (tiptoe) is perfect in this situation. Like I feel I sometimes need to walk on egg shells when dealing with her. I have to speak in a corporate way sometimes in order to make sure she's happy. Plus idk sometimes I feel I'm not getting enough out of what I'm putting in, but all the articles I read on-line basically say that you need to give your 100%, etc.
Lol what? If Zelda is your favorite…why the hell you not acting like one with him? Hell slay him like Link would ???. This is stupid.
We been together for 3 years. And he says (and have always said) that he wants children.
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Have you ever watch the Curb episode where Larry rolls down his window, and now has to talk to the valet at the golf course. Then he gets stuck in a civil war reenactment. That's what I feel like.
Is it possible this guy had some sort of developmental disorder? Or was on the spectrum in some way?
The comments of his GF being jealous definitely raises an eyebrow. But if he was just a little different, maybe his intentions were pure and he didn’t really see how weird it was.
I'm positive she isn't doing this guilt/shame me. She does take things quite personally. This isn't the first time but it usually ends up in a small spat and we reconcile. This time feels different.
The lullaby trust define co sleeping as sharing a bed or other sleep surface…
Lol keep digging yourself deeper and deeper like I said go with Nathan fielder and leave your fiancé be so he can go find someone who loves him and not try to belittle him 🙂
It's important to have a partner who has good,solid familial relationships, but who also has clear boundaries and isn't beholden to their parents for all aspects of daily life.
If your relationship were to progress, and you were to marry, her influence will not end, instead you will end up in a marriage of 3, where your needs come last.
Consider that with another guy, you will (if you are careful, clear, and discerning) not have to compete with his mom, nor have a grown man kept as a lap dog by his mother.
You did nothing wrong whatsoever. You weren't even on a break. You were single. In a way he's controlling and manipulative.
As an African American, I don't know my family's true name but the name we bear has been with us for 150+ years.
Im in my 30s. And yes it’s young but it’s not like a 15 year old like you’re acting like it is. I’d say your infantilising and immaturity is more creepy if we’re just throwing around untrue insults. You’re the type of person who acts like Leo DiCaprio is a pedo.
Thank you, another thought through comment without the unnecessary accusatory bullshit.
It was a conscious choice. I've been holding back for w while, when it was always arms reach away. Like a drug, the feeling of having to know (which I didn't have to indeed) got the best of me. Well, worst of me, really.
I did violate her, just like I conciously violated my parents privacy by going through their drawers when I was younger. Did I tell them? No. Would it lead to anything? Them being displeased with my behaviour. Did I gain anything from it? Also no, just suffered the consequence of finding shit I was 'looking for' and sadly found. For not being a dummy, this is some dumb behavior, especially, as you say, when I am unwilling to deal with the consequence of coming through with my concious actions.
I'll think on it. This is bad itself, if shit actually hits the fan and spirals out of MY control, it may have adverse effects on my social status within our common friend groups. That, I am not sure I am willing to deal with which leaves me with a crippling headache and not too many options.
I’m over weight and have been most of my life. I’m the lowest now than I’ve ever been.
I’ve just made lots of changes, walking more Eating less.
That being said I’m a mental health support worker with duel diagnosis who has PCOS and suffer the most of the negative side effects.
I used to and still on times find it hot to diet ect and eat right.
I go with goo intentions with packed lunch etc for work or if I’m doing 26 hour shift I pack more but sometimes I don’t get a chance to eat what I have prepared or if I’m out in the community it’s just easier to grabs snacks
Don’t know about where your from but I’m from wales in the uk and half the time junk snack food is cheeper than fruit. But if you have a fruit stall near then it is easier to go there as cheeper.
It’s a very hard life style change to make and only you can make it..
He have said is thoughts, now you need to deiced if you want to remain with him.
Personally I’d say thank your for your opinion but I think it’s for the best we split.
Then only and only do it for you no one else. Certainly not him.
If he can’t love you like this then he doesn’t deserve your best
And especially if it’s male female where women are trained to be in charge of the house, it’s probably easy to get away with for a while.
thank you for your advice!! I'll start to look for one soon
This sounds like an bad assumption, I'm not saying that you can't deduce that as a theory, but it's not a conclusion.
Find a better gf.
look, I could argue with them, all night. it'd go nowhere ok, I'm not trying to say you are to blame, or you deserve it, no one does.
like if this dude is just fucking screaming and cussing you out, and bellitling you for every little thing you do, yeah, get the fuck out, he's liable to snap.
but, if you think for even a moment, that you pick, and pick, and pick, until he goes over the edge, then it's not abuse, antagonizing and provoking are not signs of abuse it's a sign of an equally shitty relationship.
that being said, it's not my relationship, I just saw some things that might indicate, it's not so one sided, there is some back and forth, there are some things you do that when closely examined, indicate some equal distribution in negative behaviours.
either way the relationship cannot go on, that much, I am certain of.
Personally I’d dump her but that’s just me
Both of us agreed that we wouldn't see other people, he was the one that suggested it in the first place. And yeah that's what I did, we took a break from talking because I've had to pick up a lot of night shifts at work.
I think if he wanted to ask you out, he would have done that.
If you want to ask him out, ask him out. Directly. “J, I like you, I think you know that. I think you like me but honestly I can't tell. So, do you want to go on a date or no?”
Oof. He kind of sounds like a dumpster fire. He doesn’t like himself. He’s beyond confused around relationships. If you want to put it out there, why not? It’s been years and it seems as if you’re saying that you are okay with casual but your actions say you want more. Quit worrying about what he wants for a minute and really think about what you want. Take it from there. After all this time, I would absolutely spell it out very succinctly because he has the intuition of a rock.
