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Date: October 9, 2022
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It’s just a guess, but you could try reading the book “Attached”. It might feel like more chemistry because he is a bit more avoidant and you are anxious in attachment styles. This push/pull dynamic makes it feel like reaching/securing his love is a game of sorts, which is engaging but exhausting. I have been there – I hope this helps, if not, please ignore.
Do you think he’s telling the truth
Short answer, he genuinely makes me happy. He's my best friend and he's always there for me when I need him to be. We don't have bad moments, only when it's in regards to the topic of marriage and his family. Other than that, everything is solid
Yes we both have children. I go to his place when I don't have my kids and he comes to me when I do
But it’s double standards (in my opinion). Guys get high fives for sleeping around and women get judged. Not saying you’re doing the judging by the way, just making a point on how society is.
He also just had his grandfather die, watched his sister get badly injured, stayed with her half the night at the hospital, got no sleep, and had to deal with the kids being a handful. He still noticed that his partner was being snappy and was asking her if she is okay. He noticed her bad mood and it bothered him enough to ask about it. After he snapped he came in and apologized a bunch. I’m not excusing his actions, but he is showing some consideration for her feelings. But in her post she doesn’t acknowledge how tough the experience was on him. They both had a god-awful 24 hours and were both suffering from it. I’m not discounting how rough the experience was for her.
He lied about the fact that he had a partner when we started dating and that he kept on dating her for a whole year. We are both working in Tehran, me for the UN and he for an embassy. She lives in his previous duty station. She came to visit him twice here. I could smell that he felt guilty and asked whether there was something that he wanted to tell me. He said no… He now says that they are not in touch. But I find that naked to believe.
He has started therapy and there has been good progress on truth telling.
Do you have some recommendations on how to start difficult conversations? For now I basically ask how he is feeling and whether he would like to discuss (enter specific issue) with me right now, or whether he has a preferred other time slot.
I pity straight women. Men will wank off to porn, check out other women, see Instagram 'thirst traps', and hit up strip clubs…yet it's disrespectful when their partner wears 'revealing' clothing.
Since you consider other men viewing her sexually a matter of respect…I'm sure you have never looked at another woman sexually right?
My answer when he says he is a bad person is simple. “So what are you going to do about that?”
My question to you is, seriously, why are you with this person? He seems to give you NO thought or consideration whatsoever. Why would you stay with someone like that?
I've struggled with it in the past, and I was very close to looking into Viagra and the like.
I discovered that porn and masturbation were significant contributors. It was insane. I don't know your habits, but keep that in mind.
Also, something I've recently discovered was a huge factor was my own anxiety about being able to perform. I had an ex who, like your current gf, guilted me and made me feel inadequate. I felt like my relationship was on the line if I couldn't perform.
My current partner is different. Early on I explained that certain medications I take for ADHD and anxiety tend to have sexual side effects—not always, but sometimes. It's unpredictable. She understood, and she doesn't pressure me at all if I have a difficult time getting it up. Extended, intimate foreplay and a relaxed atmosphere did wonders.
Even while taking the same meds, I barely have issues with my current partner. I really think it is due to how understanding she is and how she quells my anxiety.
It's probably obvious by now that your gf is not helping you. She will make your ED worse and prevent you from honing in on the actual issues. She seems selfish. The minute someone said “three strikes you're out” to me in that context, I'd just be out right then.
HAHA! you just made my day! And tbh I don’t think I would do it lol
This is out of Reddit’s ability to help. She needs therapy.
They have been tested. They have been diagnosed. At one time they took medication, years ago, but now they do not treat it at all.
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Show this fucking clown the door. If he’s 27 and still doesn’t have a shred of decency or empathy, he never will. Time to work on you and find someone better down the line.
It's foolish to spend hours and hours making something without checking with them first no matter what size it is.
If you want it to be a surprise you have to accept that you might have made a bad bet on how much they'll actually want the thing you made. They might appreciate the effort but simply not want that thing.
