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Her addiction already were a factor in ending her last marriage, they will be a factor in her current relationship ending.
the ex reinlisted and sent her the paperwork. talks to his kids on the phone maybe once every 2-3 months.
In your shoes, I'd give him heads up that you're going to leave….and hope he'll be able to provide a more stable environment for his kids.
Yeah imagine that convo between her and OP. They were probably being equally insulting to each other. It was her HS bf so imagine the ages
“Cheating” is a label.
In your case you are using the label incorrectly.
The one correct statement you have made is that you are in
a “mind-battle”. What you have not stated is the purpose for this
game/battle you are playing in the back of your head.
I take it that you have some psychatric disorder that interferes with your
natural abilty to organize your thoughts and keep those distinct from
your emotions, yes?
Have you actually left when she's there or something? Maybe they don't think you are serious, still I think you should block her, and have a message on standby to send to anyone who questions you something like this
“hello, you are receiving this message because you are confronting me about removing X from my contacts. I don't wish to have a conversation about it as it won't change my mind, but just in case you are wondering why I did it or you think it's unfair, this as my reasons for doing so: list every incident you can remember, and how it made you feel, plus how none of them have defended you I will not revisit this subject with you or anyone for that matter, and if you press the issue any longer I will unfortunately have to block you as well as im not interested im keeping people in my life who don't seem to care about my boundaries or my feelings”
Might sound a little petty but you need to put naked limits with consequences if they cross the line you've drawn.
Still if you think cutting them of its better go ahead, you'd be justified.
ME, ME, ME…. YOUR ONE AND ONLY SELF is who you're focused on! STOP WASTING YOUR WIFE'S TIME! YOU don't deserve HER! What a sorry ass excuse for a human. ???
After the first the PPD was beyond manageable but her sex drive went up. She also kicked me out and I got her pregnant for the second time before she kicked me out then found out she was pregnant after and begged me to come back- I shouldn't have.
Tell him to shave his crotch everyday because he needs to respect your preferences. Tbh if this continues to be a problem perhaps its time to find yourself a man who wont try to micro manage you
I had a “friend” who listened to me vent about marriage issues for weeks until I went out of town for work and she wanted to borrow a tool from my husband -_- which meant go to my house while I’m gone? A week to two later, I caught her making a pass at my husband. I called her out and she admitted to my face. Said we’re done here.
Second “friend” knew of that story and said wow, only to do the same shit with my husband (conveniently had to use the bathroom to go talk to him after she was exiting when he entered), until she met his brother and became thirsty AF for him (10 years younger) flirting in front of his gf, and then insisted on crashing on our couch.
Mind you both women were 30/32 range at the time and single and single for a fing reason.
I cannot stand female “friends” like this. Never again.
Red flag!!! Terrible situation you're in, I'm sorry. But you can't trust this guy. No way.
OP this is a “you problem” I think you need therapy to help you with this issue (not shading here at all) maybe something happened to you when you were young. A grandmother showering with her small granddaughters is nothing but a great time saving technique. I would know since infrequently shower with all three of my young children. When we all need to bathe, nothing quicker than to all hop in together.
Oh sorry, I should've been more specific. People in my DMs were saying “Dudduee your younggg just break up” and I don't want to at ALL. I just made a silly mistake and I'm regretting it now. I would love to show her how much I care.
Run…but find out the deal first. Gonna need an update on this one…
That ‘little more than a kiss’ was a fully though out decision made by her. She wanted it to happen. That would instantly shatter my trust. Normally I’d begin to question all 17 years, but she told you pretty much instantly.
Thank you very much for your insight.
Their relationship had ended a few months prior to us meeting, but he had lived in that arrangement for a few months while he was looking for a new home. I believe he had only been out of the house a few weeks prior to us meeting. As soon as I had been shared that information, I told him we shouldn’t talk as he was vulnerable. We decided to be friends, which had resulted in us dating.
We both had a few life changes that resulted in our living together and I agree it had been too soon. I’ve spoken to him about moving out, but he assured me that this is what he wanted. And if I’m being honest, it’s what I want as well. We are absolutely friends first, and have both been through a lot together in the past 6 months. I understand that it isn’t a long period, while also understanding that time spent in a relationship is not innately indicative of the value.
