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Only assholes say brutal things and disguise it with “oh but I'm just being honest”. There is a way to handle certain things.
It doesn't matter. You can't consent when you're drunk. Period. That's the law.
OP, if you read this I think you should have an honest conversation with your wife. Don't lie as it will make her question herself. Don't let her think she did something wrong. There is no way to make it less hurtful but be kind. Dont talk about what you plan to do after you break up. Your wife and your relationship with her may become bitter after this talk. Accept that you will lose her and that she and her family will cut you off for good. I don't think there's a chance to remain friendly after this kind of revelation.
I'm really sorry for OP's wife like may other commenters but I just don't understand why people keep saying one's DNA is not special. It might not be special for you but it can be special for that person. I have 4 year old boy. I know many here would call him just another crotch goblin but he is special to me. He's speacial to my husband and our families. He will be special for his friends and partner one day. So it doesn't matter if you find OP's DNA and thus biological child to be special or not. It will be special to him and continue to be just like that for others as they grow.
Adoption is not for everybody. Adopting just because you're not able to have a kid does not always end in a good way. We hear many stories where the seemingly infertile couple go on to have a kid just to neglect the adopted one. We see many extended families who do not welcome the adopted child. Also we see many adopted children who reunite with their biological family just to ignore the family that raised them. Having a biological kid has it's own risks. But maybe OP is ready to face these risks but not the ones that come with adopting. He says he doesn't want it. Also adopted children deserve parents that genuinely want them.
I'm sorry for OP's wife but it's not fair for her to be tolerated by OP just because they have a good marriage rather than being accepted as she is by another person. He may accept not having a biological kid eventually or he may grow resentful of her. It's not fair to that woman.
OP can divorce but it doesn't mean that he will be able to find a partner to have a kid with. Still he might be happy that he tried to make his dream come through even though he failed. He might be unhappier if he stays and just waits doing nothing.
Heeeeey, your bf is not nice. I think if you really think about it you could probably come up with more than one way he has tried to change or control you. I deeply love my bf, and he loves me deeply as well. I don't like some things about him, and he doesn't like some things about me. We're both human, so neither of us are perfect, or even perfectly consistent in our imperfections. Your bf is trying to force you to change, holding out the carrot of his “love” while beating you with the stick of “not good enough”. Someone who loves you may wish you'd change a habit, but they will love you exactly as you are. Don't settle for less than being loved exactly as you are.
Totally makes sense. Also because you asked my opinion you now need to pay my rent.
I grew up with one or both of my parents smoking at one time or another. Never thought about how I smelled back then until my oldest came home from a friend's house and I couldn't breathe (I'm almost 20 years quit.) I called my parents and yelled at them (they've both quit in the interim as well.)
If you’re experiencing such strong compulsions (including the telling her all this), my recommendation would be to book an appointment with a therapist (ideally one who deals with sex-based struggles), and get their take on it. If nothing else, they’ll be better equipped to give you advice on talking to your girlfriend about it than Reddit will be.
Also, for what it’s worth, I’m sorry you’re going through this because it sounds like serious intrusive thoughts and is now affecting your everyday life. It, to me, sounds a lot more like a mental health thing but—again—I’m not an expert and I really strongly think you should consult one.