Please, as the kid that my parents stayed together for, leave if you want to leave. Do not stay in a miserable marriage just because you have a kid together. All you’re doing is teaching your child that romantic relationships should make them miserable. Do you want your baby to grow up and be in unhappy god awful relationships because that’s what you’ve shown them is normal??
Yeah it’s not unreasonable to have a discussion about finances before moving in together. In fact I recommend it. It’s not clear but as to who should pay what though… that’s only between you two. For instance if my wife makes more but pays a bunch in childcare, healthcare, student loans.. whatever and I just pay for a phone, then maybe it’s not a perfect ratio to our income
Please, as the kid that my parents stayed together for, leave if you want to leave. Do not stay in a miserable marriage just because you have a kid together. All you’re doing is teaching your child that romantic relationships should make them miserable. Do you want your baby to grow up and be in unhappy god awful relationships because that’s what you’ve shown them is normal??
And this is exactly why children shouldnt get married.
Yeah it’s not unreasonable to have a discussion about finances before moving in together. In fact I recommend it. It’s not clear but as to who should pay what though… that’s only between you two. For instance if my wife makes more but pays a bunch in childcare, healthcare, student loans.. whatever and I just pay for a phone, then maybe it’s not a perfect ratio to our income