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Date: October 10, 2022
I think the challenge is that you can't help yourself: you do care. So you probably need to distance yourself from her. As for her, I suspect she's not really deep enough to be malicious. She just doesn't connect all the dots well enough to behave with consistency over time. She may have good intentions in the moment, but then she gets distracted by some little thing and never follows through, or ever worries about not having followed through.
I like to call people like her 'rainbows'. You can enjoy one in the moment; trying to hold on to one is madness.
Tricky one because I sit with you on 1&3 but 2 I'm more flexible (but still very careful)
Its tricky because I dont think people can change their default “tidy” so always slip back
Can you agree specific places where items can and cannot be left, or a general level of untidyness, what are absolute no no's (like using my white dish towels to mop floor spills and tossing them on the counter ..aghhhhh)
In my place I can manage about 10 out of place items across the entire house, 1 thing on the kitchen table I can handle, more will set off the “that needs to be moved” woodpecker in my head
Remotes in the front on the table, fine, cups if in using them etc. loads of other stuff, woodpecker
The problem is if he cant keep up to the standard you need, the woodpecker is going to win
Mine just says “that doesn't live! there, it needs to be moved”
I used to online with a real untidy person and that meant my woodpecker had baby woodpeckers, that's something you really want to avoid
Now anyone that comes calls me an ocd nightmare in my kitchen, but they all fold my towels and put them back where they online now, you have to train them early 😉
You hear a lot of stories about people having close friends of the opposite sex especially those who had past sexual relationships with those people, so yeah a little insecurity is normal. And if he isn’t controlling and you can’t get over the fact that he is slightly apprehensive about it, break up, I don’t know what to tell you.
I’m aware, thanks you. But is he aware of that too? Many men want children but expect their wife to do the naked part so they can be the ,fun’ parent. Is he willing to take care of his children? I wouldn’t want kids with a man who had that mindset either. I possibly would make him sign a contract that he will do his part.
Thank you
True! But if she is very honest and says what she means why would you disregard her request for no contact, you know? I would accept what she asked for and let her reach out when she is ready. ?
All I'll say is this: this won't stop. After Paris, it'll be some other thing or some other place, and she'll never be satisfied and you'll never be happy.
If you want your first time to be special you got to wait for a special person regardless of virgin status. Being with another virgin doesn’t necessarily make it special. Can you nail down why it’s your preference? Like do you not want the other person to compare you to past partners or what?
You are too young to settle for an emotionally and verbally abusive husband.
Then those aren't the ones you love, because you don't betray those people. You've got messed up morals if you think betrayal and love go hand in hand.
OP is not discussing his father with his mother, she is stalking her ex on social media and that is how she sees OP with his father’s family. That is not healthy.
The fact that you don’t see how inappropriate it is for her to give her son this kind of ultimatum 10 YEARS after her marriage ended is concerning tbh.
Is it the same girl you met 4 months ago or another poor soul?
I can understand your concerns because of his past cheating. However, it is possible he feels extreme guilt over the accident. But if you have a hunch or vibe that something is off in all this, go with that and keep your eyes and ears open. Remember, you know your husband and babysitter while non of us know them or even know if he’s showing similar signs that he did in the past when he cheated.
Break up and report the therapist to what ever governing board she is accredited with.
this wasn’t brattiness this time, this was genuine i didn’t want it.
I wanted to be valued so it really doesn’t feel like a win in any way.
It's just a learning experience. This one wasn't what you needed so it's time to move on.
Are you even poly? So you want to be with him,did she say that she's not fulfilled?
Tbh she sounds manipulative
Trust me, you will find someone else who isn’t gross. Online dating is so popular. You don’t have to leave the house to find someone new.
Being scared to be alone is a terrible reason to be with someone.
Is it possible to get support from the govt to hire someone to help you leave the house?
No. Nope. Negative.
You have a good thing going right now. You get to have sex with two sexy women.?
You could either continue on this, super lucky path, the millions of men would give anything to experience, OR you could completely fuck it up because you seem to have a difficult time differentiating lust and love….
What are you hoping to achieve here?
Because she handled it and boyfriend is trying to control her to handle it HIS way.
Faaaaaaaaake
You came to this subreddit and you’re shocked about seeing a post like this? About wack lol relax
Protection. It’s about protection.
Any tips on how to let it go, I’m in tears over the situation.
Your compromises sound reasonable bit here's the thing she may not think so and her opinion is what counts. If she doesn't want to you won't be able to convince her otherwise compromise or not.
Also have posted about this same topic almost every day for a month in multiple sub reddits how much advice are you after? You started posting this over 2 months ago. Maybe actually listen to some of what people are saying.
Well said, thanks for your view on this. I'll be thinking constantly about that description of standards. I'll choose her any day of the week, drugs or no drugs. I posted this because I've been thinking about this issue for months.
I can't believe there are people on this thread who are like, “drop the loser”. WTF. Totally rational concern and a fine conversation to have with your SO, as long as he doesn't dwell on it and make too much of it. I could totally see some neighborhood Karen or slight acquaintance reporting it. I guess sports gear or custom shirts referencing your a player might help. Other than that, he just needs to take a breath and try and ignore it. Promise him a great sloppy kiss every time someone looks cross eyed at him. Tell him he needs to find the humor in it or you will get matching him/her bdsm tees and make him wear it in public with him
You know it's time to end a relationship when you realise that you genuinely can't (or won't) give the other what they really need.
It's clear that you and your boyfriend care about each other as people, but neither of you is able to act or react in a way that makes the other feel good and comfortable in a relationship. You say it yourself that you would both need the other to change in order for that to happen, but you're talking about such fundamental changes, e.g. to personality, that it would simply never feel natural even if you did somehow manage to 'perform' well enough for each other.
You've had a whole year to get to know each other and figure out if you're a good match, and instead of struggling less with time, you only seem to be struggling more.
You can only do what you can do. The core of your decisions as you move forward should be what is best for you, IMO. What makes you happy. Whatever she may suggest/need should be ignored. My exwife would try to use sex to control me when our differences reached a breaking point.
and also laugh because my bf got himself all worked up that someone was a dick and took my spot, and I’M the emotional and sensitive one.
??????? you hit the nail on the head there… misogynistic pos.