No, it's not typical guy talk — but it's typical asshole guy talk.
Have you and your partner had any time alone to spend together and reconnect as a couple since the birth? Going out on dates, maybe a night alone if there’s family nearby that can watch the baby?
I feel like this issue pops up on Reddit a lot, and usually the advice is to find time to re-date your partner. If the only time you spend together is centered around your kid then it’s not surprising that he may view you in a “mother” role instead of “fiancée”. It is important to still nurture your romantic relationship and identities outside of parenthood.
It doesn't matter if he's your ex. Also closure is not real
You don’t want to face the real problem here. I’m guessing this isn’t the first time you overstepped your place with your adult son.
Nah, I’m going to play your game. You keep saying your rooting for them but I can see that your jealous. If you can say it about the text he sent you, I can say it about this.
My sister’s ex would only eat one shape of pasta. (Yes, this was an actual man in his 30s and not a four-year-old.)
When she dumped him she went on what I can only describe as a “pasta bender.”
If this is real, I hope you send your husband and his twin accomplice to jail, post haste.
EW WHAT THE FUCK, LEAVE.
i’m here after the final edits and i’m sorry OP 🙁 my guess is they were setting it up so she’s the saint that had to leave her degenerate husband and Mark was there to help her through this awful time instead of the person having an affair, betraying her husband and hurting her children.
Keep in touch but do not support him financially. Not shared apartment, no loans. Consider maybe he is not who you hoped he would be.
Man up and start askin her to pay, girls will take the piss if u let them
Your comments are not welcome and make me uncomfortable. I don't date old people.
Get yourself a lawyer!! She bought her own house?
It's hot to walk away when emotions are involved, you know the right thing to do is to leave. You know he's going to do this again. You know he's probably lying to you right now. You aren't going to be able to fool yourself for long, and if you try to, it will hurt more. Leaving isn't always black and white kinda easy. There's reasons you got in that relationship and reasons you stayed, but you need to notice that the person you think he is, the image you built up of him, is entirely in your head, he isn't the person you imagine him to be. You want that falicy back, because facing reality is hard. And your mind wants to cling to the “good”, as if there being some good, can make up for this bad. It doesn't. It won't. You lose so much, the present, the imagined future, it tarnishes the past, there's a lot to grieve. But you need to let yourself let go, and grieve. Sometimes the right choice for yourself is the harder choice.
My sister said girls can eat anything but idk if it depends on the girl or not. I recommend a good fruit substance like a smoothie thing
Tell your parents first so that you can drop the kids off at their house so they don’t have to watch/listen when you do confront her.
Seems you think women should remain uneducated just to keep a marriage together, even a bad one? You think they should just remain in past gender roles, stay home, not question her husband’s behaviors or her happiness?
Maybe you should consider the reasons why more women file for divorce.
Historically, a woman didn’t work as much as she does today. Wives were more reliant on their husbands for financial security. Often, they tolerated domestic violence, emotional abuse, and other abuse or neglect because they felt as though they had no other choice and that it was their duty. While this may still be true in some cases, for the most part, women are no longer willing to put up with bad behavior as they had done in previous generations.
Women now have more resources and better support systems outside of the marriage. They’re less likely to put up with abuse and infidelity. Many women now understand that leaving is an option.
These are some of the top reasons women filed for divorce: – Trouble with traditional roles. – Lack of connection with spouse. – Lack of support. – Higher Awareness of Issues. – Partners who are physically or emotionally abusive. – Lack of commitment/Infidelity. – Financial disagreements. – Lack of support with childcare.
He’s definitely not in the academy. He’s probably married or in a relationship with someone else and just wants to keep you around on the side. This lie lets him only see you when it’s convenient for him. It also lets him sort of on-line a fantasy of playing cop when there is probably a reason he can’t (mental health?).
I once dated a guy who really wanted to join the military, then to be a cop, and a bunch of other things, but he had some physical (and probably mental) issues that kept him out. Regardless, he was always “starting basic training in a few months” or “already signed up for the police academy” except it never actually happened. He would never explain what exactly changed, he’d just stop talking about it and start talking about the next thing he was supposedly doing. Long story short, he was a narcissist and a pathological liar. Ended up going to prison, always trying to get back with me, and still stalks me over ten years later. Mind you, he seemed very charming and “normal.”
So yeah, make this breakup the one that sticks. I would say don’t try to call him out on the lie as he will just make up excuses and turn it around on you. I recommend just giving a vague reason for breaking it off, and cut contact entirely. Fully expect him to come back with a new story a few months later, but don’t even respond. Be cautious of what you share on social media as well.
Threatening to quit your job over a 5 day trip that you're not going on is so far out of the norm. Like OP, I hope you start to recognize more of the ways he is not reacting as one would expect towards someone he loves and respects.
Good, when do you want to tell her?
No, have a lawyer do it
If your partner ends up hiding you and your relationship from everyone in their life for months on end, then there's usually a good reason for it (such as them already being in a relationship with someone else). I'd say you dodged a bullet.
they never went to a game together before. he doesn't like sports.
Does a managed addiction on an otherwise functional person count as a problem? Because this sounds like a managed addiction on an otherwise functional person. Counting one or two glasses of wine as “not drinking” particularly jumps out at me.
In your position, I'd probably start with something like “Is there something other than alcohol that would help you relax? I'm not saying quit entirely, but this is enough that it's hot on our budget in the short term and likely to mess up your body in the long term.”