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Date: October 11, 2022
Mr. GoodToes, you are once again correct š
If you need spiritual help reach out to us on r/truechristian. Iām sorry youāre going through this
I would block him and tell his partner.
Thatās what he believes sheās doing because he probably has a sleep disorder. It often feels like hallucinations/delusions to the person experiencing themā¦and until you unlock the actual level reality the delusion can be a rock solid conviction, as real as reality is for a normal person. Got it?
You will get over that feeling , keep your money and say goodbye.
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It is entirely TikTok zoomer level transaction.
There you go.. she does like you, otherwise she won't spend that much time with you. Start slow – you don't even need to go to the gym! start jogging, controlling your diet, start buying decent-looking clothes (don't have to be expensive just needs to fit well) checkout guides on youtube.. there's loads for all body types!
you need to listen to her all the time and make sure she feels appreciated..and I must stress her laugh.. think of it from her perspective…if you are her, what would you like your partner to do/look like/behave around you? you'd want someone fun to hang out with..who doesn't just want you for your looks but actually likes you as a person…Most dudes out there are after sexual stuff and there's nothing wrong with that.. But you have to stand out from everyone.. what do you have to offer her? and it seems to me that you do have a lot to offer.. just haven't released it yet!!
start with small and CONSISTENT changes to yourself to build up that self-esteem. I used to be in a position like that before, I used to be shy and worried what girls think of me etc.. sometimes I even miss cues that they do like me because like you I was thinking I'm not attractive enough….surely she doesn't like me?? it turns out she does!! haha
remember mate, it's not all about looks….there's much more to it if you're seriously thinking about building a future/relationship with someone.
What did you mean by that
When a guy calls their girlfriend Bruh and Broski, they're usually saying that they only see you as a booty call. Don't worry about his feelings, or whether or not it might seem rude. He's making you feel like crap and it's turning you off every time he says it. Tell him you don't like it and he needs to stop. If he can't/won't then that tells you exactly how he views your relationship.
Do it. You have nothing to loose and she deserves to know the truth. No one wants to be with a cheater
You try very naked to paint your husband as the bad guy in your post. You conveniently evade saying anything about your sisterās behaviour that would make your husband not want her around your home. I think you need to value how your husband is feeling. You can support your sister while still maintaining boundaries from your husband. Your husband should be the top priority, you are not married to your sister. I think you need to evaluate your feelings and need to help your sister while ignoring your husbandās needs. Your marriage wonāt last if you keep ignoring this.
Uh, I mean it's definitely fucking weird, but I GUESS they aren't actually related? He definitely should've talked this over with it though.
Youāre a straight up moron
He only gets obnoxious because heās surrounded by yes men like her bf . A decent man would have beat him blue the minute he kicked her leg . A bear who hits a girl please . You call that a little bixtch
Sure cus that way nobody would be in a relationship
Exactly. The parents did something terrible and this guy wonāt come to terms with it.
Sounds like he was judging you based on your choices and actions. What other measuring stick should people use?
To everyone outside your head full of inner thoughts and monologue, you are literally defined by your choices and actions.
He isn't saying you're not worth hanging out with or being friends with, he just has higher standards for a relationship.
While itās a normal expectation, I think the amount of time he is asking for is above normal.
He should be understanding that you are busy and stretching yourself too thin can hurt your physical and mental health.
I think when you have time and feel comfortable using your valuable time to spend with his friends, that should be plenty.
Do his friendsā girlfriends have jobs similar to yours that take up a lot of their time? Or maybe even theyāre being forced to go out when they would rather relax at home.
Even though it might be tense at first, I think you need to set a boundary and enforce it with your BF. Explain that you have no problem hanging out with his friends, however, you will decide how often/long that will be based on your busy schedule. Your BF will need to accept that and work on understanding it.
So im plain stupid i guess ??
