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Why does it sound like me lmao. Does she at least reply when you message her?
OP, this is a dangerous situation.
This is an abuser in the closet. This is a narcissist that will be kind at first, slowly tear you down, and then beat the living fuck out of you & terrorize you. Eventually they get to the point where they have no filter anymore.
I’m very sorry. It’s hot to grieve people that aren’t dead. But i am so proud of you for recognizing it & leaving. You are fucking awesome
Yeah, maybe. But I usually thought you better be with smn on holiday, especially with your partner rather than alone.
Be firm and tell her that it's not something that you are into and that you have serious reservations about . Tell her that there are some things that you are just unwilling to do, and that's final, OR do you want to start something that she's really into and will want to repeat again. Some doors should be left shut…. Literally
It would be better to try couples counseling first.
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If he doesn't want to meet, why can't you just break up over the phone?
I rest my case. Cut her off cold turkey. Write off the months/years as a bad investment and don't look back. Don't fall for the sunk-cost fallacy and think you need to make all that time mean anything. It doesn't, didn't, and you don't own her a damn thing. Launch that weight off your shoulders and walk away with your head held high and guilt free.
Definitely don't try to make it work. He showed you that he's a scum bag. Take it for face value and leave.
You don’t trust her and rightly so, and she doesn’t respect you. Call it quits.
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In person is best, and you need to voice your concerns without sounding accusatory or insecure.
You could inquire as to the relationship between him and her, and if there's ever been romantic feelings between them. Realistically what you're missing on your end is a lot of the history and context. You might be seeing something, as in she has feelings for him, but dig deeper before making conclusions.
I just feel bad because I already lost my mom and I don't want to cut ties with another family member. I know my grandma means well.
Just a note that based on the way you’ve told the story, it sounds like Jane is making a power play to hurt John after their divorce. In this case driving a wedge between John and your mother/her family. Worst part is that she’s doing that through you.
I don’t know enough about your family dynamics to address the rest. But man, fuck Jane for putting you in this position under the auspices of ‘you deserve to know’.
This would not be an appropriate role for you to play in your parents marriage. I think mom should ask dad directly. Also she doesn't really need proof does she in order to do something about what she probably already knows is happening. So try to focus the discussion on “Mom what do you want to happen here…”
After a fight with my girlfriend (now wife) years ago, she said that she hated me. She meant that she hated what I did or said, I don't even remember. But I told her that I take these things seriously and that if this is how she feels, ok I'll leave, but if she doesn't meant it so don't say it, because I'll leave next time she says it . And I mean it.
I don't know if your husband just said it in the heat of the moment, but I suggest you tell him the same. If he wants to end it, do it with cool heads and discussing things like adult p, if he wants to be mean, better not repeat it or else you will go through the divorce. And you have to mean it
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It’s me that thinks things need to change. I would rather them on-line out here with me than be a country away if anything happens to him I wouldn’t be there in time because I’d be on a 8h flight.
There are times in a relationship when one should keep their big mouth shut. OP, this is one of those times! Spouting off your opinion on this issue will accomplish nothing and will only hurt your girlfriend's feelings.
This exactly. You stuck him in your hoarder mom's house, u have a temper. You expect him to want to clean ur moms nasty ass house and deal with your mouth as well. Woman to woman… u bugging mama. Most men don't wanna clean their own mess why would they care about ur moms house??? He's running for his life
Literally said nothing in the post about a vacation so I didn’t see that. And they can give gifts but jewelry is a romantic gift and literally has been for centuries. Like I said, I wouldn’t do it to my partner, and I expect the same. My boundaries are my boundaries, period.
Ur gf is a sexual predator
My question is, why does he care? This is ridiculous
Then you need to dump him. As someone else already said, a boundary is a rule you put on yourself about how you'll respond. It's not a rule you get to put on him (because you can't control anyone else).
Your second option is to drop the boundary. You're going to have a very hot time finding a young man who doesn't look at porn.
This is so true, when I was in college for IT, we had a deaf student. I know basic ASL and he had a translator, but I had to work with her to help with how to translate some things so he could better understand.
He was a really nice dude so we paired up a lot. He was patient with my crappy ASL skills too lol.
I took pills for a different problem (sarcoma surgery related) and they are also used for PE and it was literally impossible to ejaculate it took so long I basically collapsed from exhaustion. There’s an easy solution in pill form.
People ask me why I divorced my wife. My response? “I couldn’t get along with her boyfriends”.
Seriously, why would you allow another man in your relationship? The fact that she brought it up means, her one foot is out the door.
Run my friend.
