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There can be a lot of reasons. Maybe he’s waiting till marriage or he’s scared that he’ll finish faster and you won’t like it, maybe he thinks he won’t be able to satisfy you and you might want to end things and he’s scare of losing you. I’ll say ask him if he’s waiting till marriage and ask yourself if he eventually sleep with you and he didn’t satisfy you in a way you want are you going to end the relationship. To me I think he’s just scared of losing you because he might not be as good as you want.
Really??? I can't imagine that this would be a dealbreaker for a guy. Most men love the idea of having a threesome. I've even had a guy ask me if I'd join him and his girlfriend.
That's the first time you said that she should call the cops. Did you mean to say she shouldn't call the cops?
Most of your energy was trying to make light of the situation and encouraging her to forgive him if she thinks he just didn't know any better.
Pegging wasn't my example. Another person used it first, but what's your objection to it? The reason the other person brought up pegging is because they're both penetration, obviously.
You'd rather analogize it to a BJ because (I suspect) you understand very intuitively that being penetrated while you sleep without your consent is pretty fucked up. And that lots of men have a fantasy of being awakened with oral.
But a BJ would be more equivalent to forcible cunnilingus. He full-on had intercourse with her, hence the pegging analogy. It's more apt.
It sounds like you've communicated your boundaries to her…and she has ignored them and made it all about her. That isn't a good friend.
You are allowed to have friendships on whatever terms suit you. I suspect you are already trying to compromise to some middle ground that already makes things uncomfortable for you. If she still wants more of you than you are prepared to give, then that crosses the line into negativity. If you have already told her all this, then there's not a lot else to do than walk away from the friendship. I would have one last attempt to get through to her before doing just that if she continues to be selfish.
There can be a lot of reasons. Maybe he’s waiting till marriage or he’s scared that he’ll finish faster and you won’t like it, maybe he thinks he won’t be able to satisfy you and you might want to end things and he’s scare of losing you. I’ll say ask him if he’s waiting till marriage and ask yourself if he eventually sleep with you and he didn’t satisfy you in a way you want are you going to end the relationship. To me I think he’s just scared of losing you because he might not be as good as you want.
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Really??? I can't imagine that this would be a dealbreaker for a guy. Most men love the idea of having a threesome. I've even had a guy ask me if I'd join him and his girlfriend.
Let me ask you this: what positive things does he bring to your life?
All of these are negative, and it feels like he’s trying to break your self-esteem. That’s emotional abuse. This will only get worse.
Dump him and move on.
He’s a felon that can’t legally get one. Right, OP?
That’s quite a leap.
That's the first time you said that she should call the cops. Did you mean to say she shouldn't call the cops?
Most of your energy was trying to make light of the situation and encouraging her to forgive him if she thinks he just didn't know any better.
Pegging wasn't my example. Another person used it first, but what's your objection to it? The reason the other person brought up pegging is because they're both penetration, obviously.
You'd rather analogize it to a BJ because (I suspect) you understand very intuitively that being penetrated while you sleep without your consent is pretty fucked up. And that lots of men have a fantasy of being awakened with oral.
But a BJ would be more equivalent to forcible cunnilingus. He full-on had intercourse with her, hence the pegging analogy. It's more apt.
Plus, no consent means it's not a fantasy.
It sounds like you've communicated your boundaries to her…and she has ignored them and made it all about her. That isn't a good friend.
You are allowed to have friendships on whatever terms suit you. I suspect you are already trying to compromise to some middle ground that already makes things uncomfortable for you. If she still wants more of you than you are prepared to give, then that crosses the line into negativity. If you have already told her all this, then there's not a lot else to do than walk away from the friendship. I would have one last attempt to get through to her before doing just that if she continues to be selfish.