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Speaking as a woman, more specifically a bi woman with female friends all across the sexuality spectrum, no. We definitely don't just constantly grab, feel on, and stick our faces in each other's boobs. Especially not while in a committed relationship.
You're not crazy and your girlfriend is disrespectful. Be calm and clear. “Baby, I know you and Lola have an interesting kind of friendship. I am incredibly uncomfortable with how much she is in/on your breasts. I am asking you to respect my comfort level as your partner and set a boundary for her to stop.”
She might argue that you're controlling. Controlling would be refusing to ever allow her friend around. Controlling is not expressing that seeing another person feel all over your partner is uncomfortable. A LOT of people wouldn't like it. It is okay for you to be uncomfortable.
Lastly, two years or not, be prepared to leave. Realistically, she isn't going to change this behavior. You have to love and respect yourself enough to know that you deserve better. She'll likely push back and argue you are the problem. You aren't. Or, she'll have no spine to set the boundary. Either way, staying means being okay with being disrespected. Are you okay with being disrespected?
It's one thing for them to say that you had to sleep separately at their house – it's their home, after all. But it's not reasonable that they got upset at you for staying with your sister instead. And the “not family” comment was both hurtful and nonsensical.
As others have said, I would have a conversation with them about the past before deciding what to do. If either of you aren't comfortable with staying there, find different accommodations from now on.
So is your friend stupid? This is not what a trigger is, and it invalidates/trivializes actual triggers that people can have. She is just feeling jealousy/envy.
Almost everyone's advice here is spot on: hope for the best, but prepare for the worst. Gaming this out in your mind will help you explain the situation fully, and make your case.
The only thing I'd add it to avoid catastrophizing the situation (as some in here are)–that your wife, regardless of your agreement to be childfree, will out-of-hand reject your daughter, leave you, or be resentful of her.
Explain this is unexpected and a major life “curveball” Validate her feelings (this is a 180 degree change/this is “a lot”) Re-assure your love for her and your life together Tell her why this means so much to you to do, and listen to her response.
Humans can be shitty–but they also have an amazing capacity to adapt, as long as all cards are on the table, and all parties have communication and realistic goals.