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More foreplay. I had the same issue until we started doing at least 30 minutes of foreplay. Insane orgasms ever since
If you go to university, beyond a bachelors, you can do research on your most favourite of topics, often on unexplored and untested areas of your field. That is hardly “churned out like a lemming”.
He sounds like he is a binge eater. I deal with binge eating disorder. Like if I have a choice between alcohol, drugs or food, it would be food every time. My suggestion would be to read about it and see if it resonates. I don't have any answers, because I have never figured it out. I do binging/starving so I can stay at a healthy weight. Food is a tough addiction, because it isn't like you can just not ever eat again. He is getting an emotional payoff, as well as a physical one.
I think the upside is he did this prior to you getting married. Trust, once shattered, is very difficult to regain. You have a chance to walk away before marriage, kids, and a possible affair in the future. I'm sorry you're dealing with this, best of luck.
You got internalized homophobia. End of story.
Doesn't mean you discriminate lgbt peeps. But it's there.
I agree. I just sort of adopted the mentality of it’s good to be “selfish” in certain things like this. My mom called me selfish for years for not wanting to have kids, the only thing that got her to stop was telling her that I’m allowed to be selfish with my body and my life. It’s hot for me to communicate that sentiment in advice to others though lol. But no, you’re completely right.
It seems like she only wants a kid because her kid has a kid and doesn’t “need her” anymore so she wants someone else to need her. Which is a dumb reason to have a kid. Both parties should always be on board with bringing a baby into the world.
OP, in my opinion, was sexually assaulted. Just a reminder to all people reading this to never drink so much that you are not able to defend yourself against an attacker. Not all attackers carry weapons and look scary. It is important to be aware of your surroundings. That includes staying sober so that you can be aware. Personally, if I found myself being sexually assaulted twice because I was drunk each time I, personally, would stop drinking. Just a thought.
Lol bruh. If you're complaining about downvotes instead of listening to advice and genuine comments, you're too immature to be a father anyway.
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Okay, so my phone has two options when long tapping on an app icon. One is to uninstall, the other is to “remove from home screen”.
I'm going to guess that he thought he hit “uninstall” but hit “remove from home screen” instead by accident.
My phone is an android though so idk about iPhones.
So, he’s 30 years old and very immature, not to mention bad in bed (if a man is good in bed, he’s good at giving a woman foreplay). I’d get the heck out of this relationship
Cause he told me he would commit while he thinks about it and then he keeps flipping it on me
Take the hint she wants to marry you
They can’t afford the cost of a replacement IUD, the a 5th child? Noooo problem. The stupidity is off the charts here.
no matter what anyone else claims
That would sting.
OP doesn’t need to qualify it in any way. He clearly thinks she is stunning. He finds her more attractive than her sister. He doesn’t need to add words that draw attention to the fact that anyone else might disagree.
I'm gonna make a very strong statement and it's unequivocal: If your partner doesn't care about your discomfort during sex, you have a bad partner.
Part of the problem is I’m not a doormat. But I’ve also got over 10 years of experience with this and rational conversations don’t seem to work. Which is part of the reason why I think it may be a blood sugar or generic issue.
How wide open do your eyes need to be for someone who doesn’t even wipe his butt? Oh, and he’s unfaithful. Sounds like a winner
Omg this. I literally just ended a bunch of friendships because my “best friend” said something shitty about my biggest dream and aspiration in life. When I talked to her about it she said “oh but I asked around and no one else thought it was a shitty comment. Why are you affected by this?” Which didn't bode well with me and then she went on to say I was responsible for how it felt to me, and yet she claims she offered me room to talk about my feelings. And another friend went on the same boat as her, saying I was overreacting and my best friend has given me plenty opportunities to properly talk about it.
With people like that, all I can think is: good riddance.
The “bro” comment is definitely a red flag. We all know those girls
Alright from my view he might be a virgin and is freaked out you experienced and doesn’t wanna embarrass himself. Or he like most guys who’s watched porn might be thinking he ain’t packing enough to satisfy you, last maybe he ain’t circumcised and is to shy to reveal himself. These are just my thoughts nothing dogma about it. Hope you figure it out!✌?
I have been in therapy to improve my confrontation skills because I will let something eat me alive before I speak up. I never mentioned this topic bc I am afraid they will tell me the same thing and that I will be all alone. We just got a house and I moved away from home to be with him. I know this generation is different and I dont want to change him. Just dont want to me alone
I am here for it!
