0 views
Hey!!! guys I am a new girl and I would love that this is my best experience. [742 tokens remaining]
Date: October 9, 2022
![](/cs/camsoda2500.jpg")
NakedHotPussy
Promo Code
200_FREE_TOKEN_SPRING_SURPRISE
A women of his age would never accept that kind of B.S. That's why he goes after you. No offense but you're young and naive…. Please consider moving away from this toxic relationship.
Id call the hotel and see if they could find out for you if he has purchased a room lately , if they can even provide that information?
He has a drinking problem and you are enabling him.
Do you really want to marry a man who spent your birthday with someone else?
Don’t sell yourself short. Go out and find someone else who will be loyal and who will only have eyes for you.
But it's a joke!! Even though she's doubled down on it in other comments in a way that makes it clear she wasn't joking….
The problem a lot of guys have—especially younger, inexperienced, or immature guys—is that they simply can’t imagine that you’re not horny too, or that you don’t get horny as easily as he does. Even if he’s not horny at all, all you need to do is put your hand on his thigh and all of a sudden he’ll be in the mood to fuck you. He doesn’t understand that sexual arousal doesn’t work the same for men’s bodies and women’s bodies.
Unfortunately, this means you need to be much more forceful in your rejection. The first time he does it, you tell him, “No, please don’t touch me. I’m not in the mood.” After that you get up and walk away. If he continues after that you might need to literally scream in anger at him. And after that, if he still can’t “take the hint” for some reason, you end the relationship and leave him forever.
I definitely agree. I would never make fun of someone’s food just because i think it’s not cultural food or weird. But since he was joking with me about my food I thought my joke was okay. I was honestly just playing along. I apologized but idk what else to di
How tf did you not clarify this instead of asking this on reddit, you're the problem in this communication gap
Your opinion is probably more in line with the general common-sense wielding public.
But, your boyfriend is entitled to any boundaries he chooses. And they are valid boundaries.
But, they may be boundaries that someone possessed of common-sense, such as your self, or me, or countless others might choose not to agree with.
It’s possible that this boyfriend has some controlling and manipulative tendencies that you would be better off avoiding. So maybe take this red flag for what it is… a ?.
My ex husband did the same thing. I wasn’t blocked, he just wasn’t responding or doing the things. So I gave him a final date and then I turned it all off. The internet, electricity, gas, phone, car insurance….all of it. Not my problem.
Im so sorry 🙁 Ya know when people say 'marriage takes work'?? One part of the WORK they're referring to is keeping open communication back and forth about how each of you are feeling. He didn't do this. He also went behind your back seeking attention from.another person. I also have lived long enough to know that no relationship ends 100% because of one person. (Let me say, first, I am in no way blaming you for his actions on the app) Have you been checking in with him re the status of your relationship? Physical intimacy is a good barometer of a relationship. I wouldn't just toss the marriage but IF he recognizes what he did was wrong and wants to stay married, then he's gonna have to do whatever it takes to fix it. In the meantime, be careful of who you speak with about your relationship. (That's good advice for life, actually. Some ppl think loving their friend/daughter means they have to hate anyone who wrongs them and that just isn't reasonable. People make mistakes).
Your eyes are open now. Plan for the worst (nasty divorce) but hope and try for reconciliation. (If he's truly repentant) Again, so sorry 🙁
Out of the dirt comes beautiful flowers, congrats to you on great kids! Your recap reminds me to stay picky on who I date and fuck, thank you.
The truth of the matter is you are going to have to talk with any woman you date.
I get what you are saying here, but you gotta figure out how you can make everyone happy here.
Say what you said about winding down, but offer when you can handle this.
If you don’t address these things head on, you end up in kinda sucks land. In kinda sucks land you just trudge along as your relationship dies because you don’t have the skills to do that yet. It’s up to you whether you accept that or not.
If you challenge the dynamics and it breaks the relationship, congratulations you saved yourself some time wondering here.
5 almost 6 years. With small breakups in between. Most recent one is when she met her Mr. Perfect. Who I’m insecure about.
I pee in the shower. As a child we only had a toilet downstairs and the bathroom was upstairs. If I had to pee, I did that in the shower. Now I don't see the purpose in not doing it. It saves water and you are washing yourself anyways. So who cares. As long as you don't pee on your partner when showering together.
Well, if you and your partner are into that. Who am I to judge? ?
