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I’ll crawl into your mind and make your fantasies real , ♥ Play with my pussy and make me scream!!! @G1: take my panty off and spank my ass. @G2:hard spanks 7times [GOAL MET]
Date: October 8, 2022
I’ll crawl into your mind and make your fantasies real , ♥ Play with my pussy and make me scream!!! @G1: take my panty off and spank my ass. @G2:hard spanks 7times [GOAL MET]
so for him to do this twice is weird as fuck. what did you think when he did it at the start of your relationship? that would've been a immediate goodbye for me.
Even thought you deleted it, That dude is a complete idiot.
In that case, yes it’s pretty odd for him. If he expects something from you he should be willing to do the same.
Pearly clips is a nice panel. She trives to have 50/50 male/female
Just break up and save both of you guys any future wasted time.
Just try to communicate your schedules and follow your education. And most importantly, make time for yourselves and each other.
Agreed. I'm concerned OP is going to get the sense from these comments that she is obligated to be okay bring fetishized in exchange for her husband caring for her. I hope that's not what anyone here intends to get across.
I mean. If he was referring to your wife's son as his grandson and gifting him a bike, it sounds like he would want it split 3 ways.
I would bring that point up to your wife
Tough because it’s where his buddy wants to go, but myself personally (32M) don’t see any reason to go to a strip club when I’m in a relationship as I wouldn’t want my SO going to a club like that to look at hard men and have them dance on her. Seems counterproductive for what a real partnership should stand for, but in a little old fashioned that way ?♂️
I’ve been the boyfriend in this situation. If he’s anything like I was, he’s actually drunk way more than you realize. You notice when he gets sick drunk or passes out, but you don’t notice the times when he’s lit but still functional. Then there are the nights you’re not together.
Alkies are very good at hiding it, at covering their tracks, but eventually they’re unable to hold it together. I was usually able to keep a partner in the dark for 18 months to two years, but it always fell apart eventually. Up until it did, my partner(s) would have told you that things were damn near perfect. I worked hard to be the perfect boyfriend because I knew the clock was ticking.
Not saying he IS an alcoholic, not saying he isn’t. But boy does he sound familiar.
Someone might suggest you challenge him to quit drinking for a month. My suggestion is to ask him to try drinking just one drink a night, then see what happens. Alcoholics can abstain, but controlled drinking is next to impossible.
How old are you and how long have you been dating?
Rather than asking her to get rid of them, he should ask her to give them back to the guys she got them from and apologize to them. Always watch how someone you are interested in treats others, because one day they will treat you like that.
Your boyfriend is cheating or at least chatting up other girls. Forget the porn. We watch porn regardless of relationship.
But hiding his phone to the point he runs to another room to delete the evidence? If he has to hide his phone and delete evidence it's 99% of the time because he has something to hide that would likely end the relationship if you saw it. The 1% of the time he's looking up a gift for you. But the thing is with the gift or whatever you wouldn't have ex's of his telling you his bullshit and so many lies, you wouldn't have screenshots of him messaging his ex.
He's either cheating or flirting with other girls hoping to cheat. There is no reason for him to be that secretive if he's got nothing to hide. You don't even need proof. The dishonesty he's shown you is reason enough and you have all those pictures and screenshots on top.
Have some respect for yourself and break up with the guy and find someone who actually has respect for you.
That's why coveting/envy made it into the commandments and the deadly sins. It will murder your life
Thank you so much. Honestly, I was hoping for this sort of response, and deep down this is how I want to go about things. I just want to enjoy my time with him without worrying about so many little things.
When my friend brought up having to put a label to it, my initial thought was “that's so high school”. But then I got all up in my head about it…
You’re not petty. He should do his part and either pay for his own shit or split the cost of yours. Either way, him using yours without compensation needs to end
I think it's entirely unremarkable, provided they are truly strangers.
Yes
Cause they smashing harder than Hulk.
I honestly don’t know how our relationship would be the same after her saying that. I don’t think she understands how serious the situation is either
Do not keep it a secret.
If you have any siblings, then you tell your mom that she has to tell them now. Or you will on December 26th.
If you don’t have any siblings, then you tell your mom that you will be telling all your family about the affair, on December 26th, and that grace period is the last present she will ever receive from you.
Be prepared for fallout, as some family will either not care, or take your moms side. These people you cut from your life, just like you will cut your mom off.
