I’m (30M) and have ZERO jealousy/obsession/reserves/boundaries for my wife (30F), she can do whatever she wants. Is that normal?

I've been with my wife for 10 years now, married for 8.

I have zero boundaries for her, I don't get jealous, I don't control her, and she can do whatever she wants (outside of emotional and physical cheating).

If she wants to go out with friends. That's fine. If she goes to the bar? Have fun! If dudes hit on her at the bar…work it girl, receive that confidence boost and get some free drinks. You're saving our joint bank account.

I honestly don't get jealous or concerned. If she gets hit on by another dude it makes me proud. I trust her enough to not follow through with any infidelity.

And if she does cheat on me, it is what it is…I can't control her, she's her own person and will ultimately do what she wants.

Just wondering if I'm an anomaly or if anyone else is the same way? Look if someone wants to be with me, they'll be with me. I'm not going to obsess over her every movement and intention. I'm not going to monitor her theft messages. If she wants to love and be with me she'll be with me, if she doesn't she doesn't.

Anyone else feel the same?