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a price for everything, people wank to porn when their in a relationship. i did, it's normal. obviously following porn models is a bit more intense but its the same application and doesn't imply he's likely to cheat on you at all imo
if you think hes worth it and you genuinely love him then u can put up with it and get over it, or if you dont think hes worth it then talk to him about it and say its a deal breaker. you have no obligation to do either it's completely up to you
i dont know ur bf, i know nothing about him other than what u have said so im not the best person to ask if u should break up over it. i can just reinforce that its a normal thing to do and if ur not comfortable with it and u dont think hes worth it then you know what u gotta do…but if you think he's genuinely a good guy and he makes you happy then you can just push it aside and compromise
Dont verbally tell him his belly is attractive. But tell him you find him attractive in different ways. And make him feel wanted. Wen being affectionate and intimate dont leave that his belly out. Stroke it. Kiss it. Lie on it and go to sleep..
Huh? There are tons of comments talking about it.
Excellent. I like to pride myself on pretty good commiunication, but this one has been a real toughie on me. Thank you.
I'm 5'1″ myself and I'm 28, to be honest I love being short. Means I can fit in places that other people don't and squeezing through crowds isn't a big deal for me. Your son still has time to grow and maybe he will when he hits 18 or 21 but I would say after 25 I don't know… Even still he should love being short, sure it can be a hassle sometimes but there are women out there who love short men or women who are just the perfect size for him. I'm sure he will start seeing the benefits of being small soon or like I said he has time to grow so maybe he won't be short. He sounds like a nice kid who just wants to be a tad bit taller for whatever his reasons may be and that's okay for him to feel frustration. Just try to uplift his spirits with whatever you think is best cause at the end of the day a mother knows better than anyone else.
Maybe because OP is crossing boundaries with his Reddit history.
Are you afraid for later because with each child you've had you felt like you lost your wife a little more?
Does the following resonate witn you at all?
“When men have kids their love multiplies, but often feel like their wife has a limited capacity for love, and that each child takes away love for her husband. E.g. she had 100% love for her husband but after two kids she now only has 33% love for him.”
Perhaps. But also to basically admit that you are saying hurtful things and using the disclaimer that the person is supposed to know they love them is pretty clear. I'm sure the food thing isn't the only example, perhaps OP can provide another one.
Yes, it has crossed my mind, ngl.
Thank you so much!! 🙂
Yes, I completely agree. She's got weird intentions. I felt this at the time but disregarded my better judgement. She's definitely got some sort of saviour complex going on. I've noticed she's always the one to comfort people crying, but then will talk about those same people behind their backs. It was always weird to me.
I really shouldn't have shared any of my private info with her in the first place. I don't know what she'll do with it (apart from telling her boyfriend obvs.) I actually do/did lock my door, so I don't know when she could've gotten into my room.
The only thing about moving asap is, 1) I'll have to draw attention to why I chose to move, and people will know something happened, and 2) I've already paid my contract for the house for this year. But I really want to.
I am trying not to care about being rude. It's just that she framed it in such a way that she “cares” so it makes me feel bad.
Thank you! I'll need all the luck I can take at the moment. Haha.
This is now my gold standard description for describing the difference between the two ?
The second she called you a slur for ANY reason was enough to break up.
Why or how you're still with this horrible human is beyond me. Starting fights in public and expecting you to defend her is beyond insane, and she's going to get you killed one day doing that shit.
Next time she does it, leave. Just leave her dumbass there to fend for herself. Then, never go back. Cut contact entirely. Leave her there, and disappear from her life forever. No one deserves to be verbally abused like that, you need to respect yourself more and drop that sack of shit ?
Two people have to want to get married for a marriage to work.
Lol of course you can do whatever you want, should you? No. And kinda obvious the whole game was disrespectful
Obviously I don’t know all the details. But I think people have a misconception of what a relationship really is. It’s not a commitment of your lives forever. You don’t need to be 100% sure someone will be a great partner when you call them your boyfriend/girlfriend. It’s just a commitment that you want to see someone exclusively and see if you are a good fit together.
I can’t read your dudes mind, but spending 100 hours together and then saying they don’t you well enough to put a label tells me they really aren’t that interested. You guys are at the point where you should be infatuated with each other and can’t get enough of them. It just doesn’t bode well when someone seems disinterested at this stage.
