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Barney, 19 y.o.
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Date: October 10, 2022
Barney, 19 y.o.
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You sound like a clueless person. Nobody wants that kind of friend.
Out of curiosity, how much do you pay your mom for three days of childcare per week?
I see your husband’s side. He wants to come home from work and be with his immediate family only. He feels your mom being there impedes his time and his ability to interact with you and the kids one on one.
I see your mom’s side. She watches your kids for three days and also wants to interact with you. She also wants to help you by cleaning, etc.
Yes, your marriage needs to be your first and most important relationship above your kids. Your mom overstaying her welcome is frustrating.
But I do wonder – is she deliberately overstaying or is she seeking to help her child (you)? You need to speak with her, yes. But she’s also giving up three days per week to help you and your husband with childcare. So she’s a babysitter and not just a grandma.
Rock and a nude place. He likely sees his parents pick up the kids and drop them off and leave. One day and done. Your mom does the lion’s share of childcare and likely wants to be thought of as more than just the paid babysitter.
You need to have a couple of conversations. One with your mom setting the boundary of leaving earlier. One with your husband letting him know she’s doing you a huge favor and your wanting to spend more time with her.
You don’t mention your dad; is your mom single? Widowed? Is she lonely? What would happen if she takes great offense and decides to no longer watch your kids three days per week? What if she decides she only wants to be a grandma and not a babysitter/grandma combo?