I wish I could afford another set of aids, but even cheap ones cost a bunch. Her last set were $3000, lasted two years and were supposed to help with her hearing and tinnitus issues. None of which were solved. Oh, let’s try these aids instead. Ka-Ching! Aids aren’t covered by Medicare.
I’ve tried discussing it with her and all I hear is you have to accommodate me. I try, but there has to be a two way effort.
I have canes and walkers all over the place and encourage her to use them.
The last two times we were at the docs I set up my iPad to record their diagnosis and recommendations. Upon playback the video of her being told that she should always use her cane or walker pissed her off, mostly because I purposely had asked the question about their use to the docs.
It sounds like the pair or you are stubborn. I want a sandwich! I want sex ! No sex no sandwich. I think you guys need to communicate better with each other. Ideal scenario would be a nice relaxing time which includes sandwiches and sex but no one demanding it on tap. Does your wife usually run to the spare room when she doesn’t get her own way ? And do you always insist on that sandwich ? Maybe a bit more flexibility will smooth things over.
me personally i couldn’t but i would still communicate how i felt.
She’s dyin’ for some new cock, ngl
Go in with no expectations. I understand you’ve been together for a while, but people change.
What a joke. This has to be a troll
There’s nothing particularly unusual about your reaction.
In fact, I would guess the number of people who become angry and immediately leave their partner in these situations is pretty moderate to small. It’s a violation, but people usually prioritize what feels good and convenient. Which is what you’re doing.
The guy has raped you and lied to you about it because he knows it’s rape. At very least, document it somewhere. Maybe email it to yourself or make a submission to an anonymous DV address for advice/support.
You know this happened to you. Make a record of it. It could come in handy later.
I will seek counseling
No thank you. Is this the life you want?
I replied above to OP as a child in a similar situation. My Mom never left the d-bag until he died and her “for you kids” made me resent and disrespect her to this day.
“For the kids” doesn’t mean shit unless a person dies it for themselves first. When kids grow into adults, they rarely respect a parent who stayed in controlling or abusive relationships.
She's more likely making the story up for karma. How can anyone want to stay with someone that admitted they wanting to rape you for the longest?
Fucking break up
Hoping and praying is going to get you nowhere, be an adult and talk with him about it. Communication is how issues need to be handled in relationships.
Well first you have to ask yourself if you really consider your “best friend” that close when you tell her something in confidence and she tells her bf. You haven't seemed to address that part as if it was fine that they went and did that. Especially when they both know that his sister died of cancer recently.
I'm actually skeptical to believe any guy friend group would poke fun at a guy who's sister died not but 2 months ago. I mean they exist but they aren't really his friends if they're doing this.
Lastly you really are a stupid cunt. Like who gives a shit about how you feel? You lost that right the second you broke your bfs trust.
Awww does the 23 yo woman FEEL guilty? Who the fuck cares. Maybe if you took two seconds to think about how others would feel you wouldn't have gotten yourself in this mess.
Do better.
If he was ashamed he would not have kept it.
Your girlfriend will dump you if she’s smart.
You said it yourself, you might be coming off as high maintenance.
Here is a good thought exercise for this.
Review what made you two work well in the early stages of your timeline.
When you two started dating, I bet there was a degree of space and easy to manage time dedication. It was easy-going and the connection didn't come off as a job.
Under those conditions, it where your connection blossomed and grew.
Obviously, establishing R-status there is going be new depth and layers to handle. However, you don't want to drastically change your dynamics from the template that made you two work in the first place.
That environment and conditions is something you want to maintain to a degree.
As you went on, you added more layers. Now you're at a point where all those layers may have hit a limit for your GF, becoming too much to handle. Nothing wrong with it. That just means you need to adapt a little by toning down the weight of your reletionship for her.
And if you can't see eye to eye on what you need out of your reletionship, that is where you reevaluate things. But the reletionship needs to be build in a way where both people can exist inside of it comfortably.
You may want all the things in the world for your reletionship, however, sometimes you need to compromise on things to keep her functioning well in it. Alternatively, wait for better timing to introduce new layers.
You kept choosing your mother and downplaying your wife’s feelings and now after years of bullying she’s ready to leave?
Be decent and go low or no contact with your mother and let your wife heal or be prepared to lose her. I wouldn’t stay to be mistreated whilst you sit back passively and shrug like you ain’t got a choice in it. It’s not attractive.
It’s pretty normal for sec to fluctuate over the course of a relationship. Honestly 4-5 times per week sounds like a lot to sustain
And here it is ladies and gents. The guy who is willing to cheat because he can’t keep it in his pants.
Agree with all your points except the last 2.
I think one should play mind games if you are being bullied mentally, it's not only moral, it's necessary in that case. And, secondly, it's not always obvious if you are being respected or just being played. I have been struggling with that a lot.