I feel very selfish over having not allowed him enough time to heal. He had assured me that this is what he wanted. I haven’t been in a real relationship for 4.5 years and he’s been the first man I’ve felt this way for. I understand time is not on my side, and I probably should have left it alone. He states that this is what he wants, and it’s naked that I have to be strong enough to leave for the two of us. I really do love him, and I guess loving him means I have to put his need above my own to allow him space and time. I really appreciate your feedback
Your wife is a closet lesbian.
Exactly! I got my iud replaced last year because mine expired. Got a new one at the same appointment.
That's a permanent solution to a temporary problem.
You're dealing with attachment issues and you can get therapy to work on those. No one is going to say it's better to off yourself because that's just running away from dealing with your feelings.
Don't go to reddit for validation. Go to therapy and get better at handling rejection and respecting other peoples boundaries.
Yes , child support comes out automatically. I do buy bday and Xmas gifts and occasionally movie tickets , pizza , snacks. But not too much of daily things.
Absolutely needs to use the FREE reminder setting on his phone. I’m really anxiously waiting on February to see how it goes. I’ll give a single reminder about our budget agreement and then whatever happens happens. I wanna be optimistic. This is the first time I’ve made a budget for us so it’s a new thing. But making something easier shouldn’t result in making things harder.
Hey. When they get to be adults they will likely regret some of the thoughtless choices they are making right now.
It's ok to set some boundaries and have them stay in your life/spend time with you.
You’ve already done it. I’m so sorry. Why is she so afraid of her mom?
It will feel gross and you will regret it
What shocks me more than what he did is he chose to talk about it with you. That's messed up.
Yea, i do watch the same show as his. Just on a diff episode. I will definitely do gym today!
And trust me all relationships are a biitt toxic ?
Until he deals with his own issues please don’t return! You’re not a bad person for ending things, you’re taking care of yourself.
Believe me when I say that his attempted manipulation would only get worse as time went on until you have no life or identity of your own.
You did good, you used your head and made a decision that is good for you!
Hardcopy your evidence.
Consult a divorce lawyer and have separation/divorce papers drawn up per your pernups.
Schedule a quiet/no distractions time with your wife for a sit down.
Start by asking questions about this other guy.
Reveal your evidence piecemeal with each lie she tells you.
Finally, present her with the divorce papers and let her know she has some decisions to make giving her whatever amount of time you require and then walk away/leave the house/go to a friends/whatever just get out of sight so she can digest the situation without you present.
In the mean time look up the following:
The Chump lady – Real vs Imitation Remorse
DARVO
best of luck
He ruined thanksgiving, Christmas, and is now trying to ruin your birthday!! Do not let him. Go out with your friends and gave fun!
Listen to your husband.
Stand your ground.
I know it is a lot easier said than done, but if you keep allowing it, it’ll just keep happening.
Tell your father that you’ll be doing the party the way that you want to, and that you’d love to have him and step mom there. If he/they choose not to attend you understand. I wouldn’t really engage much beyond that.
He’ll probably be very upset since he’s gotten his way each and every time before, and there might be some trauma around this particular relationship that you might want to work through with a therapist at some point, but the scenario you’ve described is bonkers.
I would be curious what he meant by her trying to provoke him to hit her, because I've heard people have some pretty interesting interpretations of what being provoked to hit someone is. It's very subjective. Very very subjective. You really need to ask yourself, was she trying to make that happen for real, or was he so angry at something that was not meant to provoke violence that he just assumed that would be the default response?
Big red flag imo, unless he clarifies that the provoking was like, her getting physical first.
I’m working on that part. He hid the tax return from me, but I’m going to try and find it. That right there tells me he’s lying about his finances. As far as friends go, I’ve tried. I have one that has 2 empty spare rooms, but he’s a bachelor and is hesitant because I have teens lol. I get it, but that’s my only friend that would be able to help.
Maybe he’s gray?
You have to willing to fight for the life you want.
Staying passive and letting others make decisions for you will bring nothing but unhappiness.
My bf is 45 (I’m 43) and his daughter is about to turn 22. This age gap stuff is cringey.
why would she worry about your safety? were you in a dangerous situation?
when you say it almost turned physical – who almost did what?
No one should be constantly compared to anyone else.
That’s a terrible thing to do.
Sounds like he’s not over his exes OR he dates western woman like how a child collect Pokémon cards. Gross either way.
I think you know this isn’t normal. So do what you will with that info