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Me (20) and my gf (21). We have been in a relationship for 3 years already and we had a fight, after the arguing she made a rule that everything that we do that includes kiss, hugs and etc needs permission from both parties. What do you guys think?
For me its kinda funny to think that I have to ask permission for that even tho we’ve been in a relationship for 3 years already.
edit: So last Thursday I went with my mom on a trip which was 200km away from here. The original plan was to come with us that day but she said she’ll go with her friend because they also have a besties night. So I said okay go no problem for me. As a boyfriend I would like to ask for updates and she does the same too so for me I thought it was right for me to ask. Then it was very hot for her to give me updates even when she was with her friend already. So I kept overthinking what was happening and that continued until Saturday night. The morning on Saturday our company had an event so she also went there but only for 2 hours. Then she said that she wanted to go back to their hotel so she rest and I said okay I will go and drive her there and then came Saturday night. So she and her friend with her boyfriend went to a bar. I told her to enjoy since it’s been a while for them to see each other and party. But ever since she left the event that company held, starting from 5pm until 12am she had no replies to my messages, no updates on where she is or what she is doing. I understand they are enjoying but I couldn’t sleep thinking that she is not giving me updates while she is partying in a bar with her friend. Then my issue came where I was overthinking again and couple minutes past 12am she replied that she was going home. I kept calling here but she kept on dropping my call. This made me overthink more and also gave me anxiety. I couldn’t sleep because of my chest being so heavy. Then after calling her many times, she answered, then I told her in a calm voice that I will go to there hotel and drive her home to our hotel with my mom so she could go with us when we go home on Sunday. Then after going home (she lives with me btw) I was still overthinking, what if she has someone else, what if she is talking to someone, she was very distant from me starting November up to now. So I'm guessing there was something wrong. FYI no I didn't abuse her or anything even on her pass relationships. Since the heavy feeling on my chest won't go away. I talked to her then she told me that I was too suffocating in a way that I wanted her to update me. So then and there she talked about having her me time, privacy and the question that I asked about which was about the rule she gave.
Edit: Before this rule I could do sweet things like kiss and hug her without asking verbally. All I do is make a pout or extend my arms. So it’s not very normal for me to ask her verbally if I can kiss or hug every-time I wanted to do it. It goes both ways.
edit: Thank you for the people who gave advice. Sorry for not being able to reply to most of the people here since we are in different timezones.
Last edit: Again thank you for the people that gave really good advice. I understand that there are people who agrees and disagrees with my question. I have concluded that I think I should fix myself and give each other personal space and respect. I will try and look for solutions to fix my overthinking and will try to talk her again. Thank you all!
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I dont see the problem, it was before you got together so why does it matter? I dont think you should care as long as she is a good person and not seem like she would cheat. I never say no to free hoodies, but ofc its different when its from someone I like
Reason 3 isn't something I'd add considering she only wants to go a day early to beat the storm and if it was to your parents house instead you still wouldn't want to.
I think you two may have different ideas about job versus family obligations. I agree with the others you should let her come up alone, and also see if you can get someone to cover the shift for a few hours and you'll give them a bonus or something. Maybe someone doesn't actually have plans.
And I do know with certainty that he was the one to end it with her.
You read their text messages? Or you talked to the other woman? Were there other emotional affairs before?
Maybe if you weren’t almost double her age you’d be more interested or she’d have lived enough to not want to explore other sexual relationships
Ah yes, the horrors of pregnancy. How could I forget
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It sounds like he sees her a lot already? Weekly? Does he go to his sister’s house a lot?
She thought he cheated on her while she as pregnant with his child – of course she didn't want him in the room during a serious medical procedure. Watching your partner give birth is not a right and it's not a slight if the person going through the hours long grueling and potentially life threatening procedure doesn't want you in there.
He shouldn't focus on meeting another woman at all – he should work through this with a therapist so he doesn't bring these hurt feelings into another relationship and hurt someone else because he's hurting.
You missed the point too. Did you read his comment? Then read mine. I guess all my downvotes are from people like you who jump to conclusion without reading.
my gf says it's sexy when I'm a little aromatic, but I shower every day anyway
If a guy I'm dating doesn't get me anything for Valentine's he's seriously getting dumped. And I'm saying that as a woman who gets chocolates and flowers my man on Valentine's
I just find it hilarious and sad at the same times how naive and gullible so many people can be.
You are grossly mistaken.
Just because you could handle or want to stay friends, doesn't mean she does or had to.
She blocked you, she's moving on. Time you do the same.
He's using you for sex.
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So basically say like her and do like me instead of say like me and do like me
Sounds like it's time to leave. If he triggers you then leave
People in their twenties do like to drink and party. If only there were things that indicated this so you didn’t have to be taken by absolute surprise.
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You need to break it off, even if it is a decade. He is deteriorating and needs help. He is a danger to himself and others.
I second this. Only because I know a guy who is similar, has many things he likes in the bedroom, but his wife is the opposite. She isn’t into sex and is very vanilla. Well now they’ve been married for quite a few years but now he’s miserable and wants to leave, they fight over it constantly.
You have no idea how upset this makes me. I don’t want him to hit rock bottom. I love him with every ounce of my being and I cry writing this. I have said it to him outright and he isn’t in denial. He admits he is drinking too much and that’s why he made that promise to me. We are currently looking for a couples councillor as therapy is out of our price range atm.
Thanks for your responses. I really do need to find a way to talk to him about this without making him feel responsible. Cause I really do not blame him. I had an alcoholic father that was an absolute drop kick. He did nothing to help my mum and she left when I was extremely young because of it. Whereas my husband is so hot working and kind and compassionate towards my kids and I and that’s why I’m so torn.
