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Honestly this is a tricky one, I can empathize with how she is feeling rn.
Basically, once she had time to properly process her emotions she realized she really wasn't okay with what she saw. Now, it's understandable, seeing something like this would also make me feel disgusted, I completely understand and validate how she is feeling, however, based on your post you didn't keep the footage for malicious intent, you genuinely forgot about its existence; you made a mistake and thats okay. For future reference, once a relationship is over, delete ALL nsfw content. You are entitled to a past, and even though your partner probably acknowledges this, it can be really difficult to be confronted with that reality in such a brash and unexpected way. Understandably your partner feels jealous, maybe even inadequate or betrayed, who wouldn't.
My advice to you would to be give her some time and space to process her feelings. When she is ready, and you are your partner so you will probably sense when this is, I think you should reach out to her and really listen to what she has to say. In these situations its best to identify the fear, validate the feelings & reasonings surrounding the fear then reassure her that the fear is not a reality.
Unfortunately your relationship may not recover from this, and in that case, it's a lesson learned. Just do your best to communicate to your partner that you love and care for her; be sincere, honest and preferably face to face. Sometimes its difficult to be so vulnerable but for a relationship with someone with BPD to work, it's important that you try. If it's meant to be it will be, either way you will be okay. I wish the best for both you 🙂
Is this just you not getting a half joke comment? “No wild parties” in this context sounds more like it was supposed to be a fun way of saying “don’t let everyone get shit faced and fuck in the bathroom” kinda way. Also, even if he was establishing a boundary of “I don’t want wild parties, which can quickly become destructive or dangerous to ruin our house.
From the sounds of it he’s not touting his home ownership over you, so I assume he isn’t really trying to control you but rather is requesting you don’t trash the place. If it’s long term and well established that you don’t “party wildly,” then it sounds to me like this was an attempt to say “of course” but in a funner way but the tone was lost on you over text.
Frankly this entire interaction is asinine, he said nothing rude until the conversation devolved and this entire thing sounds like you absolutely overreacted here
Ok so he's not hiding your relationship. I think it is a bit weird but some people dont even have social media. How does he feel about if you tag him on photos/posts instead?
I’m sure the friend wanted to have sex but it’s his place of comfort as he is a regular
Ugh, he was sleeping with both of you at the same time. That’s just gross and would make me run for the hills, no wonder you’re feeling so insecure when your relationship is built in such a shaky foundation.
I’m glad you’re feeling better about the situation OP. It was probably just exuberance based on a lifelong friendship but you do need to talk more about her initial reaction in denying it happened.
You’ll be in the honeymoon period and feeling each other out on where boundaries are (no pun intended). However her first and immediate reaction was to lie, to say that you misremembered.
Being kind she was likely embarrassed and tried to minimise it, however it should be discussed. This could’ve been a lot worse. What if you only heard about this via a friend, with no other proof? You’d be in the terrible position of deciding who was lying to you.
Have a chat and hope it all works out.
A couple things to consider. It could be low testosterone. It could be that he is not sexually attracted to you, that may even mean he is attracted to men. He could have a hidden porn addiction especially since he didn’t have prior relationships. P/A can cause ED for many reasons. He could be A sexual but I find that slim. I know you don’t mention it but have you talked with him about masturbation? IOW, does he get nude masturbating and is he able to reach ejaculation? If so and it’s consistent you can probably rule out low T. Want to be tenacious? Have him watch some porn as an appetizer see what happens.If he gets hot get busy If that works but he doesn’t stay erect, watch the porn during sex. Don’t be shocked if the porn he watches during sex only works if it’s gay porn… Ask me how I know.
Porn shouldn’t be the cure to have a sexual relationship if it does work.
Being open to something and needing something are two different things. Are all bisexual people unsatisfied in long-term relationships because they're committing to one a partner of one gender? No, of course not.
Likewise, it's entirely possible to be open to several different kinds of relationship structures, but also be happy in the one relationship structure you're actually in.
Of course, if you're looking for a partner who's views about relationships are that strict monogamy is the only valid relationship structure, then this woman is probably not the right one for you.
But if you're just concerned about whether or not she can be a good monogamous partner to you in the long run, then I think you're kind of jumping to conclusions.
Your sister and your husband are wrong with their reaction to you getting a hotel.
He said he didn’t want to see you, you have a tiny condo, so there is no where to go there to create distance etc.
Could you have gone to a coffee shop etc – yes, but that requires him to express a time frame in which he needs his space (say an hour).
He could also have contacted you to say he’s had the space he needed, and he would like you to return after the first night.
Whatever else you do, do not have a child together until you 1. Have a larger place in which to live!, and 2. Have worked through all your issues, and all of his issues. As throwing a baby into that space with the relationship issues as they stand will cause a divorce very quickly.
well i am threatening him that the way he’s treating me now will determine whether i want him back and he’s on very thin ice and he understands and says he needed this to know how to be able to treat me better. so maybe it would turn out better in the long run?
Thankfully we aren't married yet. If we split, then I'd take the TV with me, I'd probably have to leave the Switch we co bought, but I'd buy another within the month. We have discussed counselling in the past but that just further adds to the money issues we've been having
This!
Don't engage. You aren't going to change their minds about this. It's too culturally ingrained. But you can easily dodge their efforts forever.
