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I would start looking for a local Chinese Society and start networking to see if you can find a swap or a room for them to stay in. If they start networking in the Chinese community you may find someone who is dying to go to the town where your in-laws live. Be creative.
Definitely a red flag , my ex of so many years did the exact same thing to me never standing up to me and when i told him something of him not standing up for me i was met with yelling and screaming and i was left to defend myself against his family and friends , definitely walk away
I'm a carpenter and I pay for vacations I invite my girlfriend on.
A carpenter.
Your boyfriend sounds like Dr Loser
My mum is also a nurse. I second this, probably Australia ?
I agree. It’s naked to wrap my head around.
Why are you with someone who is so stupid and threatens you like this?
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It’s one thing to cheat, but a whole other level of gross to cheat with a prostitute. Gross. I hope you got yourself tested now after…
No not all men are like that who are older. Just ones like your boyfriend who date younger woman because they know they will put up with their crap a lot more then someone their own age. He’s not even reachable? What is he doing exactly? He is telling you that his time is more important then yours. It won’t change.
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your sister is an asshole!
i mean. she should definitely stop reaching out. he missed the big event. she's tried to contact him in multiple ways. she's verified his location. it's on him to respond.
I’m sorry for that. This horrible time will pass.
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It sounds like the manipulative one is you.
Every time I bring up something she takes as a critique she begins crying and it's a manipulative way to get me to stop talking about whatever's bothering me.
This is right after he goes on to explain that she compulsively lies. Let’s pretend it’s not her intention though; this happening every time he tries to communicate with her is not healthy at all, and at the very least, it is her causing the communication breakdown.
And of course, this is all going by what OP is telling us. Whether that is true or not, no one knows but him.
Doesn’t sound like this relationship is tenable with him so depressed he can’t find work or a place to live. It’s not your fault and you shouldn’t feel guilty, you aren’t his parent.
Since he cannot afford therapy, which is what I might recommend for a wealthy person in his situation, he needs to get a job. Tell him that you really care about him, but he needs to get a job and start making money now. He needs to do it with his own motivation.
there isn’t a whole lot of saliva involved
There doesn't have to be a lot, that's how germs work. ANY amount of saliva is plenty for viruses. Microscopic things.
I'm curious as to whether or not you have read the book?
I'm curious as to whether or not you have read the book?
What gave you the right to look through his phone in the first place?
What if all the other things were tests that he was never planning to tell her about and the bra was not a test? But when she found the bra he decided to gaslight her into thinking it was a test by telling her about all of the other tests? That bro is a genius.
Did he say that, or is that what you fear is true? Not wanting to be away from a treasured pet and not wanting to kennel them doesn’t mean they’re more important than you are.
Yes, it's illegal, and you likely have a convincing case if you can prove when the photos were taken. If you were as young as 15 in those naked photos, he's guilty of quite a bit. Not a lawyer so get proper advice in legal chamnels
Yes!!! Came her to comment this! I would dump someone IMMEDIATELY if they did this, this is so wild to me she just blew past it so casually
You just don't respect him, then
I’d be willing to work on it if she came to visit me for awhile in my town. I work a salaried job and she works as a waitress and I was willing to let her stay with me for awhile while we try and work on our relationship. As for the kids she’s been on and off about if she’s open to it or not, so I have no idea about that currently.
Addictions nurse here. If you already have anxiety, then definitely steer clear of cocaine. It has a very well known side effect of massive anxiety. Your bf is looking out for your best interest.
He is panicking and having major anxiety. He needs therapy and possible meds. He should see a therapist for anxiety and a psychiatrist for meds. I don’t know your situation totally but if this was me I’d go stay with parents until he calms down.
…you can subscribe to a service without an account? In order to buy the subscription in the first place, you need to go to your profile settings. I’m not sure I’m buying your story.
My ex slept around a bit when we divorced. She got a pretty widely known, and quite unflattering, nickname in town.
I feel so sorry for your ex wife. Shes the one who has suffered through all of this, not you. You made your bed, now go lie in it.
Also to the person who replied I can't see the rest of your comment. I'd like to know what you said but it won't show it to me
Lmao are you the husband?
He married her, had kids with her, spent twenty years with her, but he confessed his love to another woman. He spoke to a divorce lawyer already but hasn’t divorced his wife, not because he loves her but because of the money. He’s been distant and cold for years to the point that his wife just does her own thing because he’s never given her the closeness she needs.
She deserves a committed partner. She deserves a partner who loves her, not the idea of some woman he briefly dated twenty years ago.
