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Don’t message her. You made your intentions known. she knows you want a clear answer. If she wants to give you one she will. Move along, don’t give her attention even if she seems like she’s interested. If she tries to be flirty, politely remind her that you’re just friends until she verbally says otherwise (even then, I would just move on. You invested enough time for a clear answer). One last point for emphasis: move on
It’s very naked for me to express my thoughts and emotions because honestly most people don’t seem to care. When I know something is important and needs to be expressed (very similar to how you feel) I find that writing out a letter or outline of what to discuss is easiest. Even an exact transcription of what you want to say works as well so it takes the guesswork out of it, reducing stress.
It prevents you from forgetting what to say and which order you want to say it in. I’ve struggled even when reading what I’ve written, but as soon as you pull out the paper or phone or whatever medium you used, hopefully your partner will see how difficult it is for you and appreciate it that much more. In my experience, that’s what I’ve been told at least as I stammered through my own words, afraid of the reaction or whatever potential negative could be a result of my expression.
As time went by though it became easier and easier and my articulation has improved considerably, and I have no doubt it will for you too.
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Don’t message her. You made your intentions known. she knows you want a clear answer. If she wants to give you one she will. Move along, don’t give her attention even if she seems like she’s interested. If she tries to be flirty, politely remind her that you’re just friends until she verbally says otherwise (even then, I would just move on. You invested enough time for a clear answer). One last point for emphasis: move on
Awe, poor thing. Words are very hot, huh ?
It’s very naked for me to express my thoughts and emotions because honestly most people don’t seem to care. When I know something is important and needs to be expressed (very similar to how you feel) I find that writing out a letter or outline of what to discuss is easiest. Even an exact transcription of what you want to say works as well so it takes the guesswork out of it, reducing stress.
It prevents you from forgetting what to say and which order you want to say it in. I’ve struggled even when reading what I’ve written, but as soon as you pull out the paper or phone or whatever medium you used, hopefully your partner will see how difficult it is for you and appreciate it that much more. In my experience, that’s what I’ve been told at least as I stammered through my own words, afraid of the reaction or whatever potential negative could be a result of my expression.
As time went by though it became easier and easier and my articulation has improved considerably, and I have no doubt it will for you too.