Leave her.
Yeh there was one like this the other day where it turned out husband was still banging the ex, and pushed a threesome in hopes they didn't have to hide their side thing anymore. She was also extremely young.
This sub sometimes is mental. How on earth do you guys spin a whole narrative with nothing at hand is beyond me. Next thing I'll read is bf is a secret ex-kgb agent living a double life and Gf is his cover. Jesus
For your boyfriends sake I hope he goes back to her. You sound fucking terrible.
That’s fairly pathetic on his part, says a lot about his self control and desire. You could absolutely, justifiably be upset, but you also might just be wasting your time with this one.
He had no remorse in setting you up, why would you feel bad about defending yourself? Please op, you did nothing wrong. Actually you should report him for the bullying,he is actively trying to bring you down and hurt your career
youre absolutely right across the board. Im expecting a lot and being over dramatic but I just feel like I found a one in a billion match for me and dont want it to slip away. no ones ever struck me like this but Il definitely ease up so that things can grow healthily and I can finally breathe. expecting too much too soon and everything is perfectly fine. thanks again for the help 🙂
You both did a shitty thing to each other. You deserve each other.
In the same sense that people with BPD have a “favorite person” so do people with ASPD. He probably actually does really love her, and wants to take care of her. The same cannot be promised with their children or anyone else in their life. He will continue to treat her well, he chose her. Being a sociopath isn’t a red flag if it’s acknowledged and being worked on
Are you really desperate for a boyfriend?
I'm so sorry to hear that. You are still worthy and deserving of love and I hope you find peace. Thank you for the post. I'll consider your wisdom moving forward.
because words mean nothing. absolutely nothing. actions will always tell you the whole picture.
As a guy, that is not even slightly accidental. You should leave him immediately in the safest way possible.
Unpopular opinion but how about working less? What if u work 3 days a week instead of 5 and being on call two. I’m sure you’re still going to be able to still be financially stable enough . Is tht the life style tht u want? Where ur mostly working and barely have time for family and friends? I sound harsh sorry but it’s the truth. Is this truly what u want? Is it worth losing the girl you love because let me tell you QUALITY time is super important in a relationship.
Let's be honest… he's 43, probably looking at much younger and more attractive women. If he was smart he'd sleep around since you guys are on a break. Whole point of a break is to act like you're single no? You'll be half a century in less than two years and you're doing breaks? You should be 100% concerned.
If this was the other way around, your wife would get a divorce, be awarded child support, be awarded alimony, be given the family house, be given the family car, you would be required to go to anger management and possibly be out in jail. Divorce does not favor men, don’t let this escalate – leave.
I can't believe I read that entire story.
Should I add fuel to the flames and motivate her to get it done and go as big as she can or do I tell her to chill and enjoy what she has now?
In your imaginary story, whatever floats your boat. In real life, it's her decision, and that's a stupid question. “Enjoy what you have now”? Jeez.
Does he like all pics or just the bikini ones? If it’s all of them I’d say that’s normal tbh?
That’s a really big lie. Not only that but he’s not been at all truthful about saving money during your relationship. On top of that….he has criteria/expectations about your saving while he was doing fuck all on his side, because at 30 years old he’s still wanting to ….”live in the moment”
He seems very immature, and also unreliable and untrustworthy. Definitely not anyone i’d want to own property with and moreover , someone i’d be seriously reconsidering my relationship with. There’s a world of difference between having $300k that you can pull from your bank, use tomorrow and not have to replenish is the complete opposite of having half that money and the other half needing to be paid back because it isn’t even his.
You wrote this post because you know this isn't the way it's meant to be. Don't let this shithead make you doubt yourself.
I would say don't start something with her if you didn't already. But since you did stay with it. That's life.
I want the daughter to make a post at r/MaliciousCompliance, she did exactly what YOU told her to do, that you didn't think she would take EVERYTHING she owned or had paid for is on you, lol.
Good for her, now she can find a new place and spend her money investing in her freedom and not on helping you. You said she wasn't making any sacrifices to help family, but I guesss sleeping on the couch for 3+ months wasn't sacrifice enough?.
I just really hope your sister is grateful to you and help you as you are with her in her time of need, because if you work part time and your daughter paid some bills and helped you here and there you'll be in financial trouble soon enough, hopefully your sister gets a job soon so she can help you.
It’s been three months. I’m pretty sure I have a bottle of ketchup sitting in my fridge for more than that.
Unless this dude enrolls in therapy and starts doing some serious work on himself, he’s not going to get any better. For now he’s “only” engaging in what if scenarios in his head. Next step is to make you responsible for not feeling this way by questioning your every move, interrogating you about where you are and who you are with at all times.
Half your age plus seven. Half of 28 is 14, plus seven is 21. You're in the clear, by a hair. Maybe wait a couple of weeks before proposing
Still, check her ID, just to be sure, you know?
This puts a lot in perspective, thank you
Yeah they do, people can be controlling and jealous over something as simple as a normal conversation
100%. People think she was just being a bit kooky on Facebook? Yeah, nah. I’ve seen what people who are in psychosis can do on social media. They destroy relationships and reputations. I think OP just hasn’t given enough detail for people to understand the seriousness of the build up to the incident.
I think the family member could join virtually? Set up a tablet or a phone during the vows and FaceTime/zoom/etc
Exactly what I think…
Your insistence to keep in contact with your family seems to be the only reason why your gf keeps trying to reach out to them. You are exposing her to all this abuse. Without you, she wouldn’t have to deal with your awful family members. Be decent enough to let her have what she deserves — and you know she deserves better than this.