His mental issues don’t mean that she has to stay married to a man who doesn’t love her. Him being checked out of their marriage for years would have honestly been enough for me to leave him. But obsessive love for another woman? Why the fuck should OP stay with him when he’s in love with someone who is not his wife?
What about her mental health? I can’t imagine how depressed and anxious and defeated I would be at learning that my partner of twenty years whom I share children with has been obsessively in love with someone else the entire time they were married to me.
Mental health issues are valid but so is wanting a husband who loves you.
I did too. He fucking doxxed her basically. Can't we do something to get him banned?
We’ve had the conversation almost weekly for years. I’d say for the first 6 years I fought back. With absolutely horrendous results. The last few years I’ve either ignored it or just brought up that it’s just her morning rage and not engaged back. What I’m worried about is the kids. Taking it shows them that it’s ok. Fighting back leads to absolutely horrible fights in front of them. Both results are bad. In the moment she can never see what she is doing. She just says that I’m trying to control her
Rape isn't cheating. Even if it hadn't been rape, you were broken up and ergo anything you did wasn't cheating.
I don't think this sounds like it was ever a healthy relationship. You should leave him.
Maybe her manager was upset with her work or something and when you called him it mightve made her look bad.
Take your pillow(idk if you washed it) to the police
Like yes you have a horrible family, but WHYYYY did you not leave??? You actually stayed?
Omg go buy yourself a shiny new spine, please! The fact that you let your bf sit through that shit says a lot about who you are.
I would like to say in all these instances he pressured me and at one time admitted to not wearing a condom and refusing to stop when I said no multiple times.
He pressured her, yes, which is coercion and a form of sexual assault. He also didn’t wear a condom which she did not consent to, also a form of assault. And most egregiously, he refused to stop after she said no multiple times, which is cut and dry sexual assault.
There’s no line of fault that op could have which makes it okay for this guy to treat her the way he did, and it’s fucking gross that you’re trying to somehow make any part of this her fault. He ghosted her because he’s a rapist creep who’d gotten what he wanted and wanted to hide from the consequences.
Please don't do that unless you know from members of your local kink community that no one has ever been charged with a crime.
People on reddit don't know where you live. I absolutely know of an old Dom who was charged for his BDSM relationship with his wife. It was the bible belt. People in that community still avoid the cops and consider it likely they could be charged.
Right? Like damn girl if you've hit 30 and still this naive? My god.
Umm I would take legal steps obviously???call the police and report this clear crime!!!
Super Abusive boyfriend.
Please RUN away! You will never make friends or get a life whilst on the phone to him 24/7. Dump him , block him and try to make a life for yourself as a single woman for a while. Create some independance before you date anyone. ( he will accuse you of cheating, block ignore and warn those around you of your plan in case he escalates)
When you do date avoid any guy who you feel an instant “connection” with and date only guys who you feel a physical attraction to who also seem good on paper.
Any guy that feels “familiar” will likely be abusive because that is what you are familiar with currently. You need a guy who seems different and aloof if you are to avoid repeating your mistake again.
Not a lot of sense to talk, between you and his sister he is choosing her.
Get out and find someone who puts you first
Reminds me of the story where the husband absolutely hated his new boss, talked crap about him for a couple years. Thought he was a bully. At the company Christmas party, his wife bumped into an ex from college. Yep, his boss. It did not go or end well.
i dont know how to break up with my husband. he would be ver lonely because he is an introvert and has some anxiety issues. When we met he was basically a virgin with no friends and no family. im all he has and I dont mean that in a burden way. he is the love of my life and just leaving him gives me pain. but if bff is going to tell him I think he better herd it from me. but I dont want to.
He overreacted to be sure, but don't loan out shit that's not yours.
That is emotional abuse. Being ignored is very abusive.
You should not stay with someone who thinks it is normal to “punish” a partner. It isn’t their job to punish you. You are an adult.
There is no blood relationship between them and you didn't grow up together. You're being squeamish but step back and look. You guys would be terrible to punish them for happiness. I think you guys are missing an opportunity to hilariously mess with people. Because there's fundamentally nothing wrong with it. It's purely semantics that makes it weird, there's no actual familial relationship outside your marriage, and just like your marriage isn't their business, their relationship isn't yours. Any sane person wouldn't find it gross once explained.
You should 100% get with her best friend. I don’t care what anyone says it will make you feel better.
It’s very ridiculous for a partner to love their pet more than them, also I know my wife and the way she interacts with that turtle. It's not just a matter of loving an animal more than a person, I swear this turtle is up to something. And I've seen that smirk, trust me.
What is with people on Reddit lol? Go for it dude, who cares if she's older. You're an adult
Go NC with them, focus on your wife and being happy. Your sister will be able to escape them eventually, just make sure to be there for her when the time comes.
