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I meant to put we’ve been in a relationship about 4 years and I thought it was a maturity issue thus far.
I feel like you are making a mountain out of a molehill. Maybe I am wrong, but relationships have phases. There is usually a period of time that has more fighting. You've said yourself there are other life circumstances affecting you both and you are both stressed. Obviously you will fight more. Now of course you DO need to try and work this out and try to work on it, but relationships develop over years and years, you are still learning each other and the nuances of how you both communicate even though you've been together for a while. Counseling will help. Also trying to recognize what the underlying problem getting each of you worked up is. Try and have an in depth conversation where you can talk about it and you both agree you won't get defensive and just listen to the other.
Also, one of the best pieces of advice is to remember that when you guys face problems, you shouldn't be thinking of it as you vs your partner. Really, any problems you face are you and your partner vs the problem. You guys are on each other's side. You love each other and ultimately want the best for each other. Try to always keep that in mind, even when fighting.
I wouldn't approach this as “you did cocaine and I'm not OK with it.” (Dad-style)
I would approach it as “you have a severe mental health condition that you're not being responsible in managing and it's impacting our relationship.” (Concerned partner style– and a situation many people find themselves in with mentally ill or addicted people, where the solution usually lies in exploring how co-dependence and enabling comes into play unintentionally when dealing with folks who aren't taking ownership of their problems. There's been a lot of great advice and guidance written on navigating relationships like this, which is how I would approach this one situation in particular and the relationship on the whole.)
Why would he try and help? She was fat and icky. A mortal sin!
Yeah, that was a mistake on my part. Unfortunately, I'm not Canadian. I have a lot to still look up. I'm overwhelmed to the point that I don't know what I'm doing yet. That's why I asked for advice. Most of it is helping. I'm making notes and trying to see what I can do or what I can apply for. Thank you
Don't pass up this opportunity, especially since you are just starting out.
Your relationship, if it is strong as you think, can survive. If your Bf loves you, he should support you, and – ideally – be willing to at least consider moving to where you are after you've been in the job a while (long enough for you to know it's going well and you'd like to stay).
Relationships sometimes need compromise, but one person doing all the compromising while the other gets to decide everything about how they online doesn't work, and mostly ends with the relationship crashing and burning.