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You don't sound happy in this relationship. It's highly toxic behavior on her part to force you to cut off other friendships, and while you say she's your best friend, she doesn't even support your dreams or career plan? Maybe she's not the friend you think she is; maybe the best vase for the long-term is to cut this off while it's still early. You've promised to put everything that matters to you on hold or push it aside so that she can go to college. What does she bring to the relationship?
My advice: end this as gently as you can; say it isn't a relationships that works for you. You can explain what isn't working, and say good bye. Cherish the good moments you've had, then enroll in college and make some healthier friends.
It’s interesting that you claim you’re a know-it-all, because in the instance you listed you didn’t know the correct facts and you argued about it anyway. Are you a person who knows a lot, or a person who is addicted to arguing and being “right?” Another question: do you feel satisfied when someone drops the conversation after you’ve argued your side, and think that somehow proves you were correct? Or do you drop the subject only when you actually verify the facts? This might help you understand if you are just interested in “winning” or if you’re just very focused on what’s correct and lack some social grace.
Your wording about how you’ve been “burned before” by people being wrong about the facts is interesting. That phrase is used when someone has been betrayed. Someone being wrong about something isn’t a slight against you. You’re also being a little hypocritical there because you claim this behavior of yours stems in part from being affected by people who are overly confident in their wrong information, but that’s exactly how you behaved towards your girlfriend.
Fuck that guy, I’d leave him. One of the ways to be successful in life is to dress like you care about your appearance. One of the ways to feel better about yourself is my motto “Look good, feel good”. It’s not about dressing a certain way to seem more attractive to others, it’s about dressing in a way that you can feel confident and powerful in your own skin.
With body dysmorphia it’s nude to feel like you will ever be comfortable comfortable in your body. One of the healthiest ways to try to feel better about your body is to dress up compared to the unhealthy alternative of physically changing your body one way or another which you will be unsatisfied with the results anyway because of this illness.
If your boyfriend is unwilling to actually sit to listen, understand, and learn what body dysmorphia is like and won’t be open minded about perfectly health ways to express yourself and cope with your illness: He isn’t right for you.
You seem to be projecting a bit and reading into things way too much and not sure why you're automatically assuming he's lying. Dreams are just dreams.
So, we have no idea how much gaming is done and are simply judging him for taking in some sort of Media we don't like…
You're the one jumping to conclusions. I love games. I play daily. If I had a kid and a spouse that needed help, I wouldn't be playing as often, or maybe even at all anymore.
The OP detailed all the stuff she's been doing with work and the kids and the house. She honestly noted her husband is working 60 hour weeks, but you think she's leaving out all the child care he's doing, except the one time she does tall about, he totally fucked up and endangered them? He's not pulling his weight.
You don't sound happy in this relationship. It's highly toxic behavior on her part to force you to cut off other friendships, and while you say she's your best friend, she doesn't even support your dreams or career plan? Maybe she's not the friend you think she is; maybe the best vase for the long-term is to cut this off while it's still early. You've promised to put everything that matters to you on hold or push it aside so that she can go to college. What does she bring to the relationship?
My advice: end this as gently as you can; say it isn't a relationships that works for you. You can explain what isn't working, and say good bye. Cherish the good moments you've had, then enroll in college and make some healthier friends.
Because she’s a woman and this is reddit.
It’s interesting that you claim you’re a know-it-all, because in the instance you listed you didn’t know the correct facts and you argued about it anyway. Are you a person who knows a lot, or a person who is addicted to arguing and being “right?” Another question: do you feel satisfied when someone drops the conversation after you’ve argued your side, and think that somehow proves you were correct? Or do you drop the subject only when you actually verify the facts? This might help you understand if you are just interested in “winning” or if you’re just very focused on what’s correct and lack some social grace.
Your wording about how you’ve been “burned before” by people being wrong about the facts is interesting. That phrase is used when someone has been betrayed. Someone being wrong about something isn’t a slight against you. You’re also being a little hypocritical there because you claim this behavior of yours stems in part from being affected by people who are overly confident in their wrong information, but that’s exactly how you behaved towards your girlfriend.
Do puppies and ice cream also make you angry?
Why is she not your ex?
Fuck that guy, I’d leave him. One of the ways to be successful in life is to dress like you care about your appearance. One of the ways to feel better about yourself is my motto “Look good, feel good”. It’s not about dressing a certain way to seem more attractive to others, it’s about dressing in a way that you can feel confident and powerful in your own skin.
With body dysmorphia it’s nude to feel like you will ever be comfortable comfortable in your body. One of the healthiest ways to try to feel better about your body is to dress up compared to the unhealthy alternative of physically changing your body one way or another which you will be unsatisfied with the results anyway because of this illness.
If your boyfriend is unwilling to actually sit to listen, understand, and learn what body dysmorphia is like and won’t be open minded about perfectly health ways to express yourself and cope with your illness: He isn’t right for you.
Either you're sexually incompatible, or she really isn't sexually attracted to you (which is also sexual incompatibility, IMO).
Either way, cut your losses.
You seem to be projecting a bit and reading into things way too much and not sure why you're automatically assuming he's lying. Dreams are just dreams.
It will never be the same as it once were but it can be savaged if its something both wants.
I'm glad you brought this up. I know I'm not perfect if it came across like I thought so, then I'm sorry for that
I think you could, let a court decide. NTA.
He is 10 years older than you are & acting like a child. Maybe he is with you because women his own age won't put up with his crap.
So, we have no idea how much gaming is done and are simply judging him for taking in some sort of Media we don't like…
You're the one jumping to conclusions. I love games. I play daily. If I had a kid and a spouse that needed help, I wouldn't be playing as often, or maybe even at all anymore.
The OP detailed all the stuff she's been doing with work and the kids and the house. She honestly noted her husband is working 60 hour weeks, but you think she's leaving out all the child care he's doing, except the one time she does tall about, he totally fucked up and endangered them? He's not pulling his weight.