Good luck on having babies with your wife in the near future!
Two brain tumors? Focus on your health. That’s a serious diagnosis. I hope your treatment has started and is going well.
ChatGPT can only get so creative.
I'm curious as to why you think we should give you advice when you refuse to medicate your mental health issues? Do you think someone's advice on here is going to be a magic wand that erases your behavior, your mental health issues and this will all go away? Because otherwise, unless and until you take 100% responsibility for your mental health, none of us can truly help you.
The fact that you're married to your daughter's classmate is gross. The fact that you're trying to justify it is also gross
Hold up, the math just ain't mathing.
Why the heck were you only paying 160 less in rent, then paying for all the groceries, doing all the cooking, and doing all the cleaning?!
There was a big income difference when that was happening. And that's OUTRAGEOUSLY unfair.
And now you're supposed to pay half the rent, PLUS do all that extra stuff!?!? …AND HE STILL MAKES 30k more than you?!
Girl, run as fast as those legs of yours will carry you.
Just so you know there’s no statute of limitations on child abuse, she can press charges whenever so long as she has evidence of your crimes.
I wouldn't be surprised if he's either transferring that strictness to his mom or is trying to filter her bfs for her. I'm trying to give the benefit of the doubt of something weirder as that is much less likely anyways.
Thanks very much! Did you see my DM? 🙂
It doesn’t take 10 years to do it and while I’m a huge fan of world travel, living abroad, experiencing other cultures and seeing the world? That would be a HELL NO for me.
If it were me, I’d ask him to put together a plan. Take sailing lessons. Put some effort into identifying what it would take financially, what it would mean for training, what it would mean for homeschooling a 10YO to ensure that their education isn’t negatively impacted.
I can appreciate having a dream. But I suspect that he has a very romanticized view on all of this and if he were to actually put some thought into the practical aspects, he might realize that this 10 year thing is not gonna work out.
And maybe he can find a way to be into sailing or world travel that doesn’t negatively impact you and your kid.
I’d tell him you don’t really want to discuss it further til he has some training and a solid plan.
Or you can just placate him and cross this bridge when it actually becomes reality. Which it probably won’t.
Listen, I (44F) would love to be a Grand Prix jumper (horses) and compete in the Olympics. That’s just not realistic. But I can (and do) have horses and enjoy them. Maybe he needs to scale back, get a catamaran or something and sail a few times a month. I hate to crush dreams but he’s made some life choices—like having kids—that make what he wants to do pretty irresponsible and unrealistic.
Y’all are really giving me some perspective because I expected everyone to be upset that I wasn’t respecting her boundary of not wanting anyone over.
It’s not so much that I’m a doormat (I don’t think) but when it comes to judgement calls, I can never tell if I’m being “reasonable”. Like I need someone to tell me if I’m being reasonable. I am actually going to therapy for a different reason and I may bring some of this up but really I have a naked time having conviction in what I say
Both these things are pretty easy fixes so I wasn’t too concerned.
This only applies if you're meeting a 10 year old. At 24 you should be very concerned.
Look, OP, I'm gonna be honest, I just skimmed from this point forward because this post comes up every couple of weeks or so.
THERE IS NO AMOUNT OF LOVE THAT EXCUSES A STANKASS.
How should you put it? Bluntly and directly. “Compassionate” sailed away around the time he was 13 or so.
“Hey, dude, you're a swell guy but your hygiene game is way off. While you have many qualities I find attractive, your lack of hygiene gives me pause. It's bad enough that I would not consider any physical affection for fear of being grossed out.
I hope you can take care of it.”
If Stinkor's response is to get butthurt instead of jumping into the nearest shower, he is not a keeper.
Please report him. PLEASE. My wife was raped a few years ago and it has affected her so so much. She didn't report the assaulter out of fear ( a couple of years before she met me) and it is now too late to do a thing.
Out there, the man that robbed my wife of normality and dignity is going about his life free and gets to enjoy things and that has never sat okay with me.
Please. Please don't let your “friend” become that guy.
christ he’s just a pedo
Honey, you married an abusive narcissist. They hide who they really are, and then you get married, and their true nature starts to come out. The slowly isolate you from friends and family. They find reasons for you to not work to further isolate you. He intended to have you fail uni so that you wouldn't be able to get a great job. He will not change, but you can. You can leave him. You're still so young. Please do not waste any more time with this awful person.
Ah, ok. Makes sense. I don’t think that’s it then because I truly don’t feel like that is happening.
My family was always asking me when he was going to propose, and I just told them it was going to happen “any day now” (because we had just moved in together) but that went on for 2 years.
