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My mom found one of my husky’s long white hairs on her office chair several months after her last visit to us. We live across the country from her so that lone dog hair traveled quite a bit.
It’s possible that hair came from anywhere. All you can do is calmly reassure your wife that you understand her concern but you love her and there’s been nothing illicit on your part.
Your friends mom is a rug sweeper, and a rape culture propagator.
I’m a 35m. This is 100/100 inappropriates. From the moment he adjusted the blankets over you and him, it was unacceptable. He definitely physically assaulted you in your sleep. If he did a JO he sexually assaulted you too.
This behavior was gross and a cowardly. He treated you like an object and invalidated your existence. He tried to take away your choices. Friends don’t do that.
First, let's deal with this: according to her asian customs.
Different cultures have different rules. This is something you should have taken into account when you started the relationship just in case it progressed to a marriage. I'm guessing you didn't and now you are going “WTF!” when she wants you to pay entirely for the marriage, per custom.
Second, the cost and size of the wedding. We again turn to the customs. Large family elaborate wedding that you pay for? Check. Yeah, it could very likely cost that much.
Now, the red flags.
– The pre-nup as she makes double or more over you and, it sounds like, has more assets than you.
This isn't a red flag as many rich men force their wives to sign pre-nups. It IS a red flag that she didn't want to allow you to protect YOUR assets in return. You say she relented on that and the pre-nup will now cover both sides assets. Ok, that still doesn't take the initial disparity out of play, however, just that it got resolved after a big fight over it.
– The “I don't trust you enough”.
Not sure which side said this. Did she say you didn't trust her or did you say you didn't trust her? This is just for clarity, but, really doesn't matter; it's still a red flag that the whole “you don't trust me” is coming out of someone's mouth while discussing pre-nups. If she doesn't trust you, or, you trust her, marriage probably shouldn't be on the table in the first place.
– The “we called off the wedding due to cost but got back together”. Ok, so, you said you couldn't afford it, you both split, then you got back together with her knowing you couldn't afford it? Just no. You haven't solved a problem; you made it worse. There is STILL a wedding to pay for that you say you can't afford. This is no longer about where assets will go, it's about whether or not you are willing to fork out the money for a wedding that is going to cost more than you're willing to pay for so you can marry her. The fact that the cost of the wedding is the big sticking point is a huge red flag. Either you pay or you don't. Going back and forth doesn't solve that problem.
Finally…
– am wondering if this relationship is even worth holding onto.
If you aren't SURE it's worth it… it isn't. Plain and simple. You are either totally committed to her or you aren't. If you aren't, then getting married is the wrong answer. I say this as a 55 yr old man who has lived with my gf/caregiver for the past 8 years. We agreed that due to prior divorces she and I would never get married. It didn't stop us from being totally committed to each other, though. I found out a few days ago that my status as a disabled veteran with the VA changed 9 months ago… something we weren't aware of. Because of that change in status, we are now getting married. Yes, the marriage is convenience due to benefits that became available to her if we were married because of the change of status. But, we were committed to each other regardless. So, yeah, if that's no you… do not get married.
What do you mean, “have hopes to date her again” ?? This girl is a serial cheater and you would WANT HER BACK? Please, dude, you're 23, it's time to find your self respect.
Also, what were you even thinking by getting involved with a person in a relationship. Like, I'm not even trying to be aggressive, I just want you to take a look at your life and realize that you don't HAVE to be a horrible and cheating person. You don't HAVE to do awful stuff. You're 23, get it together, man. You're acting like a hormonal teenager who doesn't realize that your actions have consequences, and that there are standards you should have for yourself and your potential partner.
Getting it together means that you need to take responsibility for your actions. So tell the man that you banged his girlfriend for months, send him some proof so that he can break free from her and then don't ever do this stuff again. If you meet the perfect person but they're in a relationship, then they aren't the one for you. Period. Jesus. Take some control over what you're doing with your life.
; I would be more apt to adopt so that we were not on a timeline,
Even when you adopt, you have a certain timeline…have you ever looked into requirements for adoption?
I just can't imagine a world in which I get broken up with and have to leave my own apartment, which I am deeply fond of. I feel like she's willing to sabotage herself financially to get a win in her column when she feels wronged, but I don't feel like I wronged her.