Being direct and open is not insecure. Hiring someone to test her loyalty is.
It’s how you respond that counts. You’re both young and have a lot of life, dating and adventures ahead of you.
Did you mistype 26? Did you actually mean 16? Grow tf up OP
No no no. If he were really an amazing guy he would have been checking in with you to make sure you were comfortable, or apologized and discussed boundaries moving forward and not tried to flip this on you.
Girl….don’t get too attached to this man. Your gut tells you something is wrong? Listen to it. Don’t listen to him trying to turn this and make it your fault.
This is not it. I was in a relationship with someone in December. We broke things off at Christmas time. This new man lives in the same city as me. And we’ve been staying the night together for two months. So idk where you are getting your info from.
That doesn't matter.
No matter what path they take, maturity wise a 25 year old is no where near the same stage of life as a 17 year old, and shouldn't be dating. Nor should you encourage that.
If you're a 25 year old living like a highschooler, that's still a major fucking problem.
He's known you since you were eighteen and in a bad place, he may be afraid that he's accidentally groomed you. It's completely normal for a young person to feel tremendous gratitude towards an older person for taking care of them the way he did you. He may feel that you want him out of that gratitude and isn't comfortable with the power imbalance of you owing him.
I’m reading controlling throughout this post. You are controlling. You are talking as if you are a parent and not a partner. Let me guess, she went out to clubs? I think you have some serious issues. Get help.
Then he can take over her lease. He doesn’t even need to look for a new place. All he has to do is apply and sign.
If he isn’t a total scammer, of course.
What do you want him to say? Tell you to cut your family off because they're toxic?
I have felt where she’s coming from…but more on a white picket fence level.
I entered a relationship when I was 20 and we spent 5 days/nights a week together. Eventually after a year and a half- we moved into together…I felt like I didn’t know myself anymore and I needed to express myself outside of the relationship and outside of the influence he had on my life and surroundings. It was a healthy relationship but I never got the chance to on-line it up as a single young woman. I also lost the things I loved…like lighting incense and dancing around hard and taking multiple showers a day. It went from me doing those things to me being with his family and friends all the time. I also worked my ass off to pay half our rent and bills. So financially he wasn’t supporting me. Overall…he was supportive.
So for me I left that relationship feeling like there was something different for me…like my life wasn’t supposed to be what we would be if we were to continue. As sh*tty as that sounds…it’s true. I mean we had our issues and one was major that made me end it…but before the issues I always felt inside that he wasn’t my person. Even though he told me often that he was going to marry me one day.
In regards to your situation- what I find similar…is….
she was young when she entered a relationship with you…much like myself when I entered that relationship with my ex.
she has lost years of getting to know herself as she’s still sort of…hmm…developing spiritually mentally and physically into the woman she is to become. she probably is being honest with you when it comes to her wanting to fully support herself for once…that’s the only way she can truly grow….but I do believe there is apart of her that wishes to be single while she grows and goes forth upon this exploration of self.
If you’re successful where you’re at- let her go. Let her move….continue to succeed in your city…don’t change your life for her. Do the LDR and time will tell. And if you two end…explore yourself. F*ck- explore yourself more now. Explore yourself during that LDR.
Only time will tell- but let her go. If she breaks up with you while you’re long distance- there’s a chance she might come back once she’s done growing. But only time will tell.
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You may need some help from other sources as this is a highly emotional issue and plus you seem to be suffering from anxiety to the point of not eating for days which is also very bad for your health. Perhaps there is someone in your life you can talk to as you have not known your girlfriend long and with some serious issue like pregnancy.
Not knowing where you are it is difficult to stop a pregnancy at 20 weeks and she may need some support as your relationship is also quite new and with a 10 year age gap there is likely to be a need for better communication.
Maybe also work on not getting mad and yelling and find a difficult way to deal with your emotions before they get to having to apologise. Honest and open communication takes time and work to get right.
Look after yourself first and manage your anxiety is your first priority, look at getting some help for your anxiety or you will affect a potential child later on with it.
My husband travels a lot for work. I used to make do meal wise whilst he was away because it seemed to make sense. Then I thought about it & came to the conclusion that he's getting lots of lovely restaurant food whilst he's away, I should treat myself too. So I do. It's a good time to have friends over for a bottle of wine too.
I would bet money your wife has met somebody else.. sorry. My advice, let it go now and find somebody else.
May the Force be with you…