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Date: October 8, 2022
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Where does it say her BF is pressuring her to come? It sounds like he passed the invitation from SIL to OP, but that doesn't mean there's any pressure to attend. He's also been up front in saying he's planning on getting drunk, which allows her to make a better informed decision.
Then you are right on track….
Remember that none of us is born with an Owners Manual tied to our toe.
And your partner is going through the same shit + mental and physical
recovery from pregnancy and childbirth. You will find that if your
Bond is typical, there will develop a rather nice balance about who does what,
and when. Right now you are in the first year. The “Terrible Two-s” will
be a bit tougher and then you will get into a child-raising rhythmn.
From the age of three things get better.
Good Luck…..
You probably need to be in therapy. This situation would screw with anyones head.
It’s normal to grieve the loss or potential loss of a parent, even a shitty, abusive parent that you are estranged from. You don’t mention your age, but given that you’re here asking questions, I’m guessing you’re still fairly young, probably under 21?
If you are that young, then this is probably even harder because you really haven’t had the time to get perspective on the relationship.
So first, let yourself feel your grief and pain at the potential loss of your mother. Let yourself feel whatever anger you have towards her.
There are mindfulness techniques that can help you sort out your feelings and make a decision with some perspective, though they take a lot of practice. Maybe try talking to your father or whoever took you in at 13?
I advise you leave. She’s a 31 year old child.
fr. My jaw dropped when I did the math. This was not okay ever. Can you personally imagine dating a teenager right now OP?
You’ll be at this party with your partner. You will hang out with him and his friends, you’ll not be alone.
Also, his ex is just… His ex. Just another person at a full capacity party. You don’t even have to talk to her or to pay attention to her. She’s irrelevant.
Go to the party, be yourself, have fun, meet new people. It’ll be fine. You’re all adults, you can handle this.
Conversation over breakfast:
You: (innocently) god last night was weird. It sounded like someone was watching a really bad 1970’s porno. You know, loud noises and grunting and cum shrieks. Really cringe but annoying too. Did anyone else hear it?”
Well, the softest way to tell you this is that your and his needs are incompatible. There is nothing wrong about him needing reassurance and effort shown towards him. Its just not what you can provide for him right now. You on the other hand seem to need someone more accommodating and flexible, which this guy cant manage. The best way is to accept the relationship has run its course. You both gave it a shot and it cant work right now.
Pack her stuff for her and dump it out side the door, tell her she better come get her stuff before someone takes it.
Stop being to nice to her, she sounds like an idiot.
Clearly her ex had the same issue with John, he sounds like a jealous kid that when someone plays with there toy.
After you tell her to come get her stuff block her
You are only 27…way too young to give up.
Focus on other things that bring you happiness.
Yes, this is manipulation. He knows he is trying to make you feel bad about yourself. He is not a good partner. Leave him for your own sake.
You're both playing the same game. You're not in a good place right now. It's time to make the decision. Do you want to be with him or not? Stop stringing each other along and clearly define your relationship with him, and stick to it. If you don't want to be in a relationship, then stop feeling each other up. If you want to be in a relationship, then stop making up excuses to not be in one.