You're both at fault…instead of talking the kids issue through in the early dating stages, you both pushed it back….. don't do that again when you're in your next relationship.
So you’re fine with your future partners emotionally cheating on their current boyfriend as long as they dump them to be with you? You are garbage
No, I am not. I simply believe that there’s nothing wrong if a relationship between two people “comes out” at time when one of them is in an unhappy relationship. My previous partner was beaten and abused by her previous bf to which she admitted a few days before we got together and before she cut contact with him. Do I feel bad about hitting up on a girl in a relationship in such case? No, not at all and I don’t consider myself a garbage.
There’s literally no wrongdoing if someone is unhappy and decides that he/she is looking for a change, as long as they make it clear to the other side “look, I’m in a relationship that hasn’t been really working out for quite some time now and I feel like I really like you”. What’s wrong about this?
From an outsider perspective – this girl does not sound like your friend at all. Maybe she's jealous, maybe she just needs someone to manipulate. Either way, there's no need to put yourself through this. Find new, better friends. Friends that will do the right thing and have you sign a release to be in a film. Even if she's not doing this maliciously, she may never grow past this behavior. Some people are just jerks forever.
It would have been a more believable story if you said they had found a porn video of someone who looked similar to your gf. You just reached too far with saying they somehow managed to find someone who just happened to look exactly like your gf and shot a porno with her in one day.
I hate this sub who just breaks up just bc they have an argument. Spouses are mean to each other. It happens. Doesnt mean its long term or that they are an overall abusive person. Yes what her husband did was wrong, but you dont quit a marriage when you hit a problem.
My mom found one of my husky’s long white hairs on her office chair several months after her last visit to us. We live across the country from her so that lone dog hair traveled quite a bit.
It’s possible that hair came from anywhere. All you can do is calmly reassure your wife that you understand her concern but you love her and there’s been nothing illicit on your part.
Fuck Sarah
Fuck these people.
She might have survived cancer, but she / they are cancer.
Your intuition is right OP. These people are not your friends.
If that’s the norm be abnormal.
Wow and that’s a safe person to have around your daughter?!?? Your daughter will be blaming you in therapy in her 20s OP.
Your friends mom is a rug sweeper, and a rape culture propagator.
I’m a 35m. This is 100/100 inappropriates. From the moment he adjusted the blankets over you and him, it was unacceptable. He definitely physically assaulted you in your sleep. If he did a JO he sexually assaulted you too.
This behavior was gross and a cowardly. He treated you like an object and invalidated your existence. He tried to take away your choices. Friends don’t do that.
thanks man
First, let's deal with this: according to her asian customs.
Different cultures have different rules. This is something you should have taken into account when you started the relationship just in case it progressed to a marriage. I'm guessing you didn't and now you are going “WTF!” when she wants you to pay entirely for the marriage, per custom.
Second, the cost and size of the wedding. We again turn to the customs. Large family elaborate wedding that you pay for? Check. Yeah, it could very likely cost that much.
Now, the red flags.
– The pre-nup as she makes double or more over you and, it sounds like, has more assets than you.
This isn't a red flag as many rich men force their wives to sign pre-nups. It IS a red flag that she didn't want to allow you to protect YOUR assets in return. You say she relented on that and the pre-nup will now cover both sides assets. Ok, that still doesn't take the initial disparity out of play, however, just that it got resolved after a big fight over it.
– The “I don't trust you enough”.
Not sure which side said this. Did she say you didn't trust her or did you say you didn't trust her? This is just for clarity, but, really doesn't matter; it's still a red flag that the whole “you don't trust me” is coming out of someone's mouth while discussing pre-nups. If she doesn't trust you, or, you trust her, marriage probably shouldn't be on the table in the first place.
– The “we called off the wedding due to cost but got back together”. Ok, so, you said you couldn't afford it, you both split, then you got back together with her knowing you couldn't afford it? Just no. You haven't solved a problem; you made it worse. There is STILL a wedding to pay for that you say you can't afford. This is no longer about where assets will go, it's about whether or not you are willing to fork out the money for a wedding that is going to cost more than you're willing to pay for so you can marry her. The fact that the cost of the wedding is the big sticking point is a huge red flag. Either you pay or you don't. Going back and forth doesn't solve that problem.
