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Major red flag. You got checked, why can't she? Is it because they might find something, or an over the top guilt reaction because something has been happening that shouldn't be?
It already seems like you know the truth of your situation. Good luck getting it together, “good enough” relationships can be hard to deal with. This sounds dumb but “pros and cons” lists have helped me with these sorts of scenarios.
I don’t think you should beat yourself up about this. You should be able to express how you feel and how it effects you. It is too bad the your MIL is taking it personally but maybe she needed to hear it from a person she knows personally.
Unless you want it, don’t be friends with her. Dont contact her and if she contacts you make it clear that you only want to continue romantically. She will probably try to test you but you have got to hold strong. I’m ignoring your rash behavior and telling you the best way you can potentially get her back.
I have a friend who owns a company that installs “bespoke kitchens” and his company is in an incredible place financially. His employees are trained to a high standard, do good jobs and word gets around. A company like that, in the right scenario, can be incredibly profitable.
I think some important things to consider would be that you don’t know whether or not there are other revenue streams, whether or not the family owns property, whether or not the family invests, whether or not they’ve saved for a long time to live the lifestyle you’re seeing.
There’s every chance that the minute you said “Yea but how do kitchens pay for that?” after she made it clear she wasn’t discussing finances with you it came across in an accusatory way, opposed to a genuinely curious one.
I had an ex push for information pertaining to what my business was earning once in a similar way and it just didn’t sit well with me. My husband didn’t know what my business made until after we were married, he knew what it paid me monthly when we moved in together, I didn’t want it to be a motivating factor in any decisions related to fastening ourselves together financially.
There’s a chance something dodgy could be going on, but there’s also a chance that she doesn’t want to discuss their business’s finances with you.
Okay, so I think I still stand by my original thought – he could have been a bit kinder with you over the phone. Even though you have plans made for tomorrow, his attitude to chuck out any time to spend with you (even if it was over the phone) seems a bit selfish. It would not have killed him to at least focus on the present moment, which was with you versus trying to get you off the phone so he could “go have fun”. Like, dude, your gf is fun…isn't she? Bad form on his part.
You both have to understand each other. Clear and honest communication – not score-keeping, not ordering each other about, but just letting the other person know what's on your mind because you care about them and what they think.
Your stars must have been aligned perfectly to get a medical professional to both listen to you and give you an accurate diagnosis for that! I am in awe
This relationship's abusive too. He's belittling you. He's throwing “trust tests” at you, left and right.
He's interrogating you like a damn murder suspect.
How exhausting and demoralizing.
also I tried suggesting we work on our trust together. He wasn’t having it
Because he isn't here for trust. He's here for controlling and shaming you until you feel like you've done something wrong, and he has some kind of permanent, nameless high ground.
It's time for him to just. Stop.
But to be real…he probably isn't going to willingly do that.
If you can, it'd be worth finding a good therapist for discussing how healthy emotional boundaries in relationships work. Helping you figure out what you do and don't owe someone.
Major red flag. You got checked, why can't she? Is it because they might find something, or an over the top guilt reaction because something has been happening that shouldn't be?
It already seems like you know the truth of your situation. Good luck getting it together, “good enough” relationships can be hard to deal with. This sounds dumb but “pros and cons” lists have helped me with these sorts of scenarios.
I don’t think you should beat yourself up about this. You should be able to express how you feel and how it effects you. It is too bad the your MIL is taking it personally but maybe she needed to hear it from a person she knows personally.
“Wow! This man fell in love with his girlfriend the exact day she turned 18 and not a minute sooner!”
Thank you for saying this, it’s very kind and encouraging and I appreciate it.
Not so well, I see. Bye.
Unless you want it, don’t be friends with her. Dont contact her and if she contacts you make it clear that you only want to continue romantically. She will probably try to test you but you have got to hold strong. I’m ignoring your rash behavior and telling you the best way you can potentially get her back.
What do you mean?
I have a friend who owns a company that installs “bespoke kitchens” and his company is in an incredible place financially. His employees are trained to a high standard, do good jobs and word gets around. A company like that, in the right scenario, can be incredibly profitable.
I think some important things to consider would be that you don’t know whether or not there are other revenue streams, whether or not the family owns property, whether or not the family invests, whether or not they’ve saved for a long time to live the lifestyle you’re seeing.
There’s every chance that the minute you said “Yea but how do kitchens pay for that?” after she made it clear she wasn’t discussing finances with you it came across in an accusatory way, opposed to a genuinely curious one.
I had an ex push for information pertaining to what my business was earning once in a similar way and it just didn’t sit well with me. My husband didn’t know what my business made until after we were married, he knew what it paid me monthly when we moved in together, I didn’t want it to be a motivating factor in any decisions related to fastening ourselves together financially.
There’s a chance something dodgy could be going on, but there’s also a chance that she doesn’t want to discuss their business’s finances with you.
Okay, so I think I still stand by my original thought – he could have been a bit kinder with you over the phone. Even though you have plans made for tomorrow, his attitude to chuck out any time to spend with you (even if it was over the phone) seems a bit selfish. It would not have killed him to at least focus on the present moment, which was with you versus trying to get you off the phone so he could “go have fun”. Like, dude, your gf is fun…isn't she? Bad form on his part.
You both have to understand each other. Clear and honest communication – not score-keeping, not ordering each other about, but just letting the other person know what's on your mind because you care about them and what they think.
Your stars must have been aligned perfectly to get a medical professional to both listen to you and give you an accurate diagnosis for that! I am in awe
This relationship's abusive too. He's belittling you. He's throwing “trust tests” at you, left and right.
He's interrogating you like a damn murder suspect.
How exhausting and demoralizing.
also I tried suggesting we work on our trust together. He wasn’t having it
Because he isn't here for trust. He's here for controlling and shaming you until you feel like you've done something wrong, and he has some kind of permanent, nameless high ground.
It's time for him to just. Stop.
But to be real…he probably isn't going to willingly do that.
If you can, it'd be worth finding a good therapist for discussing how healthy emotional boundaries in relationships work. Helping you figure out what you do and don't owe someone.