Idk.. I would absolutely understand leaving. In my previous 3 relationships I would have lefty partners immediately for cheating. Now, I've been married to my husband for nearly 6 years and I love him with every fiber of my being. Truly. I believe I would forgive him and stay with him. He is worth every effort to me. He brings me so much joy. I know he feels the same about me.
This is a really tough decision and in the end only you can decide. I do wish you both the best.
FWIW I learned the expression with the word ābetterā than āeasierā. The idea is that if you end up getting in trouble either way, at least if youāre asking forgiveness you got to do the thing you wanted to do. This rule has often served my well in my career. I donāt really use it much in my marriage because of course the long term relationship is much more important in that situation.
That is wired to me, especially if he was not sure it's appropriate or not.. more reasons to ask you and get a second opinions, he obviously wanted to give her that without you stopping him and knowing.. else he would've mentioned it or even suggest that he overhead you guys talking and it would be if YOU bought her sex toys.. but no he hid it from you, freak probably thinks of her masturbating.
No most people would not do that. You were right to shit him down. With kids around and strangers and being in another countryā¦no last place I want to break a law and end up in jail is another country.
Also trying to get you to do stuff around kids not cool. Oh and he may be into public sex that may be his kink, but everyone around watching didnāt consent to share his kink. The thrill of public sex is doing it where you may get caught, not right out in the open for all to see!!
Absolutely cut them off from access to the finances; if they want anything beyond barebones shelter and rice and beans, they can work for it. If you stay, that is. They may be spending out of boredom anyway, so it will be good for them.
Whatās wrong with you?
Honestly, you sound like a 14 years old that is convinced to have found an exploit in life.
Thanks. I really appreciate your advice and how you present them.
Youāre making way too much of this. Itās irrelevant. Let it go and move on.
Ummmā¦..there is no coming back from this OP. This was an act of abuse. If you stay with him you will be rewarding his bad behavior and who knows what else he will do. GTFO asap!
Why are so many posts from women like this so, Iām sorry to say it, pathetic? āMy boyfriend kinda choked me once what do I do?!ā āMy husband burned all my clothes, what Dino say to make him understand that was mean?ā
Society in many places has done a great job in making woman feel worthless unless they have a man. They put up with abhorrent behaviour because “If I leave I may not meet anyone else”. So, so sad.
There is your answer as to why it continues to be a low key FWB situation instead of a relationship.
It is a relationship, but you could get in trouble with work if made public. Hence the plausible deniability. Even with yourselves.
Do not ever speak to this person ever again. He is abusive. He is abusing you disguising it as a joke. It isn't funny. He is destroying your self esteem so that you will believe that you couldn't get anyone else. You can do better.
Blood doesn't mean anything. Adopted kids also fall into the trap of “I want to know where I came from.” Appreciate the family that you have.
Don't assume they want a new sibling. It's not your responsibility to protect their dad's reputation, but I wouldn't be involved in their shit.
Hereās the thing – it doesnāt matter if she did or didnāt, the doubt is in your mind now, and you will never trust her completely again. If you stay with her, you will always wonder what really happened, and you will worry that it will happen again. Ask yourself if itās worth the mental anguish.
Hey friend, join us as r/bipolar we might be able to help more than relationship advice. Consider it an anonymous on-line support group
OH COME ONā¦
So we should just abandon our families even though they love us?
Why are you asking for advice?
You say no to both.
But lets be real. They both had the guts to tell you this and they both want to. You are naĆÆve if you think this wont happen (has not already happened).
You donāt prove a negative. Donāt bend over backward for this weirdo. You didnt cheat so the onus is on him to prove the positive.
Encourage him to talk to a therapist about his insecurities and explain how it is affecting your relationship. Consider couples therapy. If you're unhappy with the status quo then make moves to change it.
Based on the info here, sounds like she's extremely busy — gender reveal party and trip to Vegas. Give it a little more time.
Yes, I have professionals that I trust helping me and not a life coach or a pastor. I have been on so many different medications that have not worked and that is why I am in behavioral therapy as well.
Thatās unfortunate, I genuinely donāt even have tiktok.
