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Tell him.
Yeah, that's the thing. I can't tell if i'm being rational or not!
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i would usually be thinking that way so soon in a relationship but he moves faster than i do, he talks more certainly about our future and is more committed than i am and i feel as though i should be in the same page as him. i have told him how what he said and has said upset me but i’ll make sure to ask him if i can look through his messages with her, i just didn’t want to be intruding on his privacy.
it is real – im 51 yes ive made some mistakes but i want her back
Relationships over. She pretty much told you this. Leave with ur dignity intact(ish) my dude.
That part of my comment was using the universal you, not directed at you specifically, my apologies for the miscommunication there. Aside from that, the point that I was trying to get across is that you should be supportive of your partner and that reassurance is necessary in some instances (especially if they’re just beginning therapy or their journey in general) and if you are not willing to be in a relationship where you are required to do so, then you should not be in it… which means we are entirely agreeing.
You stated yourself here that you were not ready to be in a relationship — and I am saying that if somebody were to see you in that state and decide to attempt being in a relationship with you regardless but did not put forth the effort to assist you in getting better, then it is a useless relationship for them to be in. If OP’s boyfriend is sticking through it while she starts working on herself, and supporting her — that’s what matters. If he doesn’t, they shouldn’t be together. That was my point.
I also never said that it should be one sided, I said “your partner” — and in every relationship, both of them are each other’s partner. My comments about him supporting her relate vice versa.
Again, I apologize for the miscommunication, I think in images rather than words so sometimes the meaning gets misconstrued when I try to word it.
I want my pictures off his phone and never to be taken again. I don't know if I'm in the wrong for wanting this.
Are you nuts?… You gave him sexy photos and you're more than within your rights to withdraw them.
Next time you see him, get his phone, delete them yourself, go to recently deleted and empty the trash.
And then you should be considering if this the kind of partner you want to invest in. This relationship does not sound like a healthy environment that lifts you up, it's one that pulls you down.
He doesn’t care if I take care of myself, but I’m thinking maybe I need some new toys or different ones?
Then they don't get the opportunity to love either of them. Like seriously who in the hell would think like this? It would still be their daughters child.
But OP doesn't need to dig into if her fiance shares these feelings. Something is really fucked up here. Is this truely the family you want to marry into?
Especially given her age, there's a lot of room for turnaround. But OP's already wasted a year of her time, better for her to move on. Dating someone with unaddressed deal-breakers for a year is just shitty.