I think I should’ve done that and swallowed my anger because they’re treating me really badly.
The friends are basically the 25 time defending champions of mental gymnastics.
Boyfriend starts acting like Link wearing Bokoblin mask.
Buy her a sexy set and make plans to take her out/spoil her. Everyone gets what they want.
Stop thinking about what's better for everyone and think about what's better for yourself, just like she is doing. The longer you consider to give her feelings weight in your decisions, the longer you are setting yourself up to be taken advantage of. It's not petty to bail out of a bad relationship as soon as you can, it's smart. If it's better for you to wait, then wait, but don't do it to avoid ruining her trip. Her trip being ruined would be a consequence of her actions. It's not your job to protect her from suffering consequences for her cheating and lies. Stop letting that be a consideration.
Who would have thought that 2 single adults of the opposite sex that are attracted to each other would end up kissing. Get out of your head and go for it.
Noooooooooooooo. Oh honey. This guy doesn’t deserve the trust you’re putting in him.
4-5 months
Holy shit, this sounds very familiar…
We all do things we hate. Wash your sheets weekly. Your room stinks.
I definitely think immaturity is something that her and I both need to work on.
That’s amazing, and I’m glad it’s still going strong! I get really jealous really easily and I quite often other think myself to death. It’s really unfair that she mentions these people and it never occurs to her that maybe she’s doing something wrong.
Yeah, I definitely need to stop doing that. I think that is a major thing that is hurting me is comparing myself. And thank you for the tip of cutting them out, I might give it a shot and see how it works. Plus the sex thing is another problem in and of itself.
I’m doing my best to listen for all her needs and wants. My goal is to make her happy and do all that I can for her. And she to be honest, she really does get out of line when I get jealous about things. She does get really defensive, I wouldn’t say she gets nasty but she does go overboard.
We’ve had discussions before and she has shifted the focus to other directions instead of hearing me out. I’ve called her out on it before.
And that last comment, thank you. Those were very kind and truthful words. I shall really take note of everything you said. Thank you
I think it will. This is honestly one of the smaller problems than the ones we’ve had in the past regarding his family. He comes from one of those narcissistic, abusive, emotionally incestuous households that caused me a lot of pain and trauma in the beginning but he ultimately chose me and has gone no contact with his family.
But that isn’t this situation. The home isn’t dirty when her husband gets there. He’s withholding affection because there’s some hairs on the ground. That is falling in line with abuse.
No, he got the job, that’s his award. I would take him for a celebration dinner and pay for it.
No, he got the job, that’s his award. I would take him for a celebration dinner and pay it.
If a man disrespects my “no” then he doesn't deserve a place in my life. Period.
Dude… people have sex. Why let a scar get you down?
You're with her now. She's happy? She's comfortable around you? She enjoys sex with you?
If you answer yes to those, then who cares?
Doesn't matter if you're a virgin or not, if you're not ready to have sex with him, you're not ready to have sex with him. Anyone threatening to break up with you because you won't have sex with them isn't someone who respects you and your boundaries, and isn't worth being in a relationship with.
If you're not willing to make a commitment, why do you want to torture him more? Unfair.
Is this a deal-breaker? Yes bro, very very far away from something you can work together on.
RUUUUUUUN
My ex used to do this. Slowly wittle away my confidence until I was depressed and hated my body. I never got a true compliment from him ever.
He's not worth it, girl. Go find a man who worships the ground you stand on. My husband compliments me everyime he walks into the room. I've never heard him say one negative thing about me, ever. There's a man like that for you somewhere, but you'll never find him if you stay with this AH.
Drum nd bass bb
Yes this happens with furniture and electronics as well
You mean your ex girlfriend right? In six months you guys have been through so much. Does this sound like a healthy and stable relationship? Get out now.
None of them thought it would be good to tell you?
This guy dabbles in legalese
It could be possible he has that much but he's lied before so you really have no way of knowing.
But his plan isn't great anyway. As far as I know he's got another 10 years before he can have access to that money. From what I know the age is 65.
Then he doesn't have access to all of it. It's given out in monthly payments. And honestly a million dollars isn't much to retire on when at 65 he could live! another 25 years or more.
I also think he's lying because why is it so hot to get you proof?
She is not happy. She is sleeping around to fill a void. Girls can do it very easy compared to the majority of guys. You now know her worth. She is for the streets.
but he's not showing he's a good man or that he loves you
He's showing he is domineering and doesn't care AT ALL about your feelings.
Gee Wilikers, now you know how I feel lol.
Its such a long time though, he’s very understanding and kind through all of it, he says he’s fine not doing sex that much – its not a 0 at all, its just rare when my libido springs up, I feel guilty that I can’t fulfill that for him.
There's a certain occasions where your partner has some say about how you should look (formal occasions, his family gatherings, church, etc.) but what you are describing are samples of controlling and manipulative behaviors. If boundaries are not properly set, this could easily grow toxic and abusive.
Well…I love dominant women so I totally get it lol
I’m this way (f) and my fiancé loves it. He’s the first person it ever happened with though.
I was in an abusive relationship in the past and honestly have felt alone for most of my life. He’s the first person to truly make me feel like I’m not alone anymore.
He probably really truly loves the hell out of you. Lol