The thing is, I see nothing wrong with skipping or spinning in public( itās not like Iām performing a flash mob in the street) and needing reassurance is related to mental health issues and I have resources to use to cope with these things and so talk to my trusted professionals about them, but unfortunately I am not perfect in my growth, which my partner understands. I wish I could not have as many issues as I do but some things will never change as they are just a part of me and some things just need time and more habits to form.
Well what did you do with the advice that you got last time?
I definitely understand it from a client's perspective, It's the relationship perspective I don't understand because personally if I can't trust my partner with work details then I don't think I could trust them with much else
I didn't know that's called after care? We just do that anyway.
Please feel free to point out to me where I said one person unilaterally gets to decide timelines! In the meantime maybe work on your reading comprehension skills.
it isn't lying if you don't know yourself. people figuring out their gender later in life isn't exactly uncommon
Why on earth does his job demand so many hours of him? Can he change them somewhat so that he's not as stressed or over worked?
I was with an ex for almost six years. We broke up.
He regretted breaking up. He missed me. He knew he wasnāt the best partner. We had huge issues and he decided he wanted to be a better man.
But I had started dating. And within those four months, I had found a better man.
Iāve been married to that better man for 30 years. I have no regrets, other than the time I wasted with the ex.
Donāt spend your energy on someone who constantly gives you reasons why they wouldnāt be with you.
Give your energy to someone who expresses reasons to be with you. Give it to someone who wants to go on adventures with you. Give it to someone who builds you up.
Youāre only 25. Go out and have a fun life free of someone who is obsessed with your non-existent, hypothetical weight gain. (Seriously. Why does he keep talking about it?)
She sounds like a mean person and I would absolutely break up with her. You had a life before she was with you, and I would let her know that sheās immature and selfish, and that what if the next girl you date acted the same way referring to her as disgusting? But you donāt have to go that far just break up and move on to someone more accepting and mature.
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As someone with a similar amount of debt, I agree with you. Iāve got about 300K in student loans. Those loans covered only cost of attending law school (paid undergrad out of pocket). Obviously Iām a lawyer now with a high earning potential. My job pays about 120k w/ a max of 175. If I went private itād be at least double, but I have the opportunity to get those loans forgiven because of my employer.
All of this is to say, until yāall get a handle on how youāre going to pay this off realistically AND until youāre comfortable with the financial situation/plan I wouldnāt recommend taking any additional steps in the relationship. Waiting a year to see how her program pans out and what the finances look like then isnāt going to significantly delay your future plans as far as Iām aware. You have some time to wait and see, but be careful not to wait too long.
Idk, something about pausing a show/movie and lecturing you like a child for doing a perfectly human thing screams control issues to me. Iām not understanding her angle. If it were about politeness she wouldnāt burp in front of you, if it were about smell she also wouldnāt be burping in front of you. You arenāt in public youāre in your shared home with your relatively long term partner. I know itās lame but when I come across stuff like this I like to switch the genders around to see if it changes anything and I gotta tell you, Iāve seen a lot of Reddit posts about girls farting and their boyfriends acting in similar ways and people side with the girl 9/10.
At least one full year for moving in. At least 3-4 years before legally binding.
Then he is a jerk. I am not fond of dogs in my home. I don't like the shedding, slobbering mess. My daughter has a dog that is a wonderful well-behaved dog. He still slobbers and sheds. I watch him for her when she goes away. I don't enjoy it, but as a favor I do it. Your BF sounds extremely selfish. I would think twice about hitching my wagon to him if he is this petty and selfish.
Sounds more like an excuse for being lazy/selfish/bad
Girl, he's tearing down your confidence. Do you take want partner that keeps putting you down?
I think some feedback on the creative writing exercises is helpful. People get bored of reading the same fake story 20 times.
You already asked this question and received a multitude of responses. Your repeated posts on this topic is concerning. At this point I would recommend not messaging this man any further and seeking the help of a therapist to help you work through navigating your insecurities in a healthy and safe way.