Finally…
– am wondering if this relationship is even worth holding onto.
If you aren't SURE it's worth it… it isn't. Plain and simple. You are either totally committed to her or you aren't. If you aren't, then getting married is the wrong answer. I say this as a 55 yr old man who has lived with my gf/caregiver for the past 8 years. We agreed that due to prior divorces she and I would never get married. It didn't stop us from being totally committed to each other, though. I found out a few days ago that my status as a disabled veteran with the VA changed 9 months ago… something we weren't aware of. Because of that change in status, we are now getting married. Yes, the marriage is convenience due to benefits that became available to her if we were married because of the change of status. But, we were committed to each other regardless. So, yeah, if that's no you… do not get married.
What do you mean, “have hopes to date her again” ?? This girl is a serial cheater and you would WANT HER BACK? Please, dude, you're 23, it's time to find your self respect.
Also, what were you even thinking by getting involved with a person in a relationship. Like, I'm not even trying to be aggressive, I just want you to take a look at your life and realize that you don't HAVE to be a horrible and cheating person. You don't HAVE to do awful stuff. You're 23, get it together, man. You're acting like a hormonal teenager who doesn't realize that your actions have consequences, and that there are standards you should have for yourself and your potential partner.
Getting it together means that you need to take responsibility for your actions. So tell the man that you banged his girlfriend for months, send him some proof so that he can break free from her and then don't ever do this stuff again. If you meet the perfect person but they're in a relationship, then they aren't the one for you. Period. Jesus. Take some control over what you're doing with your life.
; I would be more apt to adopt so that we were not on a timeline,
Even when you adopt, you have a certain timeline…have you ever looked into requirements for adoption?
I just can't imagine a world in which I get broken up with and have to leave my own apartment, which I am deeply fond of. I feel like she's willing to sabotage herself financially to get a win in her column when she feels wronged, but I don't feel like I wronged her.
You're both at fault…instead of talking the kids issue through in the early dating stages, you both pushed it back….. don't do that again when you're in your next relationship.
I do not. Fortunately its not too naked to find with a simple Google search lol.
But you're discussed that the money was supposed to go the wedding right? There wasn't some misunderstanding there?
So you’re fine with your future partners emotionally cheating on their current boyfriend as long as they dump them to be with you? You are garbage
No, I am not. I simply believe that there’s nothing wrong if a relationship between two people “comes out” at time when one of them is in an unhappy relationship. My previous partner was beaten and abused by her previous bf to which she admitted a few days before we got together and before she cut contact with him. Do I feel bad about hitting up on a girl in a relationship in such case? No, not at all and I don’t consider myself a garbage.
There’s literally no wrongdoing if someone is unhappy and decides that he/she is looking for a change, as long as they make it clear to the other side “look, I’m in a relationship that hasn’t been really working out for quite some time now and I feel like I really like you”. What’s wrong about this?
From an outsider perspective – this girl does not sound like your friend at all. Maybe she's jealous, maybe she just needs someone to manipulate. Either way, there's no need to put yourself through this. Find new, better friends. Friends that will do the right thing and have you sign a release to be in a film. Even if she's not doing this maliciously, she may never grow past this behavior. Some people are just jerks forever.
It would have been a more believable story if you said they had found a porn video of someone who looked similar to your gf. You just reached too far with saying they somehow managed to find someone who just happened to look exactly like your gf and shot a porno with her in one day.
I hate this sub who just breaks up just bc they have an argument. Spouses are mean to each other. It happens. Doesnt mean its long term or that they are an overall abusive person. Yes what her husband did was wrong, but you dont quit a marriage when you hit a problem.
(she knows about everything other than the fact that I would like the take her in).
it's almost as if it's in the post.
Do it and I’ll moan
Or he should have asked, like she said.
You'll be fine. It'll take time to get over your ex, but finding someone else typically speeds up the healing process.
kay, so you're either a lame attempt at trolling or you're a pervert. Either way, find something better to do with your time
Also 'reluctant' and 'under duress' are not the same. One permits consent, albeit grudgingly and the other implies coercion.
Except she uses him for rides, so she knows what's going on.