Thank you! I knew there was probably a medical term for this. Sociopath it is.
yeah but you're still the same controlling manipulative groomer
lmao they def fucking
That’s more than obvious. I would tell her that she can choose to deflect this fact and be in denial but in that case you will be leaving. There’s no coming back from this if she continues to act like she’s not doing anything wrong. Her mindset is the problem, not the actually thing itself. Shows no respect for you and your relationship.
Accept it or dump him. It’s not complicated.
you also say
really genuine guy and I think drunk,
sooooooo…here we are just trying to sort out conflicting things you put out..for sure you need to stop drinking to blackout status. anyways, good luck fishing someone will take the bait for sure.
when I was 19 I met quite a few friends through social media, though this can always be sketchy, you really just have to be smart and always listen to your gut feeling.
you can follow people that you see comment or like your other friends posts, people you think you'd enjoy hanging out with. if you have hobbies, find people in your area that have the same hobbies, literally start searching hashtags with the hobby and your city (also cities close by). I was into photography and met tons of really cool creatives that way! maybe even reconnect with someone you haven't talked to in a while, like someone you went to middle/high school with that you know still lives in the area. once you follow someone you think you'd click with, interact with their posts and stories, and see how they react!
my biggest advice though is to get a job while you're home for break, literally all of best friends have come from my places of work!
OK the age difference makes me think she’s trying to manipulate you into doing threesomes. Read a few Reddit posts about threesomes. Usually they don’t go well, especially when they’re in a monogamous relationship where there’s no hint of it previously. You’re pretty new into the relationship too, so I think he’s trying to train you. If you don’t want to do a threesome, tell him you don’t want to do a threesome.
Hello /u/bigfeelings1231,
Your post was removed for the following reason(s):
Your title did not include at least two ages/genders or was not formatted correctly
Posts must:
include details about the involved parties including ages, genders, and length of relationship, and
request advice in real situations involving two or more people
We are enforcing the two rules listed above by making all titles start with ages/genders in the following format:
[##X][##X], [## X][## X], or [##-X][##-X] where ## is the age and X is the gender (currently M, F, T, A, NB, FTM, MTF but more can be added). You can have more than two ages/genders listed, but you must have at least two at the beginning of your title. Here is an example:
[34NB][88-F] We are two people in an example post
Please resubmit with a corrected title.
I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.
Just block them, change your number if you must, send unopened mail back via “return to sender”. If you must send a last written request, get your attorney to. Don’t try handling this relationally. Consider it a legal issue. They aren’t going to change. Now, just so you know, 2 of my adult children went no contact with me strangely both are close to your age. I respect their decision but most won’t. I don’t agree I was abusive but I don’t question the validity of their perspective. I love my children and know I am me and they decided I was bad for them. Better just do what is best for you and don’t expect them to understand.
Hello /u/Fearinghusband,
Your post was removed for the following reason(s):
Your title did not include at least two ages/genders or was not formatted correctly
Posts must:
include details about the involved parties including ages, genders, and length of relationship, and
request advice in real situations involving two or more people
We are enforcing the two rules listed above by making all titles start with ages/genders in the following format:
[##X][##X], [## X][## X], or [##-X][##-X] where ## is the age and X is the gender (currently M, F, T, A, NB, FTM, MTF but more can be added). You can have more than two ages/genders listed, but you must have at least two at the beginning of your title. Here is an example:
[34NB][88-F] We are two people in an example post
Please resubmit with a corrected title.
I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.
Can't even get mad, this was funny. Lol
Feed him some undercooked cabbage and beans one evening.
You’re allowed to have friends. Some guy you kissed once.. youve known your whole life.. that you don’t even talk to us not a threat to him. That’s dumb. And his reaction sounds abusive to me. He’s “deciding” if he wants to leave you and threatening to contact an actual ex because she “knows him better”? Leave.
No not really. You are not happy, leave.
If he wants to sleep with other women, he's not your BF. Stop calling him that. In fact, stop calling him at all. Yeesh.
If he couldn’t afford to fix your car he shouldn’t be driving it.
It doesn’t matter HOW he will find the money to cover up your losses. It is his problem to deal with.
I would break up with him and sue him if possible because this is not ok.
What was your first reaction when you discovered she liked reading books like that?
Everything women buy is more expensive so is he really paying more, our deodarent, razors, period products, makeup , lotions all have a pink tax
Absolutely. It is especially weird how people are making up their own intentions for him to show his potential innocence. Really, it doesn't matter what his intention is. It doesn't matter if he was truly just “trying to wake her up”. He still made her touch his genitals in her sleep. He still went against her consent.