You’re having sex with a man that doesn’t know how to wipe his own ass….? Like he doesn’t even know how to clean his ass in the shower? Why is there always skid marks?!?!!!
I would rather die than have that man’s dick anywhere near me.
I would bring it up and see how she reacts. If she apologizes for her behavior all is good. If she defends her actions in a sober state then it might be worth to rethink the friendship.
Consider yourself lucky that you’re not already married. And you found out about this before the marriage. You do need to go talk to a lawyer as to custody of the child. I would assume that you wanna be heavily involved with his child you have all the evidence that she’s been cheating, which will help you and your fight for custody. Whatever you do, don’t stay in a toxic relationship for the sake of the child as being in a toxic relationship will do more damage to the child then you’ll be in a happy coparent.
What she told me is that she’s depressed and has been depressed for a while which we’ve talked about and that I don’t understand and I really don’t either because when I ask her why she just says she doesn’t know and that she had a dream about him and that he was always good to her and that it was her way of telling him that she thinks about how good he was to her, if that makes sense. I don’t buy it though.
I want him to ask me what I would like to do this weekend instead of it every weekend bieng his and hers plan that u can just join .
INFO: how often are you home with your GF and friends?
How often is she hanging with him or the friend group?
This AI needs a bit of recursive self improvement….
Just say bye!
I don’t think i want to know man
Yeah. Thanks for this
I think he's right, you've said yourself the library is your passion project, the home gym is his and so if you aren't sharing the costs for his passions why should he for yours.
I think it's good you both have your own interests and respect each other's interests, keep doing that. Saying that your choice room is more useful than his so should be a shared expense when he isn't is a bit of a slap in the face to that equality.
Please leave him. Get professional help!
Right. He really needs to hear you’re not his babysitter/flatmate and he actually needs to act responsibly. Ask to go to couples therapy sessions and if nothing improves, sounds like you’ll be less worried on your own.
You shouldn’t be ashamed of feelings. You can’t really control them. What you can control, however, is how you handle them. You have a crush, it’s not the end of the world. However, use that to analyze your marriage and figure you what’s really bugging you that this guy at work represents. He could very well just be a symbol of youth and options that were easier before marriage that will pass in a week.
You shouldn’t be ashamed of feelings. You can’t really control them. What you can control, however, is how you handle them. You have a crush, it’s not the end of the world. However, use that to analyze your marriage and figure you what’s really bugging you that this guy at work represents. He could very well just be a symbol of youth and options that were easier before marriage that will pass in a week.
Before anything else, I want to say that what happened before you started dating seven years ago should have no bearing on your relationship today and how it goes forward. As a general rule, the first period of dating is just getting to know a person and doubts are super normal. Now, if this happened two years into your relationship, that would be. whole different story.
While I respect her intention to be honest, I think this is one thing she probably should have kept to herself. I can’t imagine a particularly positive outcome from her admission.
Appreciate the response.
I’m not very experienced overall but just getting anxious.
Is rubbing on the outside without a condom followed by sex with a condom you think ok going forward?
This is right
I am almost 49 and still have not accepted my mom will die.
So, you are in the early stages of emotionally cheating on your husband with his best friend and you are trying to justify it yourself that you are right to not only do so, but to expand on this cheating with his friend.
Can I just let you know that if you are looking for a world where drama, heartache, anger, sadness and hate rules – then you are going about building this world in the right way. For continuing on your present course will lead to all of these things and oh so much much more.
The emotional cheating you have going on with his best friend will not only hurt your husband, it will devastate him to his very core. It will tear him apart in ways that you would not even imagine in your worst nightmares.
What you are doing is taking the two people who are closest to him in life – you and his best friend – and then betraying him in the worst way possible. You say you don't want to hurt your husband, well please be assured that you are going about the right way to not just hurt him, but to absolutely destroy him.
If you want to turn this man you profess to love into someone who hates your very existence, then what you are doing is the right way. If you want him to curse the very mention of your name, to wish he had never met you and to become a person for whom hate and anger and mistrust and loathing is as normal to him as waking up in the morning then again, you are on the right path.
Your heart will destroy this man. Your affair with his best friend will destroy their friendship with the same finality as if one of them died.
You have chosen a path that will lead to the doom of not just yourself, but your husband, your lover and your children.
This will not end well.
Your sister is super annoying but you are also unhealthily focused on attention and being the star. Distance yourself from people who enable her. Celebrate yourself and plan it yourself, because honestly nobody is going to be more excited about your kid than you.
What happened?