You cannot trust anything she says or does, she has destroyed your memories of your family with her actions, and it’s only because your dad is no longer here that she didn’t destroy her marriage (though she did disrespect it and made a mockery of it).
And you are right, the worst part is that she kept him as a friend all these years, basically rubbing it in your dads face.
Tbh in my honest opinion yes it's unreasonable as it's not something unique to you.. It's HIS body.. HIS beard.. And thus HE gets to decide what to do with it.
If you want something unique to you, talk to him and pick something actually unique that isn't attached to his body..
Indeed, I agree she did not cheat. But the trust part is due to the fact she had told me the opposite of what happened, that she no longer had contact with him and nothing would happen.
I've obviously accepted it happened and I don't blame her, it is what it is. But since we want to work on our relationship and try to build something new I just wanted to see if people have any experience with it to “rip off the Band-Aid” so I don't feel so shit 🙂
And openess and truth is kind of a must for a relationship to function, so the whole “she could have just not told you” is bs in my opinion.
Yep. I noticed it in your post. Think about it. I overlooked issues when I got married and it wasn’t until I was in it that I realized you don’t want to marry someone with a lot of baggage and emotional problems. There are so many hurdles in a marriage and being with someone who is stable, mature, handles their shit is truly essential.
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You certainly have a chance but it’s likely not a chance you want to take
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Thanks for contributing so much to the conversation.
what
He’s a piece of shit is what he is.
Leave.
Is this a mental illness issue?
What I came here to say
I think that proximity is an important factor in a relationship, but what do you think?
I didn’t know about them until after we started talking and I told her it was a red flag when I found out about it. It’s really not a life or death situation for me I just wanted advice on how to go about telling her I don’t like what she’s posting for everyone to see.
Just wait til you discover he watches ✨porn ✨
The dog is a danger. Your husband needs to realize that the dog cannot stay at home anymore. You have a child who can easily be hurt. You need to find it a new home if you can or a rescue that can take him. The dog can’t be happy being stuck in a room. It is probably hard on the dog wanting to attack, it sounds like an intense high stress situation for the dog as well.
But many people just do it as a joke to reference the show without meaning to really flirt.
You say you can’t imagine doing it all on your own, but based on everything you’ve said, it sounds like you’re already doing it all on your own. It sounds more like you’re afraid to be alone.
What does your husband actually do for your child? How does he pull his own weight around the house?
Never stopped anyone from what?
If you don't want him to talk about his ex, you need to tell him that. If he doesn't stop, then that's a different problem.
Well that's good.
I know everyone loves to hate on ultimatum as bad, but they're only bad if you don't plan to follow through on them. Then they become manipulation. Otherwise they're just boundaries more bluntly stated.
Would “I cannot see a future with a guy who chooses to spend an exponential amount of time on public transit instead of learning to drive nor do I want to be the only driver in a couple. If you don't want to drive I don't see how we're compatible long term.” be a bit nicer way to say “If you don't get a driver's license I'm out.”? Maybe, but it's still the same thing at the end of the day. Still a if you don't do x I'll have to y.
Fwiw I won't date anyone who doesn't drive. I dated someone who had to sell his car soon after we started dating. Never again.
Leave her alone. Look for women closer to your own age.
Why post? Call her. Go to her. Help.
You might need to block her out. Otherwise, you might lose your boyfriend
You have to unhook. Psychically, emotionally. Easier said than done, I know. You can do it! Your serenity is at stake.
Thank you. You are right. I should stay busy or do something to forget. It was so hard thinking about it but I believe all these activities and time will help me. I just don’t know how i can avoid meeting this type of man in the future. I feel scared now and don’t dare to think about relationship again….
hey, can you elaborate this please?
Why would you stay for a man who wouldn't move for you?
It's the same thing.
I struggle because I want to help him, I want to be able to understand his ADHD.
But how come he claims to be so super gifted but can't pay rent, or food, or whatever without someone handing the money to him? I try to be supportive but I'm drained. My words seem harsh here because all I talk to him is sweet and don't want him to feel bad.
I cut him off, gave the child support directly to baby momma and 300 hundreds to food (mind you I already spent a lot this month with him) and cancelled my card he had access to.
It's not only financial though, I feel emotionally exhausted
OP, red flags all around. Someone who can't control his anger like this and is starting to turn it on you? What would you tell a friend who had told you this story?
Your time is valuable and limited. He’s fucking with your time. There’s no need to block him—just stop replying. Be too cool to care.