Don't divorce him. You will get survivors benefits when he does. Go stay with family until then.
There's a lot to unpick here. The most important thing is not the flip-flopping on wanting a divorce, it's the reason he gave in the first place. He's been thinking about it for a while. You noticed he's become distant. I'm not sure why he thinks any of this can be unsaid, any more than what he thought can be unthought. And your gut is clearly not buying it. You're too young to tie yourself into a marriage based on such an ambivalent scenario.
Having said all that, you have got him to agree to counseling which might clarify things in a way that could enable you to accept what's happened but as things stand at the moment I think your gut is guiding you well. Good luck to you.
Shockingly bad take!
He's a trainwreck. He doesn't just have flaws, he's a naked mess. You can do better.
I go to therapy all the time. I know that it isnāt just a mistake and I understand the ramifications. It was something I shouldnāt have done. I should have stood up for myself in a different
Yeah, Iām kinda confused by the comment someone made about āage gap issuesā. This issue definitely isnāt specific to age gap couples. But regardless
Y'all should go to couples therapy and learn to argue like adults instead of children. Communicate!
I canāt wait if OP posts an update saying heās an idiot and lost both of them so I can just sit here and laugh at the consequences of his own actions
Run like hell or you deserve to get cheated on again
Sorry just to clarify- you were together since you were 10?
please tell me you actually did that?
I would have ghosted her and left on read but this is good too.
Just do not respond to any future texts. Block is recommended but if you want to see things turn bad for her and her come back to you, leave her in. Then when she contacts you a week, month later and says “it's ok now I have decided on you” you can post:
LOL
seriously though, just find a new girl, you'll be ok.
My guy. It's over. She is getting railed by somebody else. You are free rent, she fucks elsewhere. It's so obviously over. She's not even depressed. She's extremely excited about getting dicked down by her new beau… The “depression” she's showing you comes from the cognitive dissonance she experiences at knowing she has this wonderful exciting new relationship but also being sad that she has to come home to you and keep up appearances so the whole world doesn't know that she's a cheating homewrecker. That's it. That's what's happening. I'm sorry that it's so plain to everyone except for you, it really sucks to be in your position but it happens and you are the person it's happening to. The sooner you get out of this situation the sooner you can heal and get on with your life. I wish you well man, I hope you come to your senses ASAP. Good luck.
Sheās using the same excuse because it keeps working. She donāt love you. Iām not sure why sheās not breaking it off with you but she will in a heartbeat if it suits her. You should do it first.
Honestly (I know I provided no context here) Iāve been doing this and hiring for decades. In the area we work in- staff wise itās either older Boomers who have time on their hands after their kids left, or young Gen Z who donāt know what they going to do with their lives.
Itās minimum wage retail, which is partly why. (Although it is high in our area.) The Boomers expect genteel older women buying teacups for Jesus. I amā¦ not that. Iāve worked with many of them and kept the weird under wraps. For years. But I am visibly not in that group, and itās a struggle. They look at me and know Iām not going to their churchā¦ ever. That was drama. Always, every yearā¦ infighting.
I do a lot better with Gen Z folks who might call out because they are anxious, or decide to go to CA on two daysā notice. And I make that OK. Being flexible with the schedule and how āprofessionalā everyone may or may not look is a big perk I can offer.
It tends to work well with offbeat crowd that goes antiquing nowadays. And the staff is so low drama I am beyond happy- itās been the same group for 3+ years and they all work well together. First. Time. Ever.
We are right between the more conservative areas and one of the most liberal ones, but itās a small town. All are welcome if they are chill, but I like to make a safe haven for the bitey weirdos to work! And if anyone is going to clutch their pearls over a pack of queer folks with wild hair, oh well. (Mostly they donāt. Older ladies love pink and purple hair!)
Fake post, karma whoring. OP describes herself in another dramatic post about being in her early 30s about 9 months ago
āMen are made to breed and fuck as many women as possibleā That is repulsive. If that doesnāt make you run you might as well learn to enjoy porn.