The sex scenes are graphic however.
Ma’am, if you don’t have kids by 30 YOURE the one you shouldn’t forgive. 1. This man has never given you a single I love you but you’re sure he wants to be with you forever. 2. No affirmations at all or displays of love from the man but you moved across the country for him. 3. You work, pay 100% of everything, as well as cook/clean and he guilts you for even mentioning him getting a part time job. 4. He literally told you that you can start trying for kids after you guys move out of the country; an expense you’re expected to pay for! Hes looking for a free ride and you’re giving it to him.
At this point you did all this to yourself, he is obviously using you. You would rather play a back and forth game with him than put your foot down and leave an empty relationship. On top of that, you aren’t mature enough to have a kid. You want to work full time while pregnant up until the day you’re due? Who’s going to pay for bills during your maternity leave? He can’t even cook or clean and you think he’s going to help you with a baby? Grow up and get your life together
Surely you can do better than this with someone local.
What about mayonnaise? Why is ketchup getting all the attention when it is clearly the inferior condiment?
Could you possibly link the other story? I'd love to read it lol.
I had never thought about rectractable leashes being a bad idea.
Her golden retriever gets just ~40 minutes of casual human walking pace a day. I occasionally run with the dog every other week. So, it seems to me her dog does not have enough freedom or exercise, and the retractable leash was useful to give the dog a bit more movement.
We do have a large retractable leash taht says is good for up to 110lb dogs, and her golden is 65 lbs. I also recommended a harness instead of a collar when I first met her, as I noticed the dog was pulling hard enough to wheeze sometimes..
However, knowing now that most people don't recommend rectractable leashes, I can bring it up to her.
Again, she is so carefree, she did not really notice her dog was pulling so hot and could be bad for the dog's throat. She did not mind barking and being unable to command the dog to calm down. These are things I try to propose small workarounds for and ask for “change”.
Holy cow the issue here is “permission” of making your own informed decisions. everyone who is shading you for their own weird issues about volunteering – nobody cares about your hard takes and what you think about volunteering – that isn’t the issue she’s asking about. She’s allowed to ride a bus to volunteer for one day. I thought from the title of your post, you would ask about a long stint in a remote country – which I think is still fine.
Personally I would not be with somebody who “tells” me what I can do as adult woman. And uses “safety” as the reason. It’s the oldest truck there is about controlling and a slippery slope once you agree to it one time, it will keep going. Think long and hot about that.
I think this comment hurt the worst. It’s not that you’re wrong at all, I just can’t bare the thought of her being my ex… and now when I do finally succeed how could I ever see her again. I’m sorry I wasn’t fast enough I’m so sorry
You know what's going on. Screw her and go talk to a lawyer and get rid of the trash
Two major red flags here 1 loaned twice as much with talking to you about 2 seriously downplayed it when you confronted him. Did not hear an apology
“BF, I am really concerned that you do not seem to be taking this issue seriously. Are actions and lack of concern have seriously eroded my trust. Our relationship has taken several large steps backwards. That is not acceptable to me. You need to be taking steps to earn my trust again “
Now the conversation begins
Look for deflection or not taking responsibility. He needs to own his screw ups. Cannot blame you in any way
Not hopeful for him.
Urgh I thought that would be the answer but I’m really not great at talking to people. Especially about feelings and shit
Hahahahaha she must be insanely hard
How can you be okay with this?
In our culture you either purchase a home 50/50 or if someone puts in 75/25 the other person must compensate another type of way or just stfu
Anybody that likes Trump can fuck themselves from now until the end of time.
Forgiveness, trust and staying with someone are all distinct things. Don't assume one means all. It's possible to forgive but separate, possible to stay and not trust, and so on, in whatever combination these things exist. Forgiving him doesn't necessarily mean you can deal with it. If you can't, you can't. People can try to put it behind them, move forward with the best intentions, but sometimes that simply isn't possible. Unfortunate, but life rolls that way. If anxiety lingers well past the point, maybe it's there to stay. But it can take a while to diminish, if it does. Only you can make the call on whether you think it might fade in time.
After all her lying/gaslighting I would set up a hidden camera. She's at the very least having an emotional affair. And an EA + proximity often leads to a physical affair.
Would recommend both of you read Not Just Friends by Shirley Glass.