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I can relate somewhat.
Quick points. You should stop telling him what you wish, feel, etc. Seems he hates hearing it. (Just guessing here)
He is somewhat cold hearted & he wants you to be same (or wants you to fake it). Likely he was raised by cold hearted people…maybe. Not his fault…maybe.
No more discussion of saving money (just do it-don’t rub his nose in it). Absolutely make an exit plan but with no time table…unless you want a time table.
Yes, he is selfish but he has a luxury lifestyle & it is fine to enjoy that.
He uses his money to control you (and likely others). Save up your money & leave when you are tired of the game. (Keep it a secret & just leave.) Don’t try to bargain as likely he is an excellent negotiator…& you’ll get manipulated into something you don’t want/like.
Or stay with him because you genuinely love him (despite his cold hearted ways). He will likely never change – make peace & keep saving your money.
Love yourself…. Super important when you live! with a “narcissist” or whatever kind of person he is.
For her this was five years ago. For you this is happening right now. Don’t think you are being silly for being upset, you are rightfully upset about this. It is up to you if you think you can get through it or not, personally I might take a few days of space to see how I’m feeling about the relationship.
It doesn't… really matter what he responds with at this point. You don't trust him, and that's the problem. He's probably given you other reasons not to trust him: the kind of thing that gave you reason to look in the condom drawer.
You don't trust him because you know he's cheating on you. I'm sorry that you're going through this. Take your time, and keep it together.
I can relate somewhat.
Quick points. You should stop telling him what you wish, feel, etc. Seems he hates hearing it. (Just guessing here)
He is somewhat cold hearted & he wants you to be same (or wants you to fake it). Likely he was raised by cold hearted people…maybe. Not his fault…maybe.
No more discussion of saving money (just do it-don’t rub his nose in it). Absolutely make an exit plan but with no time table…unless you want a time table.
Yes, he is selfish but he has a luxury lifestyle & it is fine to enjoy that.
He uses his money to control you (and likely others). Save up your money & leave when you are tired of the game. (Keep it a secret & just leave.) Don’t try to bargain as likely he is an excellent negotiator…& you’ll get manipulated into something you don’t want/like.
Or stay with him because you genuinely love him (despite his cold hearted ways). He will likely never change – make peace & keep saving your money.
Love yourself…. Super important when you live! with a “narcissist” or whatever kind of person he is.
For her this was five years ago. For you this is happening right now. Don’t think you are being silly for being upset, you are rightfully upset about this. It is up to you if you think you can get through it or not, personally I might take a few days of space to see how I’m feeling about the relationship.
Yeah, but would it be justified for me to resent her if she chooses that?
It doesn't… really matter what he responds with at this point. You don't trust him, and that's the problem. He's probably given you other reasons not to trust him: the kind of thing that gave you reason to look in the condom drawer.
You don't trust him because you know he's cheating on you. I'm sorry that you're going through this. Take your time, and keep it together.