What qualifications do you have to determine whether or not a study/paper is “crap work”? What’s your field of research? Even small studies are important contributions to the field. Personally my academic background is in philosophy, but I’ve side-stepped into sociology and anthropology with some of my work.
What I’m saying is that given the outlines of these studies, one can infer the points I outlined earlier. I did read the studies, that’s how I got the quotations I outlined for you.
I’m really sorry that you don’t get to be held. You seem really bitter about it, maybe you just need one of your homies to hug you and tell you it’s gonna be okay.
He said that these people were mentally ill. He said it's like a disease. He said they needed treatment not societal acceptance.
Which is accusing him. If you ask “hey, is this guy an abusive cheat” it means you have reason to suspect they're an abusive cheat. If you ask if they're a rapist it means you think they might be a rapist.
I'm sure if he posted a picture asking if you were an abusive alcoholic or a heroin addict you'd be pissed and want to know why he thinks of you that way and why the hell he got engaged to you when that's what he thinks of you. And I'm sure you'd be pissed you announced to the world that's what he thought of you.
You're going to end up getting hurt by this girl eventually my dude, she sounds like an immature manipulative little child, along with her little friends.
Think about if this relationship is even worth it, I guarantee you she's trying to get away with cheating on you.
Where is OP’s self-respect? Is there a shortage of men that she has to scrape at the bottom of the trash heap?
Where is OP’s self-respect? Is there a shortage of men that she has to scrape at the bottom of the trash heap?
You want her car, her money , to benefit from her hot work
Kind of yes, when he went away I decided to try and put myself out there and make new friends and go out more and he became very protective trying to restrict when I could go out or telling me I wasn’t allowed to drink if I tried going out because it’s “unsafe” and because he didn’t know the people I was going out with so he didn’t want me to be unsafe with people he didn’t know while he was away.
I have also made friends at the gym who are mainly men who are buff since fitness is a male dominated hobby and he’s not too happy about me hanging around them.
I’ve assured him I love him a lot though and begged and begged for him to come with me and do this with me, but every time he finds an excuse to flake on me or just refuses.
Then how come he wants to see me every day and calls me
That wasn’t long distance – that was just chatting. He’ll have been chatting to loads of others and will be nice as pie to all of them until he gets sex.
Your bf is Steve’s little dog. He always will be so don’t expect anything to change. Guys like Steve identify weaklings like your bf and keep them around to validate their shitty views and take advantage of them. That’s why your bf labored to build a million dollar home that he now pays rent for. That’s why your bf is silent during racist rants and overbearing when you swear around two teens.
Your bf is Steve’s little dog. He always will be so don’t expect anything to change. Guys like Steve identify weaklings like your bf and keep them around to validate their shitty views and take advantage of them. That’s why your bf labored to build a million dollar home that he now pays rent for. That’s why your bf is silent during racist rants and overbearing when you swear around two teens.
No. I have directly apologized for talking too much about Pete though. I didn’t ask because I knew I was. But he never showed he was directly bothered by it.
Easy answer is that you find someone who actually respects you and treats you how you deserve to be treated.
Block her back and move on.
Do they value their opinion??? He seems to have been abusive and caused a lot of trauma to this woman. Why would they value the opinion of abusive objectively bad individuals.
When I seek council for a decision it's from people whose opinions and relationships I value. I wouldn't go to someone who has a history of not caring about me and seeking their council for my future actions.
Sounds like somebody is trying to break you guys up, and although i dont think her trying to confirm rumours is grounds for break up, the fact that she refuses to talk to you about where she got it from could be. You cant on-line your life with this person knowing theres somebody around that could at any time start whispering bs in her ear and she will be intentionaly not telling you about them while at the same time interrogating you. That just sounds like an exhausting life.
Bud you are so fucked. She is going to destroy your very soul
If that’s a boundary that he’s enforcing, then ultimately you have to respect that. He is right that privacy has value, and being his partner doesn’t give you rights to his personal and private belongings.
However, I can also understand wanting that kind of openness from your partner. A lot of people in relationships have no issue with their partners using their phones. In my relationship for instance, my boyfriend is allowed to use my phone to look things up, order food, use social media, and text people, because I have no issue with him using my phone like that. However I rarely use my boyfriend’s phone because he just doesn’t like that much openness of his end. It doesn’t mean he’s hiding things, it just means that he wants his privacy, and that’s allowed.
If this is a matter of trust however, and you feel distrusting of his privacy with his phone, then that’s an issue that needs to be addressed. You specified that you don’t believe he’s cheating/cheated, so if for some reason you still feel distrust or discomfort surrounding his privacy, then that’s definitely something you should dive deeper into to find out what is really making you feel that way about him desiring privacy.