This is likely the result of emotional abuse in my childhood. It is something I am working on and I have improved in this regard
Normal people take time to digest and process feelings after any incident. It's not a fault of yours it's just normal.
Jumping to conclusions and using instinctive reactions often lead to mischaracterization of your own feelings. If you didn't process your thoughts you might act defensive or angry when you wouldn't have done that after thinking about it.
You have to let your GF know that you just work differently to her, and that it's beneficial for her that you don't spew unfiltered emotion at her all the time.
No, but she totally would.
This is likely the result of emotional abuse in my childhood. It is something I am working on and I have improved in this regard
Normal people take time to digest and process feelings after any incident. It's not a fault of yours it's just normal.
Jumping to conclusions and using instinctive reactions often lead to mischaracterization of your own feelings. If you didn't process your thoughts you might act defensive or angry when you wouldn't have done that after thinking about it.
You have to let your GF know that you just work differently to her, and that it's beneficial for her that you don't spew unfiltered emotion at her all the time.