It hurts to hear but I think you’re right. I find myself exhausted everyday and I just chalked it up to my sleep apnea but i lately have only been able to go to work and sleep. I think I just have a naked time trying to push myself to leave in fear of hurting her and her doing something to herself. I know I’m not responsible for someone being suicidal but this is how my last relationship worked out and I don’t know if I can go through that pain again
You don’t owe him shit! Do not let him manipulate you into thinking that. A good husband wouldn’t rape you. He consistently crossed boundaries and straight up is raping you in your sleep.
Op please look up the local womens shelter or find friends/family to stay with. Your husband is abusive and you need to get out of this awful relationship before he harms you further. Please be careful.
When people are trying to show you who they are, believe them. This is the family you're marrying into. Its not IF they hurt you, its WHEN. Do you want to end up on a crime show after you get murdered?
Btw losing financial support of your mom is just part of becoming an adult. When you pay all the bills you can hang whatever the hell you want on the walls. It might be scary to think of doing it all on your own, but the rewards of knowing you are self sufficient person is worth it.
On Instagram, reacting to a story sends a DM, so some people use it as a way to start a conversation without risking too much but actually starting a conversation. I remember the first time I reacted I was mortified I'd sent a person I barely knew a DM lol. But shady people use it as a way to start a convo while still giving themselves an “out” if there's no response.
All of your feelings are super normal. And your fiance seems pretty dismissive-at best. Personally, im getting self-centered liar from this post :/ id postpone the wedding
it´s just the pictures and some games, like i´m just curious and i dont fap to it
I'm sorry, the post was removed by moderators. It was a serious relationship concern for me. I'm glad I asked and got good advice. Thanks everyone.
Then he probably didn't reply because the video made him uncomfortable. I'd also personally be uncomfortable if someone I was seeing sent me porn.
You should break up.
No hints. Communicate.
It hurts to hear but I think you’re right. I find myself exhausted everyday and I just chalked it up to my sleep apnea but i lately have only been able to go to work and sleep. I think I just have a naked time trying to push myself to leave in fear of hurting her and her doing something to herself. I know I’m not responsible for someone being suicidal but this is how my last relationship worked out and I don’t know if I can go through that pain again
Tell him to go on xfactor
You don’t owe him shit! Do not let him manipulate you into thinking that. A good husband wouldn’t rape you. He consistently crossed boundaries and straight up is raping you in your sleep.
Op please look up the local womens shelter or find friends/family to stay with. Your husband is abusive and you need to get out of this awful relationship before he harms you further. Please be careful.
When people are trying to show you who they are, believe them. This is the family you're marrying into. Its not IF they hurt you, its WHEN. Do you want to end up on a crime show after you get murdered?
Btw losing financial support of your mom is just part of becoming an adult. When you pay all the bills you can hang whatever the hell you want on the walls. It might be scary to think of doing it all on your own, but the rewards of knowing you are self sufficient person is worth it.
You need to realise that she won’t do it. Maybe she can’t practise it due to reasons. Anyways, is this the only cons in your relationship?
On Instagram, reacting to a story sends a DM, so some people use it as a way to start a conversation without risking too much but actually starting a conversation. I remember the first time I reacted I was mortified I'd sent a person I barely knew a DM lol. But shady people use it as a way to start a convo while still giving themselves an “out” if there's no response.
All of your feelings are super normal. And your fiance seems pretty dismissive-at best. Personally, im getting self-centered liar from this post :/ id postpone the wedding