I found out the guy 35/M I’ve been seeing made a video of me 32/F and showed our coworkers

I started dating a coworker a little over a month ago. We got drunk one night and tried to hook up but he said he was nervous and couldn’t get naked (made me swear not to tell anyone, which I didn’t) and I just found out he made a video of me (when I was in doggy position) and showed multiple of our male coworkers the next day. This was when we first started hanging out and he told me yesterday (before I knew any of this) that he is scared because he already feels like he’s falling for me very hot and fast, and I feel the same about him. I found out from a close friend at work and she gave me a list of at least 6 people who have seen or know about it. I feel very violated and upset. He’s denying it and now wants to talk in person tomorrow. My friend who told me about it says she thinks he did it to brag initially before getting to know me/develop feelings, because most of the men at work think I’m physically attractive, but I just don’t know if I can get over it. I’m so hurt and embarrassed to go there tomorrow, even though they’ve known about it for weeks. Is there any point of trying to salvage anything? How do I get over feeling this betrayed and violated even if not?