I did and I’m going to try one more time tonight but after this I don’t know if I can do this much longer. I understand he might be mad at me. But to go days without talking to me or checking on me is fucked up
2 hr. ago
My whole family and friends think hes a good partner. + Therapist.
because they have been influenced by your presentation of him.
Thank you
She should.
You are verbally abusing her based on your comments. I hope she does not get back with you. It is not OK to call your partner names in a relationship, ever.
Run, run far and long. You know what you have to do.
New wife had you erased.
Move on
Well, there’s a reason he has changed his mind. Not sure you’ll find out so pursue your own dreams
You’re 28. Stop dating teenagers.
As you're not married, if the house is in your name and she didn't help buy it, she won't be getting anything out of it except her personal property. Separate your finances immediately. Do not help her with food, gas money for work, clothes, or anything extra. She is fully her own responsibility financially and she has 30 days to make new living arrangements- put that in text! Then, make a public announcement about the cancelation of your wedding and WHY it's being canceled. Something along the lines of, “Ashley decided she would rather have a secret fling than a wedding ring, so the wedding is called off since I discovered she doesn't actually love me the way she claimed. Please return any and all wedding gifts you may have purchased. Thank you for respecting my privacy during this difficult time.”
Cancel all wedding venues and see what money you might be able to get back, if any. While this is a shitty, heartbreaking scenario, I have to agree that it's better that you found out now as opposed to after a few years of marriage and kids!
I hope i can find that one day thanks so much ❤️
I know. I will not enter their life at all, or only if my therapist tells me to.
Your comment really touched me. You might have convinced me to return to therapy. Not because I need it, but because my relationship needs it. I wish you all the best as well 🙂
Something is reply with ‘Stop talking about my body unless it’s something nice. This is effecting my self esteem. These comments can last a very long time in my mind. I don’t appreciate this talk.’
This talk is learned behavior and it can be stopped. every time he has something negative to say I would make sure I had a good line about him in my pocket too.
Pharmacy technician here, but the ratio split would be something like 6 tablets for 30 days. I see that one often. There is also goodrx. Maybe look into if the pharmacy has some kind of savings card.
Edit : that ~$1400 you speak of is the cash price.
As a perpetually single person, I would also encourage you to self-reflect as to whether being single is the right path for you—You can take as many weekends away to disconnect if you don’t have a partner committed to you.
I was kiiiinda with you until the last paragraph, and then the above bit really lost me. There's absolutely nothing incompatible about what OP enjoys doing and being in a relationship. She just needs to be in a relationship with someone who understands and supports her need for alone time however often. It's as simple as that. Please don't subtly push the narrative that wanting alone time is antithetical to being in a relationship. There's enough of that thinking around as it is. See: OP's bf, buncha people in this thread.
I know. That doesn’t mean he may/may not ask OP to step into the role of being a parent so he doesn’t have to. But seeing he loves being a dad I’m guessing that’s not his motive.
I'm not talking about a specific medical issue here. How are periods medical issue? UTI was just an example. As I said, race has nothing to do with it and edited that part in the post. If you really want to help, I would suggest you read the post again and really try to understand what I mean.
You’re sick. Do you get mad at people for getting sick? Of course not. You don’t want to be sick & can’t help being sick. She should be compassionate.
This is financial abuse. It won't get better, and is a sign of much, much worse to come.
this man does not respect you and does not see you as an equal. he sees you as his property.
run. i'm serious. run from this man.
Advice?
She had alcohol issues, and abused you.
I'd personally leave any partner that did this, screw that.
OP said she's in the uk, so this will help
Are you invited to the bachelortte party? How many bridesmaids does she have and how close is she to those people? I can %100 understand your disappointment, im sorry you are having such a nude time right now
It sounds like you want to break up and are using the living situation as a convenient way to begin that process.
She’s right that it’s a step backward for the relationship, and it’s not serving either of you for you to play dumb about this.
End the relationship because it’s not working for you and isn’t what you want — don’t pretend this is just about saving money.
It is crueler to move back home and then suddenly “realize” that you want to break up. Just be up front with her that this isn’t working for you and you think it’s time to go your separate ways.