He should be accepting you for what you are now. Past relations and experiences have moulded your present character. And if he finds you very likeable today then he should be thankful for those experiences.
They can be both. Mixed race exists.
But it feels harsh to point the finger at her for the relationship deteriorating.
Why? She knows it's an almost sexless relationship, she knows she's the gatekeeper of sex in your relationship, and it is her fault. It's not harsh to speak the truth.
It is in my country, I have 2 witnesses (3 with Maria who said she will take my side in a lawsuit). He used threats against me 2 times, when she broke up with me and he said that he will beat me up if I put her out of my home. And when I said that we are still too close. He also used indirect threats, like saying to her that he will beat me up or saying to me that his cousin will beat Maria up. But I don't take any of his threats seriously.
It's more complex than that. Threats are the only things I saw but he seemed like a good guy the first time I saw him, so maybe not as bad as it looks. She looks genuinely happy when she laugh with him and doesn't look like she is pointed by a gun on videos and photographs with him, and she posts a lot of social media on their relationship. I think she genuinely has feelings for both of us.
Except he can't accept it and want her to make a choice (him because he is so much better), while I can totally get it and just enjoy what I got if she is happy. He seems Indeed to be the only one who cares, maybe his parents too (he lives with them, that's why she is still at my house.).
And I don't care about his threats, I did the most I can to protect myself, I have 3 witnesses. Being a health worker I am even more protected by local laws when I'm wearing something to identify myself. And I don't think he will do more than threats.
Well, sorry my guy but this isn't a perfect world. If a woman I impregnated said “no” to a paternity test then that would be a major red flag and I would be calling a lawyer.
What a dumb counter argument. Jesus grow some brain cells.
I know i wasn't clear but when i meant recently I meant 2 days ago so even if u don't bring it up its still the main subject 🙁 and thank you for your answer
I think even without the marriage im ruined financially. The child care support payments are pretty hefty and I'd want to pay them, as I wouldn't want to begrudge my daughter a decent quality of life.
Yes, his mother, the grandmother, is interfering so bad parenting.
Can I ask you something? Would you want this man as your father? If not, why on earth are you considering having children with him? If you get married to him, you'll be able to eventually divorce him – your kids will be stuck with him for life.
GOD THIS IS MORE COMPLEX THAN COMMENTERS UNDERSTAND.
yes we are in relationships with unspoken intimacy agreements that don’t need expressly verbal consent at any given moment.
yes we can explain to our partners when we want to establish boundaries because something felt violating, and that doesn’t make them evil for overstepping
yes you can have a prior agreement that sexual touch is okay in moments of sleep. yes you can then wake up to this and revoke consent.
yes, (often) women/femmes/submissives/etc take on the emotional labor of having to consent educate our partners in order to feel safe and respected. that’s stupid. this is something we need a much better cultural awareness of.
OP, it all boils down to how he reacts and responds to an honest conversation you have about it. that’s what determines if he’s an okay partner.
While I do think your parents are being quite shitty and passive-aggressive, ultimately you need to focus on doing well not for your parents approval, but for yourself. This is your life to online, you need to think about and focus on your own future. What should matter more is not recieving your parents approval, but feeling your own approval. If you know that you're doing your best (and are doing a good job), then that's the most important thing!
Idk, I would like to know the reason why they chose him instead of her. The other women have the luxury of not being compared to a male co-worker/partner for this opportunity. This could still be a sexism thing.
Harsh, but brutally honest.
Thank you. I don’t know if she’ll even try family therapy with us but I’ll suggest it to my parents.
Nobody is going to be able to help you here because most people are not going to understand how or why you’ve married someone without having sex. Either he’s gay, asexual or something else, but either way – why would you put up with any of it for another second? You aren’t being seen or fulfilled in your marriage.
I meant the sentiment of wanting to give him something special.
We’ll that’s a catch 22 now isn’t it, you asked her to abandon her original ones, so new ones would be the option now, right?
I also agree, I think it’s horribly insecure and controlling to tell someone to leave friends they already have when starting a relationship.
