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“To any women on here, would you be okay with becoming a free therapist for a guy that's avoiding therapy for some reason?”
That's what I'm reading.
Regardless of whether they're a dude or not, if someone is seeking out a relationship to “fix themselves”, it's a red flag. You explaining what you meant below doesn't make it any better either. Invest in a therapist instead of forcing your issues onto another person.
Or older men date me because women their own age are embarrassed to be around them.
I'm sorry you're in this situation. But to make your next move, you should stop thinking things like, “she refuses to let me go” or “she's making me stay” (from your comments).
She doesn't have control over you, just like you don't control her. You need to make your own choices, even if it's to protect yourself against her.
Ephebophilia.
Gotta be honest here: sounds like your bf is using you to be Mom#2 for his kids. And emotionally manipulating you when you try to discuss the situation is a big red flag.
You already made up your mind, you don't want to live that lifestyle. So you're going to have to break up with your bf. He's not going to change; those kids are his for life.
Break up now, and get it over with. You'll both move on and find partners better suited to your lifestyles in short order.
How do shitty ppl like this get into relationships I will never understand
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He didn't make a mistake by snapping at her. He was reasonably upset because of her actions.
A good parent doesn’t try to force their child to choose. Only crap parents do that.
you tell your mom, it's a super easy decision but still difficult to do. But the decision is a nobrainer. what you do right now define you as a human being. Be a good one.
First off, threesomes can be awesome…if everyone is into that. I'm assuming you have never given your husband any reason to believe that you would be, so he's clearly a selfish jerk, no doubt. I don't think he is necessarily cheating on you, but I wouldn't put it past him (or at least put it past him to do it in the future). Obviously, you shouldn't have married him and I am surprised he was willing to do it.
That said, the real problem here isn't really him, it's your family. You say you don't want to lose them, and I understand that because that's what you've known, but please be 100% clear, they have told you how important you are to them (you aren't important at all). They are more concerned with some stupid notion of 'dishonor' than worrying about your welfare. Your siblings are equally brainwashed into thinking they have to stay in terrible relationships because they were trapped and are so miserable they don't have any empathy to help you out. Your family DOES NOT CARE about you. At least, not without strings. They would rather you stay in a relationship no matter what (including cheating and possibly abuse) than look after yourself. This is terrible and it breaks my heart but the sooner you realize that they are not there for you, the better off you will be.
Honestly, as nude as it is, I would recommend you tell your idiot husband that under no circumstances are you going to have a threesome or is to ever mention it again. He is to never see or speak to that woman again. If he does either, you get a lawyer. Meanwhile, I would cut off the parents and siblings that treated you that way. Look for extended family that actually have human empathy and focus on them. Your parents and siblings have shown you who they are, please believe them.
There can be a number of reasons:
This is an activity with his friends that that don't share with others (aka, guy's night) Depending on what he's playing, the learning curve is steep and he doesn't want to teach someone the ropes. He doesn't want to police himself. Some guys' language can get a little salty, especially if they're frustrated, and he doesn't want to subject you to that and/or face chastisement over it. I've been known to drop an f-bomb or two during my gameplay, and my wife saying, “Honey, it's only a game!” does little to quell my temporary frustration.
Yeah when I've mentioned it to her she just says she doesn't know why they would say that and they're just friends. It's not that the coworkers think they're messing around, I think it's more that they said they would be good together.
Well she has to start listening; this is who he is. If she doesn't want to be indoors all the time then they are simply not compatible and she should go find someone else who actually wants to go out with her and will treat her better.
Very harsh but true. Someone's whose entire concept of love and marriage takes a 180 after a few til tok videos is a moron.
ah, thank you. i do think i just need to lay it out there and not let him avoid the convo.
Woooooow. Dude, even with casual sex you ask them out first. Most people I have had casual sex with, we have gone out for food, drinks, whatever, and seen where things go, or we were all somewhere where it is appropriate, and expected to proposition each other (and that is most definitely NOT randomly after class), which is not something that is common at all.
File a police report on the blackmail and harassment.
You dated him for months, so if he spread that, it’s true anyway. Just tell people you’d been separated long before you started dating.
Thank you, that sounds like a good course of action. I think I’ll tell my therapist now and my dad tomorrow when he comes over for his laundry. One question though, what should I do with it? I have half a mind to throw it away or something but I’m not sure. I’ve never dealt with a situation like this.
Run to the hills Run for your lives
I will not only go NC, but I'd tell my parents/close friends/secure circle about this situation. Making a joke like that, even after a 2 year relationship, its a big NO from me.
Based on this interaction I suspect Mother’s Day isn’t the only day you two have problems. All of the screaming is just toxic.
Where I live, it’s customary for partners with kids to celebrate each other on Mother’s/Father’s Day. Yes, your son is old enough to get his own gift for you, but your partner should also show appreciation for you as mother to his kid.
So you had no discussion at all before booking? You are engaged to be married, to be in a partnership. That means to talk to your partner before booking. He's not saying you needed his permission he's saying you didn't even discuss it with him. Didn't get his thoughts on it. You've really twisted his words to suit your agenda here.
When in a committed relationship you talk about these things.
Stay in San Diego.o
Bro….start dating and stop going for the easy way. I hope you are not married.
Thank you this helps a lot. The way you put it makes me understand a better I will make sure to apologize to her and tell her why and why I won’t do it again. Thank you for telling me to keep my head up I will do me best to change and not to let it get to my head. And I will try to be better with my punctuation
Heartbreak sucks. Revel in it, soak in it, mourn the relationship, then give it a viking funeral.
Tomorrow is a new day, the sun will rise in the east, and a pretty girl will bat her eyes at you. You'll be fine.
Love it ??
Don’t send her flowers. She’s not your girlfriend.
Being too heavy increases the pressure. Tone it down, be casual.
Doesn't matter how hygienic you are – anyone going a day without a shower is gonna get stinky fast.
You don’t say what their advice is or why so it’s really nude to say. Ultimately you should make your own path and follow your truth. That said I imagine your parents do have your best interest at heart.
Just to be social i guess?
I think not responding for hours is way different from not responding for two days. Like you can't text during work? That's fine. You can't text during chores? Also fine. But at one point in the day, you will be free atleast for a few minutes. Shooting a small response, even if it's “I'm busy rn, sorry” would be fine.
From what OP said, she basically dips on the guy for two whole days.
I'm with everyone else. End it. You feel disrespected and you were. Even if he didn't hear your help request, that doesn't explain everything else. He choose to slight you for whatever reason. You're better than that so find someone better than him.