On the rare occasion when he agreed to visit my family, and they would jokingly ask him, he would say something like “I know you latinos are crazy about that” and then just kinda dismiss it.
I'm not sure if that counts as leading both me, and my family on.
Age gaps are problematic when the older one targets the younger one because of their age, and there is a significant power imbalance because of their different life stages.
For example, a 40 year old who earns 6 figures & has had several serious, long term relationships who targets a 20 year old who has no previous relationships & is lucky to earn $100 a week. The older one has more power & can use that to exploit the younger one & force them into an abusive dynamic.
But in your case, neither one of you knew each others age. You assumed that you were closer than you were, which also indicates that you are in similar life stages & have a lot in common. You have taken some time getting to know each other, which is good. He didn’t “target” you because you are 20, if anything it seems like he is staying with you despite you being 20.
It’s always a good idea to know what the early stages of abuse looks like, but that’s true of any relationship, not just “age gap relationships”. But don’t get so caught up looking for red flags (and not everything is a red flag) that you miss all the green flags.
Several friends of mine ended up marrying a guy who was 6-10 years older than them, and they are perfectly happy, stable & loving relationships. So a 6 year age gap is pretty normal, and not something to worry about.
I was tempted too at the start of it all but I gave it the benefit of doubt and like I said above she has been making time for me and putting in the effort and I’ve met her family and everything.
You are right, this is OPs abuser training her on how to lose her sense of self. That’s one of the first things they work at taking away.
There is still time for him to process. I still have to process my own
This is 100% a control issue. Whether he didn’t want you hearing what he was saying or doing in his game room or whether he needs to be in on everything you do, and changes in plans really upset him – either way it’s not okay. The name calling is abuse. The over reaction is frightening. I’m worried he could escalate.
I’m autistic. A change in plans makes me irrationally upset. Like to a level I don’t get upset about anything else. And I never name call. I might say “I don’t like that change because I feel x.” And then maybe go nap to calm down and then I’m okay. Or I’ll get quiet and it sounds like I’m angry because I sort of stone wall. I keep my answers short and concise. “Yup. Okay. Yeah. Have fun. See ya.” That sort of thing. But I do calm down easily and typically am fine (like if he had plans to be home with me at night but then decided to get drinks with friends instead – I get upset. Nap while he’s gone. And I’m fine once he’s home. He knows to go whether I’m upset or not because it has nothing to do with him. It’s 100% a me issue. I’m mad at the change in plans but recognize he has every right to see his friends occasionally for some beers lol. But if it’s a change like he said he was going to play video games but took a nap instead or vice versa – I might be a little peeved he napped without me but that’s about it.)
So this is advice coming from someone who has experience in having a naked time with a change in plans. This was over the top, irrational and not at all appropriate. It sounds like he may have other issues going on. And that can be dangerous – especially if you’re a people pleaser. I’m the last person to tel anyone on the internet to break up with their partners. But this requires therapy at the very least. For him. If he starts to use therapy to manipulate you further – get out. He’s dangerous.
You're fully justified if you want to leave someone actively using drugs.
Just because he raises his voice, doesn’t mean that he is necessarily in the wrong. Sometimes arguments get a little heated and emotions run high.
I dated someone who would say the snarkiest things at times and talk to me like I was an idiot. Pretty disrespectful in itself, but because they didn’t yell they saw nothing wrong with it. Well SOMETIMES, I would get frustrated and raise my voice when this would happen. They would make me seem like the bad guy and took forever to acknowledge their condescending tone.
Anger and frustration are valid emotions when disrespect occurs. As long as he isn’t threatening you and this isn’t happening frequently, then y’all should be fine.
So, he wants to cheat with your permission. You do know that you have the right to say NO and not allow him to cheat, right?
I don't understand why so many women allow this based on “his sexual drive” as if he just can't help it. He has a hand to take care of that drive yet you're giving him full permission to sleep around and make you miserable.
If you don't want this, tell him no. If he breaks up with you, then that's probably for the best. He doesn't value you and cares more about his “needs” than his partnership and relationship with you. Have some self respect.
(Open relationships can work but it has to be a mutual decision between a couple who has very good communication and trust, you guys don't have that.)
Sounds more like an autistic breakdown or something like that. In any case, she clearly needs help to deal with anger and anxiety issues. Every individual and every relationship goes through troubled times. If it were up to this sub, not a single relationship would survive. It seems to be full of people who have been in a bad relationship for too long. Which makes sense when you think about it, but it results in very biased responses.
Or, since his mom is presumably going to be at the lake house, is he gonna ask her to put together something for them? Or even just snag some leftovers from the fridge vs. actually doing the food himself?