Your relationship is supposed to enhance both your lives, not replace it and certainly not start by abandoning what you already have going.
In a quiet moment, not at home, simply tell him that you have decided to ” no longer remain celibate.” Then, say nothing. It is his turn to speak, or not.
Everyone has sexual autonomy. For some that is celibacy, for others, celibacy can never be part of their lives.
Own your needs, then pursue their satisfaction.
Don’t call her. Given that this bothers you so much & she does it often, and that she’s already giving you pointers on how she should be treated, you two are likely incompatible & you should just move on.
Just reading this was exhausting. I can't imagine how you felt experiencing it. I'm glad one of your family members is reasonable, at least. I hope he can eventually get through to the rest of them, regardless of whether or not you eventually choose to reestablish communication.
This is fake.all the accounts with throwRA in the name make these stories to bait people
Listen to your friends and your parents. They're not as biased as you think they are.
Naked nope. My bf would NEVER, and I can’t think of a single male friend that would participate in something like that. Hope you break up but seems like you don’t quite get it, in your comments. Hopefully he didn’t leak your nudes to his friends, but I’d assume he did.
He still thinks that it is a bad idea, he knows that the physical person that he is attracted to is going to disappear. Yes the emotional, spiritual person will still be there, but the physical person is going to go, and the ‘new’ you isn’t even going to be there for him to see for months afterwards as the swelling will need to go down.
If you are lucky he won’t dump you until after you recover from the surgeries.
Oh come on. Leave your husband over that? You must be really angry at him about something else if after this tiny little insignificant incident you're thinking about leaving them.
Um. I've never had an issue getting an erection, nor known any other circumcised men who had that as a cause of it. I'm pretty sure that's one of those “I don't agree with it so it's the cause of all the problems) things.
Also not missing anything but my sheath. I'm sire some are shoddily done, but I'm happy with mine.
Hey thanks for your response and honestly yeah we did. When we first talked about our practical steps to getting a home we talked about all the nitty grittys: break up, death, financial hardship.
We would sell and split the equity.
We talked at length as to what caused his feelings and my feelings thereafter. I understand it's a rushed timeline and it's completely logical to wait. I guess that's why I made the post, it felt silly to be so butt hurt about something completely logical.
No, he went to the general practitioner once who gave him the meds and they have just been repeating the prescription monthly for him and not saw him again yet and he hasn’t told them about the sexual side of his anxiety. And I feel like I have nagged him so much about it that I don’t want to have to keep nagging. I don’t want to have to be like this.
How do you know what her reaction was?
If you have it, be sure to keep any communications (texts, voicemails, etc) with information about what she did and who she saw. Take it to a lawyer and get a plan. File for full custody based on her actions.
Don’t tell her what you are doing. If you can, get her to agree to testing. Try to do it through text for evidence, so she may admit her actions. Or if it’s a single party consent state, record ANY (in person or phone) conversations with her or her mother.
You are not wrong to not believe a word she says about not doing anything, she has proven she is not trust worthy. You need to protect yourself and your kids.
I’d get tested too.
Nah, if it’s a joke it’s a cruel one. She can do better. He wasn’t joking. He was negging.
It doesn't need an alcohol-fuelled, tear-stained night in the pub and a trip to his flat afterwards 'just to talk' for her to 'explain' to Bob.
She just needs to block and avoid and if HE approaches her then a simple “Sorry, Bob, I'm withdrawing from our acquaintance. It's nothing personal. Please leave me alone.”
Wow, are you my ex?
She started having problems with me as a person without ever telling me. The resentment grew, and the relationship ended months after it should have after I called her out on how she'd been treating me. She finally told me her issues with me and that she had decided long ago to break up, but she was just waiting it out.
It's frustrating because the issues were reasonable and fixable, and if she'd told me, I would have fixed them for her. Instead I fixed them after the relationship had already passed. I can see now it's for the best that I'm not in it, but I wish she had been a better person to me, I walked away with a lot of pain.